Sandy.Reversed Roleplay;Need advice......

[whiteboystomp]

Hello Sandy,


I'm in my middle 20's and have been married for 5 years now. I'm a hung white male,and NOT a cuck,but always have enjoyed sharing my wife with other black men,and even white men.

Last year my wife hinted she wanted to witness me with another black woman and showed extreme interest in joining in....Anway;My wife is very submissive,both to me and my guests. Shes into it and I'm into it......So after awhile we found a black woman our age. She was extremly good looking and verbally agressive towards my wife.

While me and this woman were making love,she got off on calling my wife names....At first my wife got extremly turned on untill the woman started taking it to the extreme...Calling my wife racial names,telling me she wanted my baby,how she wanted to take me away from her,how she loved me ect ect....she would stare at my wife and laugh at her while I was fucking her ect ect......The more she would call my wife names,and I do admit I joined in on it because It was such a turn on..the More the woman got off,the more she came,the wetter she got...Anyway.....

After awhile I think the Woman broke my wife down mentally and she ended up storming out of the room,crying,but trying not to show it.....But after she did the woman keps on riding me and when she stormed out of the room she immediatly came while screaming very loudly how she loved me and hoped she got pregnant from this encounter....Away...I felt kind of guilty but it was SUCH a turn on! I've NEVER EVER had an orgasm like this....

This woman I'm now seeing more than 2 a week and my wife says she doesnt have a problem with her but I think maybe she does? She gets turned on but yet gets upset,and I feel real anomosity between the black woman and her?

please...WHAT do I do??????????????

 

[SandyWho]

Wow, are you in trouble with a capital "T"!

Oh, my!

No matter how much we complain about getting pregnant, every woman knows that is our ultimate hold over a guy. You black lady friend was really intent on driving a wedge between you and your wife and you are letting it happen. I think you need to spend some time with your wife alone and see what she is really feeling now.

No doubt she sees that your are having a great sexual experience and so she is both jealous and yet wants to make you happy. How would you feel about asking your lady friend if she has a guy that may be interested your wife? I am not encouraging you to turn to swinging but it looks like you are already almost there. Talk it over with her.

 

[BlackDomLdog]

Moderator SandyWho Advised:

No matter how much we complain about getting pregnant, every woman knows that is our ultimate hold over a guy. You black lady friend was really intent on driving a wedge between you and your wife and you are letting it happen. I think you need to spend some time with your wife alone and see what she is really feeling now.

No doubt she sees that your are having a great sexual experience and so she is both jealous and yet wants to make you happy. How would you feel about asking your lady friend if she has a guy that may be interested your wife? I am not encouraging you to turn to swinging but it looks like you are already almost there. Talk it over with her.

Sandy...Are you kidding me? This Black woman wanted MORE than to drive a wedge...she sounded like my first wife, who is white - she wanted to ruin the marriage, then destroy you, whiteboystomp.

As an example of my former wife's treachery: She interfered in most of my relationships with others after we got married. Whenever I talked to another woman, she did everything short of physical harm to keep them away. This spread to my school life as well...and I got her to calm down when we took classes together. When I had classes relating to my profession, she had a fit. She badmouthed and humiliated a female friend who would have been a wonderful wife to another Black classmate, then trashed my good name and reputation, including after the divorce.

whiteboystomp, My advice to you is to talk things over with your other half, and STOP SEEING this particular Black woman. There are OTHER Women that are considerate towards your wife's feelings...and will give good sex as well - to include Black women. From my personal experience, SOME women like her are scandalous, and greedy...and will ruin your marriage - then you.

Pardon my 'bitching,' but that is my two cents. :bitch:

 

[whiteboystomp]

Wow, are you in trouble with a capital "T"!

Oh, my!

No matter how much we complain about getting pregnant, every woman knows that is our ultimate hold over a guy. You black lady friend was really intent on driving a wedge between you and your wife and you are letting it happen. I think you need to spend some time with your wife alone and see what she is really feeling now.

No doubt she sees that your are having a great sexual experience and so she is both jealous and yet wants to make you happy. How would you feel about asking your lady friend if she has a guy that may be interested your wife? I am not encouraging you to turn to swinging but it looks like you are already almost there. Talk it over with her.

Thanks for the advice. I never thought about her getting pregnant just to hold something over my head. Wow. That puts a whole other twist on the situation......Especially since I don't use condemns with this woman. In-fact - She insists I don't. I really should start to be more carefull - But maybe thats some of the turn on - Just knowing that I'm having sexual encounters with a woman willing to risk it all......

But my wife's feelings are very important to me. So i'll gladly take your advice about spending time with her alone,and see what shes feeling.

Swinging: Yes....We swing once in awhile. I do share her with other men to.

 

[whiteboystomp]

Sandy...Are you kidding me? This Black woman wanted MORE than to drive a wedge...she sounded like my first wife, who is white - she wanted to ruin the marriage, then destroy you, whiteboystomp.

As an example of my former wife's treachery: She interfered in most of my relationships with others after we got married. Whenever I talked to another woman, she did everything short of physical harm to keep them away. This spread to my school life as well...and I got her to calm down when we took classes together. When I had classes relating to my profession, she had a fit. She badmouthed and humiliated a female friend who would have been a wonderful wife to another Black classmate, then trashed my good name and reputation, including after the divorce.

whiteboystomp, My advice to you is to talk things over with your other half, and STOP SEEING this particular Black woman. There are OTHER Women that are considerate towards your wife's feelings...and will give good sex as well - to include Black women. From my personal experience, SOME women like her are scandalous, and greedy...and will ruin your marriage - then you.

Pardon my 'bitching,' but that is my two cents. :bitch:

Non-sense. You always offer good advice. In-fact it's good to know you're one of the more sane(real) posters here at Darkcavern.

Dom. BTW. I never got to see a picture of your wife?

 

[BlackDomLdog]

I don't post pics...

But here's my wife and I on the day we married. My first wife had the looks of a 'barbie' type, but lacked the personality.

Thanks for your appreciation of our input.

 

[iraddicted]

But here's my wife and I on the day we married. My first wife had the looks of a 'barbie' type, but lacked the personality.

Thanks for your appreciation of our input.

Dude......... nevermind.

 

[BlackDomLdog]

ok, iraddicted...

What's the issue?

Did I mouth off? Say something wrong?

I'm not posting much on this forum...and here's a few reasons why:

• Spending time with the wife and family. Mother-in-law has between 3 months to a year to live. (Terminal Cancer)
• Looking for work. (Dominant or not...I'll be sleeping in the doghouse, if I don't find a job. MOST blacks are seen as lazy, but I'm not like most Blacks. lol)
• Dealing with a racist psycho in the Milwaukee area. (He harassed MY wife, destroyed MY laptop, and made verbal threats.) I know...Go figure.
• Helping in the search for the two missing Milwaukee boys.

I look at the person's personality now. My first wife has a barbie figure, but the personality needed work.