Slowly working her into it.

[Sometimesacuck]

I have been thinking and planning this for a little over a year. Slowly I have been trying to pervert my wife. I started asking her to watch porn with me. Then I got her a vibrator. Then I got her to use it while we were fucking and while I was licking her. A few times I have cut on group porn and she seems to like it. The last few times it has been all mfm. I think my next step is to tell her to get a boyfriend.

Really, she looks and acts to me like she wants it. I didn't know her that long before we got married, but she seems like the type of girl that probably slept with a lot of guys. I am pretty sure she would jump at the chance, but it seems like a big risk to take.

My only hesitation is jealousy. I have been thinking about this for so long, I think about it all day. Sometimes I turn on porn and picture the woman as my wife and the man as a specific one of my work friends, or the best man at my wedding. In particular, I love picturing my best man thrusting his cock into my wife.The only thing is that right after I blow my load, I think to myself "no way I would ever really be able to sit through that actually happening to my wife."

Should I go for it? Advice?

 

[Tease_Me]

Hi there,
as a wanna be, I suffer from the same "fear" (for lack of a better word) ... some insight into how others who have been through this would be great !!
You sure have a SEXY wife so if/when you make the leap i'm sure you wont have any trouble finding someone to pleasure your wife right in front of you

 

[smallcockpaul]

As long as the come down is there after you cum then DONT do it!

On the plus side, now that she is being more receptive you can tell her that it turns you on when she flirts with other men in front of you. You can then introduce talking about that into your sex life - next step after that is for her to kiss someone passionately and then talk about that etc etc

When you can cum and then think - "mmmm I'd love that to happen" THEN you are ready!

 

[cpieater]

chastity

this is where being kept in chastity by your wife comes in very handy! You don't get to cum while watching and after her lover has left -you and your wife can have a chance to reconnect and at her wish -she can allow you to release whatever way she sees fit! Possibly after she has been thouroughly cleaned!! btw -your wife is quite beautiful!!!

 

[becontree2001uk]

Beautiful wife you have. I say go for it and encourge your wife to cuckold you with a black big guy ;-) Jealousy, envy, guilt, etc., are commoin emotion felt by wannabe's and cuckolds.. Good luck with whatever you chose, and if you go for it let us all know!

 

[Custer Laststand]

Well, it's up to you (and, of course, your hot-looking wife)....

Sometimesacuck,

Your wife is definitely a very attractive, sexual-looking woman. Her style of dress and appearance in your photo is hot, for sure.

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—Custer

 

[Glenn]

Just remember to keep it real. Realizing fantasies that involve other people is not an easy task (emotionally, and sometimes logistically as well).

The first step for you and your wife is 'sharing' the fantasy. For some wives (and hubbies) this can be a little traumatic (to say the least). Of course you know your wife best, so only you can determine the best way to introduce the idea, but it sounds to me that you should ease her into it very slowly and gently. I wouldn't mention 'cuckold' as this term is likely unknown to her. I would just introduce her to the idea of an MMF threesome, and let her know that you think about it a lot. Get her honest feedback on it, but don't push it. Let her go at her own pace. For me and my wife, it took a long time, even though she was quite interested in the idea, mostly because she was somewhat surprised as first.

If all goes well with the fantasy sharing, the next step would obviously be to introduce the 'idea' of trying it out. Again, this is not something that you want to push on her, and for that matter, it's not something that you may want to rush on yourself either. It may take time for you to feel comfortable with the fact that you have actually 'asked' your wife if she would like to be intimate with another man. As for the logistics of 'trying it', I would suggest advertising on an adult dating site such as adultfriendfinder.com. You will get a lot of responses, but very few that will meet your needs (or not, depending on your needs of course). Remember though, a lot of these guys are married and cheating, not something that my wife and I find the least bit attractive. It's difficult to trust a man who is cheating on his wife, and trust is very important in any kind of relationship.

As for negative feelings, I've always found that self thought (fantasy) and good communication is the solution. Also, in the beginning, it helps to take it slowly. If you rush it too much, and find yourself in a situation where you are 'trying it' too often, then your emotions may get the better of you. If you ever find this happening, just take a break and let it build up again. Oh, and it's very common for guys to 'loose the desire' after they finish, especially in the 'trying it out' stage. For me, the best cure for that is to just talk about it. Let everyone know that you're done, maybe that you are exhausted, how good it was, etc. This usually gets the message across. Of course, a GOOD bull will already know these things, and he will not want you to feel bad, so he will probably quickly finish up as well, or simply just stop and declare how GREAT it all was.

Of course, this is all very subjective, and varies from person to person to person...

If you are really serious about this and would prefer to discuss it in private, just drop me a private message, and I can go into more detail about my personal experiences.

 

[Glenn]

Oh, sorry, I forgot to comment on your wife's pic, if that really is YOUR wife. Physically, she is definitely the type of woman who would be very successful in this lifestyle. Of course, as you already know, there is a LOT more to this lifestyle than the physical stuff.

 

[donnieboy5355]

Re: working her into it

I replied to a "couple" ad and met them to find that it's more like he wants to be cucked and she's not ready. I've been emailing the wife and trying to gently lead her into it but hard to be patient. She's seen the goods and wants it but can't get over the "first time" resistance. Any tips on helping hubby push her to me ? Almost acts like she resents him wanting to have her do it. Thoughts ?

 

[exploreallrealms]

Donnieboy

You need the cucks assistance in pushing her over the edge. Speak with him and have him set up a special night for her. After a few hours of drinks and dancing getting her juices flowing you "run" into them and take her, uhmean it from there.

 

[donnieboy5355]

Thanks. we're still writing...

 

[OneForSure]

Any update? Are things still going forward? Please let us know!

 

[AngleBaby]

Walk away from this one. If she resents him for wanting this to happen, you would be an instrument of their undoing as a couple.