This is for one of my fans, TonyG who wrote me about his obsession--making his wife unfaithful. He wants her to have sex with another man or men but he doesn't want her seduced. "It should be sex not making love!" he said, but she is shy and would never act like a slut. He has a fantasy that some day she will have a boss that will demand sex to protect her job or keep her captive in a motel as a business trip turns to a pleasure trip for him.