Hi everyone,
Despite my username, it's more of a desire than a fact. But that looks like it might change sometime soon.
First of all, our relationship is a very unique type...we're long-distance. We've met twice and both times were incredible. We've been together a year now, and we are very devoted to each other. Due to a number of circumstances, we can't move together now, but hope to eventually, of course. It's a very deep and very loving relationship. She's 40 and I'm 44. But she looks 30, she's a BBW, gorgeous, blue eyes, long blonde hair, and a very sweet beautiful smile. She has two kids from a previous marriage, and is separated from her husband but not divorced. However, there is no chance for reconciliation there.
I was open and honest with her from the beginning about my cuckold desires, moreso than I'd ever been with anyone before. She was always accepting of them, even if she didn't fully understand them, and willing to explore in ways she might feel comfortable with. To date, we've done a few online things, where she would flirt and have cyber with some guys, and tease me about that, but nothing offline to date. She *almost* met a guy she used to meet once in a while for casual sex, but that was too early in our relationship and she backed out at the last minute, and probably that was a good choice at that time. We hadn't had a chance to meet in person yet and solidify our own intimate relationship which is important.
A development occurred suddenly this week, a former lover of hers IM'd her from out of the blue! And he wants to meet her "for a drink". We both know it will probably lead to more, so we needed to have a discussion about it, and did so all last evening. She is very clear that she no longer feels any love for him, which she did in the past. And because of the way he is, she is sure he doesn't for her either. The last few times he IM'd her asking about meeting, she didn't think he was serious, he wasn't being seductive at all. This time he is doing so, and being very complimentary which is appealing to her very much, plus he's being much more definite about when he'd like to meet with her (he wanted to meet next Monday though that won't work because she already has a medical appointment at that time). We had a long conversation about feelings and about how that would be the one aspect I'd be concerned about, but we shared how that won't happen, she is totally and completely in love with me. Her biggest hesitation is that she worries how I might truly feel, and though I've assured her that it would be nothing but very exciting for me, it still was something she needed to process for herself, because it's foreign to her way of thinking.
There is a bit more to it, but basically this morning, we talked about it some more. He had IM'd her earlier this morning (my time zone is far behind hers), and again asked to meet, and was talking about how he loved her hair, and how he misses their kisses and her lips (which are gorgeous!). She hasn't been reciprocating his flirting at this point, just thanking him for the compliments. We talked more about it, and I finally just told her to meet him...something I think she needed to hear. Once she heard that, she agreed and will be contacting him either tonight or tomorrow morning to set up the meeting! We *know* it will very likely lead to sex. He will want that, she is sure of it. On her part, she will see how things go, and if she feels to weird she will stop it before it starts, but she thinks it might be ok at this point, in terms of how she feels about it. She is being restrained, but I feel she is excited about the prospect and shared that with her in an email this morning after we logged off chat. We even talked about preparing for this "date"...helping her select some sexy lingerie, wearing an outfit that she knows will appeal to him, perfume he likes, other things like that.
I should offer an aside here and say that we do play with virtual chastity. After time she has become comfortable with tease and deny games with me, and she does keep me chaste for relatively long periods of time. I am on my honor as we don't use a device, and it's hard (literally!!!) at times, but I am loyal in this way (in ways I've never been with anyone else, I really do love this woman!!!). I've been chaste for 17 days now (going on 18) and we talked about keeping me so until after they meet, at least...he wants to meet sometime early next week if possible.
Anyway, I think she's excited that she's reached a decision and will be setting up the date soon! We even talked about the possibility of, if it works out ok, starting up something with him regularly, a "fuck buddy" relationship, and honestly it surprised me that she gave consideration to it in a positive way!
The whole thing is incredibly arousing to me, and I hope that it works out, though I will support and love her even if it doesn't. Wish me luck though!!!
Despite my username, it's more of a desire than a fact. But that looks like it might change sometime soon.
First of all, our relationship is a very unique type...we're long-distance. We've met twice and both times were incredible. We've been together a year now, and we are very devoted to each other. Due to a number of circumstances, we can't move together now, but hope to eventually, of course. It's a very deep and very loving relationship. She's 40 and I'm 44. But she looks 30, she's a BBW, gorgeous, blue eyes, long blonde hair, and a very sweet beautiful smile. She has two kids from a previous marriage, and is separated from her husband but not divorced. However, there is no chance for reconciliation there.
I was open and honest with her from the beginning about my cuckold desires, moreso than I'd ever been with anyone before. She was always accepting of them, even if she didn't fully understand them, and willing to explore in ways she might feel comfortable with. To date, we've done a few online things, where she would flirt and have cyber with some guys, and tease me about that, but nothing offline to date. She *almost* met a guy she used to meet once in a while for casual sex, but that was too early in our relationship and she backed out at the last minute, and probably that was a good choice at that time. We hadn't had a chance to meet in person yet and solidify our own intimate relationship which is important.
A development occurred suddenly this week, a former lover of hers IM'd her from out of the blue! And he wants to meet her "for a drink". We both know it will probably lead to more, so we needed to have a discussion about it, and did so all last evening. She is very clear that she no longer feels any love for him, which she did in the past. And because of the way he is, she is sure he doesn't for her either. The last few times he IM'd her asking about meeting, she didn't think he was serious, he wasn't being seductive at all. This time he is doing so, and being very complimentary which is appealing to her very much, plus he's being much more definite about when he'd like to meet with her (he wanted to meet next Monday though that won't work because she already has a medical appointment at that time). We had a long conversation about feelings and about how that would be the one aspect I'd be concerned about, but we shared how that won't happen, she is totally and completely in love with me. Her biggest hesitation is that she worries how I might truly feel, and though I've assured her that it would be nothing but very exciting for me, it still was something she needed to process for herself, because it's foreign to her way of thinking.
There is a bit more to it, but basically this morning, we talked about it some more. He had IM'd her earlier this morning (my time zone is far behind hers), and again asked to meet, and was talking about how he loved her hair, and how he misses their kisses and her lips (which are gorgeous!). She hasn't been reciprocating his flirting at this point, just thanking him for the compliments. We talked more about it, and I finally just told her to meet him...something I think she needed to hear. Once she heard that, she agreed and will be contacting him either tonight or tomorrow morning to set up the meeting! We *know* it will very likely lead to sex. He will want that, she is sure of it. On her part, she will see how things go, and if she feels to weird she will stop it before it starts, but she thinks it might be ok at this point, in terms of how she feels about it. She is being restrained, but I feel she is excited about the prospect and shared that with her in an email this morning after we logged off chat. We even talked about preparing for this "date"...helping her select some sexy lingerie, wearing an outfit that she knows will appeal to him, perfume he likes, other things like that.
I should offer an aside here and say that we do play with virtual chastity. After time she has become comfortable with tease and deny games with me, and she does keep me chaste for relatively long periods of time. I am on my honor as we don't use a device, and it's hard (literally!!!) at times, but I am loyal in this way (in ways I've never been with anyone else, I really do love this woman!!!). I've been chaste for 17 days now (going on 18) and we talked about keeping me so until after they meet, at least...he wants to meet sometime early next week if possible.
Anyway, I think she's excited that she's reached a decision and will be setting up the date soon! We even talked about the possibility of, if it works out ok, starting up something with him regularly, a "fuck buddy" relationship, and honestly it surprised me that she gave consideration to it in a positive way!
The whole thing is incredibly arousing to me, and I hope that it works out, though I will support and love her even if it doesn't. Wish me luck though!!!
