ive posted this in another section but i think this is the correct place to ask this question.im white and have a flaccid penis of under 2 inch but grows to just under 3 inches when hard(or should i say erect as my erections are very soft) and i come within seconds of penetration. i didn't take my girl's virginiy because i busted my nut on the sheets before i could get inside of her. that happens to me alot.my girl wants me to ask some of my black friends if they could give me tips on being better in bed and making her have an orgasm. my black friends are always talking about how their women love to have sex with them and i can never say anything because we've seen each other in the locker room at our gym and they've remarked on how small i am and how my girl is probably already tired with my short and thin penis. i couldn't say anything because i know thier right. do any black men know how sex with my girl can be better and how to stop cumming in seconds?
will any guys help me out with this. give me some advice?
Not a guy, but from my perspective if you get the girl off orally or with your fingers before you try penitration, if things dont go well for you at least she has gotten something out of it. Ive been with men who arent especally so well endowed, but I was satisfied because of the forplay. Size doesnt mean everything in a relationship in my view. If your lady is a size queen, perhaps a lover can take care of that part of your relationship and she still satisfy you emotionally and sexually.
As far as the premature ejaculation is concerned....presuming it isnt a medical thing, Id think the more you play, the less sensative you will be. Kinna like the teen age boy getting his first romp in the back of the minivan. Ask your lady friend to be patient untill you can fully penetrate, and be more patient untill you can last 5 or 10 minutes. Just my opinion.....
When a guy ejaculates in me very quickly, I know that he is very aroused at the sight of my sexiness. I have had powerful bulls with a reputation for being long-stayers, and they have cum within 2 mins of getting inside my tight pussy clamp. But the first squirt reduces their excitement back to manageable levels, and then they can regain their staying power for the second and third sperm bath they give me.
I agree with Mistress Susan that a guy needs to become really good at oral to reduce the anxiety over personal performance. Put all the focus on her, and just penetrate her wet slopes without any stimulation to your penis. A cold penis will last longer. Touching your penis too much before penetration will get your pre-cum dripping too soon, and it will ejaculate after just a few strokes.
One technique is to satisfy her with several oral orgasms, then put your cock in very cold water to shrink it for 10 mins to a very small size. Then lick her until your cock grows to an erection, then insert it without touching it. It will usually last a surprisingly long time.
A premature ejaculator could loan his wife to black bulls, and when she brings the cream pies home for him to lick up, he can add his urgent droplets into her.
A premature ejaculator could easily become a excellent cuckold, and if he was caged, he could learn more self-control from denial of masturbation as well as orgasmic release.
Ideally a premature ejaculator should be prostrate milked instead, so that it flows out slowly instead of like a volcanic eruption.
A regular dose of extra oestogen female hormones could slow down the premature ejaculator's urgency to shoot a bullseye.
Its all good man. premature ejaculation isn't the end of the world. love yourself!!
whiteminuteman said:
ive posted this in another section but i think this is the correct place to ask this question.im white and have a flaccid penis of under 2 inch but grows to just under 3 inches when hard(or should i say erect as my erections are very soft) and i come within seconds of penetration. i didn't take my girl's virginiy because i busted my nut on the sheets before i could get inside of her. that happens to me alot.my girl wants me to ask some of my black friends if they could give me tips on being better in bed and making her have an orgasm. my black friends are always talking about how their women love to have sex with them and i can never say anything because we've seen each other in the locker room at our gym and they've remarked on how small i am and how my girl is probably already tired with my short and thin penis. i couldn't say anything because i know thier right. do any black men know how sex with my girl can be better and how to stop cumming in seconds?
will any guys help me out with this. give me some advice?
