A one time statement from me:
I am not banned. I can post if I choose--I just choose not to. This site is a shell of its former self and no amount of good intention on the part of certain moderators (current or past) is going to change that. I've resolved myself, reluctantly, to that unpleasant truth. This site could care less about the swinging lifestyle or realism. It's all about freakish interests and divergent obsessions and that is fine with the administration because that's the demographic that constitutes their cash cow. So be it. I can and will take my more realistic and swinger mentality elsewhere. I certainly do not need this site to continue my interracial swinging pursuits. I have swinglifestyle, swappernet, c4p.com, sdc and my own 10,000 plus member yahoo group for that.
And contrary to what Mule or anyone else thinks, I only banned those people who earned it by their behavior and actions. If I were to ban people from this site simply because I disliked them, many would never have been reinstated (whammer is a perfect case in point; I banned him and I also reinstated him). As it is, I no longer care one way or another who is here, what kind of fucked up content is allowed or what transpires. Have at it. The freakshow is all yours.