Serious post, Opinions welcome

[FunCuck]

I’m relatively new here and have only posted a few times.

My wife and I have engaged in cuck roleplay and I’ve enjoyed it, there’s no doubt of that. We’ve discussed taking things further but we have both admitted to being unsure.

Recently, my wife admitted to having several videos of her having sex with ex boyfriends and asked if I’d like to watch. Initially I was excited and was very keen to see. However I was totally taken aback by the reality. I was jealous, angry, possessive and not at all aroused by the reality of my wife being intimate with someone else.

My quandry is this. Have we gone too far to put it back in the bottle, as it were? It’s clear I don’t want the reality and merely want to enjoy the fantasy. My wife however seems to want it to continue. How do we navigate this. I can’t be in a situation where my wife is having sex with others, but I feel I may have passed the point where I can pull the handbrake.

I’m genuinely interested in peoples thoughts in this.

Thanks

 

[007cfc]

I was the one who nudged my wife into having sex with another man, but when I could hear he was about to actually fuck her, I filled with rage.
I was honestly seconds away from going in and kicking him out, but I knew he had entered her.
My rage instantly left me, and it was the most amazing night of our lives.
I still get a tiny bit jealous, but I think it's what makes it so exciting.

 

[FunCuck]

I was the one who nudged my wife into having sex with another man, but when I could hear he was about to actually fuck her, I filled with rage.
I was honestly seconds away from going in and kicking him out, but I knew he had entered her.
My rage instantly left me, and it was the most amazing night of our lives.
I still get a tiny bit jealous, but I think it's what makes it so exciting.

Such a fine line. To me, she clearly wants to press on. Would I be selfish to deny it when I’ve encouraged it?

Fantasy can be so, so different from reality

 

[faen]

Encouraging a fantasy isn’t consent to irl actions

The genie can go back in the bottle.

 

[GFtoShare]

Such a fine line. To me, she clearly wants to press on. Would I be selfish to deny it when I’ve encouraged it?

Fantasy can be so, so different from reality

Press on! Get her Fucked Hard, and clean up the mess after!

 

[Custer Laststand]

My wife and I have engaged in cuck roleplay and I’ve enjoyed it, there’s no doubt of that. We’ve discussed taking things further but we have both admitted to being unsure.

OK.....

Recently, my wife admitted to having several videos of her having sex with ex boyfriends and asked if I’d like to watch. Initially I was excited and was very keen to see. However I was totally taken aback by the reality. I was jealous, angry, possessive and not at all aroused by the reality of my wife being intimate with someone else.

Your response was not what you anticipated.....

My quandry is this. Have we gone too far to put it back in the bottle, as it were? It’s clear I don’t want the reality and merely want to enjoy the fantasy. My wife however seems to want it to continue. How do we navigate this. I can’t be in a situation where my wife is having sex with others, but I feel I may have passed the point where I can pull the handbrake. I’m genuinely interested in peoples thoughts in this.

Since your wife wants to be free to seduce and fuck other men, and you have encouraged her in that direction, but now have decided you don't want her to do that, you might consider that an outcome of "forbidding her to do that" may be that she will begin seeing other men without asking or telling you — i.e., she may begin taking lovers behind your back. Traditionally, women are considerably more skilled than men at concealing extra-marital sexual relationships.

Since you've decided you can't handle watching your wife fucking other men in front of you, you might consider an arrangement in which, by mutual agreement, your wife is free to date, seduce and fuck whomever she wishes, while you will remain faithful to her — but with the understanding that your wife will not fuck her lovers in your home, but rather will do so elsewhere, and will then tell you about her erotic experiences afterwards (if that would turn you on).

 

[2wheel]

I’m relatively new here and have only posted a few times.

My wife and I have engaged in cuck roleplay and I’ve enjoyed it, there’s no doubt of that. We’ve discussed taking things further but we have both admitted to being unsure.

Recently, my wife admitted to having several videos of her having sex with ex boyfriends and asked if I’d like to watch. Initially I was excited and was very keen to see. However I was totally taken aback by the reality. I was jealous, angry, possessive and not at all aroused by the reality of my wife being intimate with someone else.

My quandry is this. Have we gone too far to put it back in the bottle, as it were? It’s clear I don’t want the reality and merely want to enjoy the fantasy. My wife however seems to want it to continue. How do we navigate this. I can’t be in a situation where my wife is having sex with others, but I feel I may have passed the point where I can pull the handbrake.

I’m genuinely interested in peoples thoughts in this.

Thanks

If you couldn't handle it before you were together, it;s doubtful you could handle it while you're together.

The only Genie out of the bottle is the fantasy Genie.

Certainly there is the possibility that in making it real you might be able to handle it and in fact enjoy it, but it sounds unlikely.

Your relationship might one of those where 'what you don't know won't hurt you'. That is, she plays secretly - she's happy. You don't know - you're happy. BUT I'm not suggesting that.