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For months I have been nagging at the wife to try new things. We explored a few areas, but never went to far. See said this kind of stuff didnt interest her. She would give me an occasional spanking, but not much else. I kept tring to get her to spank me in front of others, and let me watch her with another man(I could go on). She is very flirty, and likes to get attention. She said she never let it go any further, but now I'm wondering. I have thrown out several ideas to her some serious, and some just to get a reaction. Just trying to spice things up a little. Well she did here home work, and out of no where every thing changed. She is like an old pro. I know I asked for it, but all at once. Where did that come from? Am I missing something?
For months I have been nagging at the wife to try new things. We explored a few areas, but never went to far. See said this kind of stuff didnt interest her. She would give me an occasional spanking, but not much else. I kept tring to get her to spank me in front of others, and let me watch her with another man(I could go on). She is very flirty, and likes to get attention. She said she never let it go any further, but now I'm wondering. I have thrown out several ideas to her some serious, and some just to get a reaction. Just trying to spice things up a little. Well she did here home work, and out of no where every thing changed. She is like an old pro. I know I asked for it, but all at once. Where did that come from? Am I missing something?
I know lots of people would likely appreciate a photo, but what you're asking of people shouldn't need one. I think in some cases, some wives just need some help to clear whatever the mental hurdles are in their minds. You have to remember that this is often a male fantasy, and brought up by males to their wives. Even other fetishes and fantasies are often brought up by the husband versus the wife. Women often are raised to think that this sort of thing, as well as many things are just plain wrong, and that it would make them a bad person. Then they also often wonder why it is you're trying so hard to get them to do these new things, and they need time to search for your "angle" so to speak. Now that said, you mentioned she did her homework and like a canon going off, she was primed and ready. Perhaps in her homework she found the answer to clearing whatever hurdle she had inside that prevented her from allowing herself this pleasure in the first place. I do know from my own homework, and my own experience, that you can lead the horse to water, but you can't make it drink. That has to happen on its own. In some respects you should feel fortunate. Many women out there will never drink even though their husbands want them to desperately. Yours chose to, and as such, your situation is very rare and prosperous. Be thankful, talk and share openly, set guidelines together because they're really quite helpful for you both, and enjoy the journey you're on together. Don't ever forget you're doing this together even if she's the one getting the action on the side. I'm not sure if I've helped answer your question, or given you any insight, but it's all I got!
