Hey everyone! Thought I’d introduce myself and give you run down on my situation. First of all, this profile is for me. An outlet for me to vent and contemplate on my feelings, talk to people, find friends, and just share our story. My wife is aware that I’m here.
So, I guess I’ll try to start at the very beginning and keep things short (I have tendency to babble a lot) but also try to give a better picture who I am and what our relationship and marriage is like and how we got where we are now.
We met in our early twenties. Everything happened quite organically and we formed a really close friendship. It was just a matter of time before we started dating. We had a good chemistry from right from the start. We were both really different than what we were used to date before but funny enough we liked a lot of similar things. The older we get the more we realize how different we actually are but still it only seems to make our relationship stronger.
I guess our biggest difference was our sexual past. She had a wild past and I felt like she was kind of out of my league. I was a late bloomer and only had been with two women before her. I was also more nerdy and mature than what she was used to dating. What she found most important was the emotional maturity that we had between us compared to her past lovers and bf’s.
She’s been really open about her past. I’ve enjoyed hearing about her adventures a lot. I guess that has made us, gravitate towards this lifestyle. I never felt jealous about what she’s done or how many men she’s been with. In contrary, it excited us to actually form a deeper connection between us and explore our sexuality (just between the two of us at first) but more than anything deeply emotional.
We went through some rough times, things outside our relationship, lot of stress at work, both exhausted and amidst everything although our relationship stayed strong, our sexlife waned drastically. We both made career changes that helped both of us. And our sexlife picked up again but we noticed it wasn’t what it used to be and lacked spark. I could also see her sexual restlessness was picking up. So we decided to spice things up.
We tried a couple threesomes with a reliable guy she knew. It was incredibly hot, but I couldn’t help but feel nervous during the whole thing. We thought it was just my nerves and it was my first time, and I loved seeing wife enjoy so much, so we did a couple times more with the same guy. I still didn’t feel comfortable enough to enjoy it fully, it was like I was so self conscious all the time, making comparisons every second, but I did enjoy just passively watching them.
It took one and a half sessions of swapping and a gf of a swap partner to nudge us towards cuckolding. It took a lot of soul searching for me to be man enough to accept that I have a side that really likes being a cuckold. It was a big step for us to take but we eventually did.
We tried to find a guy who’d have experience in cuckolding, but we only managed to find weirdos and fakes. So eventually she met and dated men solo since it seemed to be the easiest way. It was hot having her go out and just enjoy each other when she got home. It was kinda on/off situation, she’d date when she got the urge.
She stopped seeing when we tried to get pregnant, but she kept seeing couple guys when it was safe. When life settled a bit we talked a lot about the future and she was tired of finding new guys and hoping to find a good chemistry and we both agreed it would be best if we’d have someone safe and reliable for a long term relationship. We finally were lucky enough to find her current lover.
They’ve been together for couple years now and we’ve been able to take our relationship in to another level. We’ve been able to explore things we’ve only been able to fantasise about before. It’s been quite a journey and we’re very excited how much more we can explore. It’s funny looking back what kind of boundaries we set when we started and how much they’ve changed and how our dynamic has changed overall. We are both enjoying our life a lot, it’s busy and sometimes exhausting to manage and schedule everything but it has been and is worth it.
I’ll probably post more about some things we’ve done and some things we are planning to do and just vent on feelings that sometimes creep up. Anyway, I’m hoping to meet new people and hopefully get to know some of you a bit.
So, I guess I’ll try to start at the very beginning and keep things short (I have tendency to babble a lot) but also try to give a better picture who I am and what our relationship and marriage is like and how we got where we are now.
We met in our early twenties. Everything happened quite organically and we formed a really close friendship. It was just a matter of time before we started dating. We had a good chemistry from right from the start. We were both really different than what we were used to date before but funny enough we liked a lot of similar things. The older we get the more we realize how different we actually are but still it only seems to make our relationship stronger.
I guess our biggest difference was our sexual past. She had a wild past and I felt like she was kind of out of my league. I was a late bloomer and only had been with two women before her. I was also more nerdy and mature than what she was used to dating. What she found most important was the emotional maturity that we had between us compared to her past lovers and bf’s.
She’s been really open about her past. I’ve enjoyed hearing about her adventures a lot. I guess that has made us, gravitate towards this lifestyle. I never felt jealous about what she’s done or how many men she’s been with. In contrary, it excited us to actually form a deeper connection between us and explore our sexuality (just between the two of us at first) but more than anything deeply emotional.
We went through some rough times, things outside our relationship, lot of stress at work, both exhausted and amidst everything although our relationship stayed strong, our sexlife waned drastically. We both made career changes that helped both of us. And our sexlife picked up again but we noticed it wasn’t what it used to be and lacked spark. I could also see her sexual restlessness was picking up. So we decided to spice things up.
We tried a couple threesomes with a reliable guy she knew. It was incredibly hot, but I couldn’t help but feel nervous during the whole thing. We thought it was just my nerves and it was my first time, and I loved seeing wife enjoy so much, so we did a couple times more with the same guy. I still didn’t feel comfortable enough to enjoy it fully, it was like I was so self conscious all the time, making comparisons every second, but I did enjoy just passively watching them.
It took one and a half sessions of swapping and a gf of a swap partner to nudge us towards cuckolding. It took a lot of soul searching for me to be man enough to accept that I have a side that really likes being a cuckold. It was a big step for us to take but we eventually did.
We tried to find a guy who’d have experience in cuckolding, but we only managed to find weirdos and fakes. So eventually she met and dated men solo since it seemed to be the easiest way. It was hot having her go out and just enjoy each other when she got home. It was kinda on/off situation, she’d date when she got the urge.
She stopped seeing when we tried to get pregnant, but she kept seeing couple guys when it was safe. When life settled a bit we talked a lot about the future and she was tired of finding new guys and hoping to find a good chemistry and we both agreed it would be best if we’d have someone safe and reliable for a long term relationship. We finally were lucky enough to find her current lover.
They’ve been together for couple years now and we’ve been able to take our relationship in to another level. We’ve been able to explore things we’ve only been able to fantasise about before. It’s been quite a journey and we’re very excited how much more we can explore. It’s funny looking back what kind of boundaries we set when we started and how much they’ve changed and how our dynamic has changed overall. We are both enjoying our life a lot, it’s busy and sometimes exhausting to manage and schedule everything but it has been and is worth it.
I’ll probably post more about some things we’ve done and some things we are planning to do and just vent on feelings that sometimes creep up. Anyway, I’m hoping to meet new people and hopefully get to know some of you a bit.
