Question from a first time bull

[jamesrobert]

so I have been with this couple a few times. They are young late 20 and I am younger, 23. It is not a full cuck situation, I dont degrade him or have him clean me up, but I have the upperhand. I fuck her when I want, with or without him, etc.

How do I bring it to the next level? I want more control. He has shown an interest but I need to know how to bring it up.

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

Talk to her privately. Never know, he might just be waiting for you to TAKE control, and not ask for it. In the same sense, if you are reading him wrong and you step up, he might stand up,,,,,,, talk to her.

 

[Puller]

The above is very good advice. Always work through the wife. She will know exactly what buttons need pushing and when to push and how much.

 

[CuckoldMick]

One of my wife's studs was very controlling both to Kris and me. He'd email both of us with directives. Sometimes he would tell Kris what to wear, what to do to me when she got home, etc. He would call me at home and order me to jack off or not and send instructions home with Kris for me to carry out--- like clean up duty. I ended up meeting him for lunch several times and we'd talk about "the play". He'd ask me what we liked and didn't like and tell me what he wanted to do. So--- in part we had an "agreement" about what would happen generally, how far we wanted to go, etc. Then he took over. One time he called Kris while we were driving to the store and ordered her to suck my cock in the car. Another time he ordered me to wear a Tux, drive her to his apartment and then stand in the corner and watch him fuck her in the ass. He'd send her home with cum all over the front of her blouse, then email me and tell me to hand wash the cum off. When he was feeling generous he'd let me participate. One night we took turns fucking Kris--- but before I came he ordered me into the closet and finished off himself. He had me make a special cum slut collar for Kris that she'd wear on her dates--- but he'd also make me wear it while I watched sometimes. He didn't taunt me, but while I watched he'd ask me questions, like "you like watching me fuck your wife, don't you Mick?" He also would blindfold me and make me listen in the same room--- sometimes he'd have Kris suck me cock for a few seconds while he fucked her, but would never let her finish me off. I could go on, but you get the idea.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Jamesrobert,

So, I have been with this couple a few times. .... I have the upperhand. I fuck [my married woman] when I want, with or without him, etc.

Congratulations! It sounds like you're doing well. Regarding your question:

How do I bring it to the next level? I want more control. [The cuckold] has shown an interest but I need to know how to bring it up.

Cuckoldinpanties' reply:

Talk to [your married woman] privately. You never know, [her cuckold] might be waiting for you to TAKE control without asking for it. On the other hand, if you are reading him wrong and you step up, he might stand up.... so, talk to her.

and Puller's reply:

The above is very good advice. Always work through the wife. She will know exactly what buttons need pushing, when to push, and how much.

are good advice, while CuckoldMark has provided some good examples.

A way to get started "moving your cuckold forward," so to speak, would be to discuss the following privately with your married woman and, if she is in agreement, inform her cuckold that henceforth he will always address you as "Mr. [your last name]." You can then address him always by his first name, or use relatively demeaning forms of address for him, as you like. Some possibilities would include: Cuckold [his first name], Boy [his first name], Pantyboy, etc.

Also inform him that henceforth, when he and his cuckoldress are together in your presence — or alone together when you are not present — he will always show proper respect by addressing his wife as "Ma'am," or "Ms. [her first name]," or "Boss," or "Queen [her first name]," or use other properly respectful forms of address that are acceptable to her. In addition, he will show proper respect by *always* doing what his cuckoldress tells him to do. "Yes, Ma'am" (or equivalent) will be the only acceptable reply. For instance: "Clean up the kitchen and take out the garbage, sweetie buns." "Yes, Ma'am."

You might also agree in advance with your married woman that she will always use slightly-demeaning forms of female address for her cuckold and never call him by his male name. For example, "darling," "sweetheart," "sugar lips," "sweetie buns," etc.

If your married woman agrees regarding these changes and seems to be "into it," you might also suggest that she panty her cuckold, easing him into it, at first, then finally keeping him pantied all day every day and perhaps 24/7, including when they're in bed together. The idea, of course, would be to guide him to full acceptance of your married woman being the one who wears the pants in her household while he wears the panties.

If your married woman's cuckold seems to require an approach slightly more subtle than her simply ordering him to wear panties (and throwing out his tightywhities and/or boxers), you might suggest she read:

http://femalesupremacist.org/subject2_training_him.html

and adopt an approach along those lines.

—Custer

 

[jamesrobert]

thanks guys, trying it out next time i see her.