Hello guys. I am very new here. So excuse me if my first post is not up to the mark or in accordance with the customs and conventions of this forum.
I seek help and advice, from both males and females who have some sort of an experience in the lifestyle. Please bear with me on the background and details before I put forth my query.
I am a 32year old male married to a beautiful wife who is 30. Cuckolding is a huge turn on and a fantasy for me. But I’ve always been afraid to let this fantasy out as my wife is quite conservative.
We are based in Pakistan and quite well to do, well travelled and educated couple. We have been married 5 years and love each other and enjoy each other’s company, overall very satisfied married life. As regards our sex life, it is occasional (that’s on me) and I would describe it as plain vanilla or say we aren’t really on the same page perhaps due to lack of communication by me on what I’d like. She is hot with very aggressive sex drive, but is just satisfied with usual routine sex, i.e. bit of foreplay followed by intercourse and that’s it. Until NOW!
So recently while she was not at home and we were texting, I straight away told her that I really think I am failing to match her sex drive and that I feel she is not getting the best experience and hence we need to spice things up. So just for starters I sent her a Yes/No/Maybe and said fill it up and send it to me. There were quite a few surprising answers there like having outdoor sex or exhibitionism, but much to my disappointment she marked a NO to threesome and group sex. Nevertheless, I responded by saying that I was blown away by her answers and that I couldn’t believe she down for a lot of things I didn’t expect, she responded back very positively and we both got really really excited as our conversation began to turn into sexting. Then I decided to play my move cheekily, and I texted ‘No threesomes?’ She responded by saying Maybe and asked me back if I’d be down for it, from thereon I proceeded to ask her questions like MFM or MFF, with friends or stranger? She basically made answered all the questions in the right direction i.e. she would want MFM with a stranger in a hotel room or his place etc. She really got turned on by this conversation and even ask how would we do it? I was quite surprised but also was a little sceptical thinking maybe she is just playing along and it’s just sexting.
Anyhow, this culminated in to bedroom talk and while we were into foreplay and started whispering our dirty talk I asked her about how would she feel about a threesome. I was expecting her to change the topic maybe as we never had such an open talk about our sex life. However she responded by telling me everything. Saying she wants a stranger and me to fuck her, and we continued to discuss what all a stranger would do to her in my presence. At one point she asked me if I’d let him cum in her I said yes, she let out a moan and then asked if I would do fuck her with the strangers cum still inside, I said yes and she was getting wet from all this conversation. We had great sex (She did positions she never did and took it like a champ) that night and it was very verbal talking all about a threesome (and at one point she said yes to adding in more guys, and also that sometimes she’d go and fuck him without letting me know and send me videos).
I believe at this point any guy who wants to be a cuckold would think he has succeeded in letting the slut out and closer to the goal. But I am still not sure, as I always thought of my wife of being very conservative (someone who has not and does not watch porn - although from the talks of her it seemed she had ideas coming out of porn), and so I feel that all this was done so in the rush of the moment i.e. first while sexting and second during wild sex, and that may be she isn’t really really into this. I did tell her that to spice things up we will have open conversations and those conversations would not be brought up outside our zone, like during the day. So in order to not push her or scare her out of it I have not brought it up with her other than when we are in the zone.
My question is, from the above information, do you guys think I am right in being sceptical as there is a chance a woman might just say all this in the heat of things even if she wasn’t into it and wouldn’t follow it up in real life OR if she has said all that then there is a slutty side of her that she opened up with me and a woman wouldn’t say all this if she wasn’t into it or get turned on by all this?
Help me out guys, it will help me chalk out my next move (which maybe booking a hotel and bring in a stranger to fuck her and film it - which she said she’d want to do)
Throbbin.
I seek help and advice, from both males and females who have some sort of an experience in the lifestyle. Please bear with me on the background and details before I put forth my query.
I am a 32year old male married to a beautiful wife who is 30. Cuckolding is a huge turn on and a fantasy for me. But I’ve always been afraid to let this fantasy out as my wife is quite conservative.
We are based in Pakistan and quite well to do, well travelled and educated couple. We have been married 5 years and love each other and enjoy each other’s company, overall very satisfied married life. As regards our sex life, it is occasional (that’s on me) and I would describe it as plain vanilla or say we aren’t really on the same page perhaps due to lack of communication by me on what I’d like. She is hot with very aggressive sex drive, but is just satisfied with usual routine sex, i.e. bit of foreplay followed by intercourse and that’s it. Until NOW!
So recently while she was not at home and we were texting, I straight away told her that I really think I am failing to match her sex drive and that I feel she is not getting the best experience and hence we need to spice things up. So just for starters I sent her a Yes/No/Maybe and said fill it up and send it to me. There were quite a few surprising answers there like having outdoor sex or exhibitionism, but much to my disappointment she marked a NO to threesome and group sex. Nevertheless, I responded by saying that I was blown away by her answers and that I couldn’t believe she down for a lot of things I didn’t expect, she responded back very positively and we both got really really excited as our conversation began to turn into sexting. Then I decided to play my move cheekily, and I texted ‘No threesomes?’ She responded by saying Maybe and asked me back if I’d be down for it, from thereon I proceeded to ask her questions like MFM or MFF, with friends or stranger? She basically made answered all the questions in the right direction i.e. she would want MFM with a stranger in a hotel room or his place etc. She really got turned on by this conversation and even ask how would we do it? I was quite surprised but also was a little sceptical thinking maybe she is just playing along and it’s just sexting.
Anyhow, this culminated in to bedroom talk and while we were into foreplay and started whispering our dirty talk I asked her about how would she feel about a threesome. I was expecting her to change the topic maybe as we never had such an open talk about our sex life. However she responded by telling me everything. Saying she wants a stranger and me to fuck her, and we continued to discuss what all a stranger would do to her in my presence. At one point she asked me if I’d let him cum in her I said yes, she let out a moan and then asked if I would do fuck her with the strangers cum still inside, I said yes and she was getting wet from all this conversation. We had great sex (She did positions she never did and took it like a champ) that night and it was very verbal talking all about a threesome (and at one point she said yes to adding in more guys, and also that sometimes she’d go and fuck him without letting me know and send me videos).
I believe at this point any guy who wants to be a cuckold would think he has succeeded in letting the slut out and closer to the goal. But I am still not sure, as I always thought of my wife of being very conservative (someone who has not and does not watch porn - although from the talks of her it seemed she had ideas coming out of porn), and so I feel that all this was done so in the rush of the moment i.e. first while sexting and second during wild sex, and that may be she isn’t really really into this. I did tell her that to spice things up we will have open conversations and those conversations would not be brought up outside our zone, like during the day. So in order to not push her or scare her out of it I have not brought it up with her other than when we are in the zone.
My question is, from the above information, do you guys think I am right in being sceptical as there is a chance a woman might just say all this in the heat of things even if she wasn’t into it and wouldn’t follow it up in real life OR if she has said all that then there is a slutty side of her that she opened up with me and a woman wouldn’t say all this if she wasn’t into it or get turned on by all this?
Help me out guys, it will help me chalk out my next move (which maybe booking a hotel and bring in a stranger to fuck her and film it - which she said she’d want to do)
Throbbin.
