One more step closer...

[mdownsuk]

Wife and I went out on Saturday and ended up at a club for a very exciting time. I'd guessed that she was planning something as she denied me making love in the morning. She just said that she wanted to get up and get on with the day. On the way to the club she admitted that she wanted to save herself for later.

We got to the club and she had her eye on one guy. I just sat and watched. He was good looking and in the age bracket that she likes (she prefers them youngish). Anyway, she said he was a good dancer and gave her the hots. However, before she knew what was happening another guy hit on her and pulled her. They danced and held each other for a while (and kissed) and then went upstairs for a breath of fresh air (we were in the basement bar). I sat for a minute wondering what was happening and the immediately followed them. They were on the street kissing very passionately. I hadn't seen my wife like this for a long time (we've been married 14 years). She was really going for it and so was he.

They pretty much carried on like this most of the night. My wife said that at the time she didn't know how I was feeling. She said I looked 'moody' but that she thought she was going to do it anyway as I've been going on about it for a while now. However, I didn't feel moody at all, I felt as horny as hell. I got some photos of her kissing and dancing with him which make me as horny as hell (sorry -I'm not going to post them as they're too persona to us at the moment).

Near the end of the night (it was a late one) she came back to me, saying that she was too tired for anything more. However, I felt lucky with what I'd got. She admitted to me the next day that she regretted not hitting on the first guy as she would have felt much more sexually excited with him and that next time she won't hang about waiting to see what will happen.

What made matters a little more awkward, was that 3 of our friends were there and saw it, but she says she doesn't mind. She says that she'd had a chat with one of them about her 'dark side' and that she likes to let it out once in while. Oh well. Hopefully I'll be cucked sooner than later (I've been in this for the long haul now - nearly a year and a half).

 

[Custer Laststand]

Sounds like your wife is making good progress....

Mdownsuk,

Thanks for the update. It sounds like your wife is moving forward, despite her earlier man of interest not working out. (That is, the man she used to work with; he's about 10 years younger, as I recall.)

We got to the club and she had her eye on one guy. I just sat and watched. He was good looking and in the age bracket that she likes (she prefers them youngish). Anyway, she said he was a good dancer and gave her the hots.

Cool....

However, before she knew what was happening another guy hit on her and pulled her.

Whoops!

They danced and held each other for a while (and kissed) and then went upstairs for a breath of fresh air (we were in the basement bar). I sat for a minute wondering what was happening and the immediately followed them. They were on the street kissing very passionately. I hadn't seen my wife like this for a long time (we've been married 14 years). She was really going for it and so was he.

Good recovery, on your wife's part....

They pretty much carried on like this most of the night.

....but she didn't make the key move, which would have been leaving with him to go to his place (or yours).

My wife said that at the time she didn't know how I was feeling. She said I looked 'moody' but that she thought she was going to do it anyway as I've been going on about it for a while now.

Your wife will have to get beyond hesitating because "she isn't sure how you feel about it." Maybe this is something you could assist her with...—?

Near the end of the night (it was a late one) she came back to me, saying that she was too tired for anything more.

Perhaps next time you and your wife do this, if she connects with a man who appears to be a possibility, you could encourage her by motioning for her to meet you near the restrooms using a prearranged signal. Then, tell her to have an enjoyable evening, you're leaving now. Then depart — thereby, in effect, cutting off her retreat. But for safety, of course, both of you should have cell phones, and she should call you just before departing with her lover-in-waiting to let you know who he is and where she's going with him.

She admitted to me the next day that she regretted not hitting on the first guy as she would have felt much more sexually excited with him and that next time she won't hang about waiting to see what will happen.

Yes, it sounds like your wife is an attractive woman. Her experience suggests she should not just wait to see who approaches to ask her to dance, since (as she found) that could be the man who is fastest on his feet but not necessarily most desirable. Rather, it appears she will be better off to take the initiative and approach the man she considers most desirable, perhaps walking up immediately to take a place at the bar next to him, or at least, sufficiently close to make eye contact and get his attention.

What made matters a little more awkward, was that 3 of our friends were there and saw it, but she says she doesn't mind.

Excellent! Your wife has sufficient self-confidence to not be overly concerned with what others think. That's very positive.

Hopefully I'll be cucked sooner than later....

Yes, I think so. If you repeat the experience you described, your wife will probably make you her cuckold before too much longer. Re. "getting there," 1-1/2 years is not too long. I'd say she, and you with her, have made major progress.

Best regards—

Custer

 

[OneForSure]

Mdownsuk,

Any new developments?

I certainly hope that things are still going in the right direction. Being cucked is a fantastic high!

I hope your "sooner" is real soon. Let us know!