Not sure if this is the right place to post this?

[I_am_cuck]

Well I do not think my wife has gotten a new b/f, but I do suspect her of having a few ONS's here and there, (by semen stains in her panties I think, or maybe just pee stains, not sure?). She just says she was out with the girls having fun and thats it. I do not know why she wouldn't admit it, she knows I can do nothing but accept, as I've done in the past.

The reason of my new thread title is I am now in panties 24/7, by direction of my wife. She gave me several of her old panties and we bought a bunch of other ones, including a teddy for me. I sit to pee, even when out of the house, (her order again). As she is clean shaven, she said she wanted me to do the same, so I am clean shaven like a baby. It looked weird at first, but I sorta like it now. I shave my whole body and its soooo smooth.

She also bought a new strap on, this is from a black porno dude, Lex Steele, sp? It hurt the first few times she used it, but I take it ok now.

Oh, and as before, I still get spanked when bad, and that hurts, A LOT. But now she spanks me with what she calls, 'love spanks', every day or so. They are softer smacks on my butt, but she does it, a lot more times, so my tush is really red, but it doesn't hurt so much. She still gives me a hickey or two on my butt when she is done.

I follow her around when we shop, and we shop for hours. I help her pick her outfits out and we just have fun shopping. I used to hate it, but for some reason I love it now.

We don't talk of her affairs anylonger, but I do feel hurt still. I am happy just doing what she says and wants. She treats me good and she loves me and I am happy following her and making her happy.

I will say since I am in panties 24/7 and with some of the other stuff I have to do, I do not feel as masculine as I want sometimes, (hard sex with her), but she says its ok, she can use her dildo if she wants. She wants me to eat her out all the time, thats my job she says.

 

[Custer Laststand]

I_am_cuck,

This is a good place for your post.

Well, I do not think my wife has a new b/f, but I do suspect her of having a few ONS's here and there (by semen stains in her panties, or maybe just pee stains, not sure).

ONS => overnight stay? If so, it seems like you would know that for sure. Either your wife is home with you overnight, or she isn't.

She just says she was out with the girls having fun and that's it.

Maybe your wife means she goes out to have fun with her woman friends, then fun consists of hooking up with a man and fucking him. Maybe some or all of them do likewise.

I do not know why she won't admit it, she knows I can do nothing but accept [her fucking other men], as I've done in the past.

I suggest a conversation in which you mention to your wife that for reasons of safety, it's important for you to know who she's with and where she is. (Make this a "just the facts, ma'am" conversation; don't act upset or angry in any way.) Point out that without that knowledge, if she were to disappear you'd have no idea where to tell the police to start looking. That would be embarrassing for you, unhelpful to them, and unhelpful to her (if she were still alive). In addition, you might point out to your wife that if she disappears and you can tell the police nothing about whom to suspect, *you* would be a "person of interest" or a leading suspect until she is found.... and if only her body is found with no other clues, you — more than likely — would be charged and convicted. (When a homicide occurs, the first suspects are usually husbands, lovers, close family members and friends.) You could then become one of the men serving *long* prison sentences for crimes they did not commit. (There are more than a few.)

Thus, I strongly suggest convincing your wife to let you know, via cell phone calls or text messages, who she is with when she's out — especially who the man is if she meets a man, where she will be, and when you should expect her back home. A good approach to take may be to begin by convincing your wife that one of your most important roles as her cuckold is to ensure her safety by, in essence, working with her as "your half" of a team.... the other half, of course, being her.

The reason of my new thread title is I am now in panties 24/7, by direction of my wife. She gave me several of her old panties and we bought some new panties....

Good for your wife for ordering you to wear panties, and good for you for complying. This should assist you with your self-image as her cuckold....

....and a teddy for me.

VERY good. It will also assist you with your self-image to sleep in a teddy....

I sit to pee, even when out of the house (her order again). As she is clean shaven, she said she wanted me to do the same, so I am clean shaven like a baby. It looked weird at first, but I sorta like it now. I shave my whole body and it's soooo smooth.

All good.... very positive.

She also bought a new strap on from a black porno dude, Lex Steele(sp?). It hurt the first few times she used it, but I take it ok now.

Sounds like you're working to change your self-image in the ways desired by your wife, and to adapt yourself to what she requires of you....

As before, I still get spanked when bad, and that hurts A LOT. But now she spanks me with what she calls 'love spanks' every day or so. They are softer smacks on my butt, but she does it a lot more times, so my tush is really red, but it doesn't hurt so much.

It's good to hear your wife is maintaining your disciplinary regimen. If she spanks you "somewhat softly but at length" every day, you may develop calluses on your ass so your spankings will eventually become less painful.

She still gives me a hickey or two on my butt when she is done.

That's very sweet of your wife.

I follow her around when we shop, and we shop for hours. I help her pick her outfits out and we just have fun shopping. I used to hate it, but for some reason I love it now.

You're doing well as a cuckold. Part of your role should definitely be assisting and advising your wife with picking out and purchasing hot, revealing outfits to wear on her dates.... outfits that will turn on her existing lovers so intensively they'll hardly be able to resist fucking her whenever she's with them, and help her attract new ones.

We don't talk of her affairs any longer, but I do feel hurt still.

This is a problem. For safety reasons, as noted above, your wife needs to keep you informed of what she's doing with other men.

I am happy just doing what my wife says and wants. She treats me well and she loves me. I am happy following her and making her happy. I will say since I am in panties 24/7 and what with some of the other stuff I have to do, I do not always feel as masculine as I would like. (This can make sex with her difficult.) But my wife says that's ok, she can use her dildo if she wants. She likes me to [suck her cunt frequently]; that's my job, she says.

All this sounds good. If you have become skilled as your wife's cuntsucker, that's especially good.... it's important to suck her cunt whenever she desires that. You might ask her if she would like you to become her asskisser as well, including giving her analingus whenever she wishes. That may increase her esteem for you as her cuckold even further.

Best wishes to you and your boss cuckoldress—

Custer

 

[marys_pet]

ONS = One Night Stand

 

[Custer Laststand]

ONS = One Night Stand

OK, thanks.

 

[I_am_cuck]

Custer, thanks for your informative post, as always. I am not sure if she is still having sex with other guys. Every since I told you guys a while back that she and 'Greg' were not going out she says she hasn't been with another guy. She said she has no reason to lie about her current lifestyle, but she is not 'transparent' of her past.

Maybe some of my concerns is of her past and the lies, but she swares she isn't doing anything other than having fun with her g/f's. She said she is happy with her training of me and how good of a husband I've become.

We are really doing a Female Led Relationship, FLR, and she is for the first time in a long time, happily married, she says. We both are members of a legit FLR forum, run by women and its about the Relationship in FLR, its not a sex thing, or anything like, its about husbands being attentive to their wives. Its not a cuck site or anything like that. We have learned a lot from that site, a lot...! She feels she doesn't need other men, I am giving her what she needs, I am very attentive to her, and we do get along very well. We no longer fight or bicker, its really pleasant. So maybe I need to get more confident that I am making her happy and that she isn't looking for other men to fill her emotional needs, I am doing it, for the first time?

We just got back from shopping and we laughed and had a blast. We had dinner, held hands, kissed, said we love each other, etc. We are a happy couple, its just that she is the boss. She doesn't yell at me at the store, or mistreat me, or embarrass me in public. I know her rules and I am happy to follow them.

So what if I am wearing panties? She keeps me in them so I think of her all the time, and I do. Maybe they calm me a bit, sure, but so what.

We are both happy, as a couple, for the first time in a long time. Its working.

Again, Custer you are very insightful, thanks. And yes Marys Pet was right about ONS, but I was wrong what I had thought, I do believe she isn't doing it with other guys now. Hopefully she is done with that phase of her life.

 

[Cuck Curious]

Wishful thinking

If you think that won't happen anymore you are sadly mistaken. Mark my words.

 

[I_am_cuck]

Think what won't happen?

 

[marys_pet]

Her doing it with other guys.

 

[I_am_cuck]

Oh, well she has lied in the past, but has been pretty truthful recently. Maybe she will, but I think not.

 

[4julie]

What floats your boat really?

We are really doing a Female Led Relationship, FLR, and she is for the first time in a long time, happily married, she says. We both are members of a legit FLR forum, run by women and its about the Relationship in FLR, its not a sex thing, or anything like, its about husbands being attentive to their wives. Its not a cuck site or anything like that. We have learned a lot from that site, a lot...! She feels she doesn't need other men, I am giving her what she needs, I am very attentive to her, and we do get along very well. We no longer fight or bicker, its really pleasant. So maybe I need to get more confident that I am making her happy and that she isn't looking for other men to fill her emotional needs, I am doing it, for the first time?

We just got back from shopping and we laughed and had a blast. We had dinner, held hands, kissed, said we love each other, etc. We are a happy couple, its just that she is the boss. She doesn't yell at me at the store, or mistreat me, or embarrass me in public. I know her rules and I am happy to follow them.

So what if I am wearing panties? She keeps me in them so I think of her all the time, and I do. Maybe they calm me a bit, sure, but so what.

We are both happy, as a couple, for the first time in a long time. Its working.

Again, Custer you are very insightful, thanks. And yes Marys Pet was right about ONS, but I was wrong what I had thought, I do believe she isn't doing it with other guys now. Hopefully she is done with that phase of her life.

Does the idea of her cuckolding you with manly men who just fuck her as easy pussy excite you? Would you prefer she stopped allowing you to have sex with her and only accept her riding you with the strap on? Do you want to be dominated totally by her and allow her to do as she pleases and control you completely?

If so then you need to tell her and withdraw from having sex with her and tell her you expect her to get penterative sex from other men. That it's fine for her to do this when she's out with her friends and you accept that her friends will know she is cuckolding you and you are happy being the stay at home hubby who lets real men satisfy his wife?

 

[duke9555]

WHO are these filthy disgusting pigs?
i mean really! cumstains in their undies ...
how odious and ill-mannered

 

[I_am_cuck]

Duke????lol.

4Julie, as I said she is not having sex with other guys anylonger....just me. My point is that me submitting to her, not just physically, but mentally, has enabled us to have a great marriage now and she says she no longer feels the need to be with other men...I am meeting her emotional needs now.....and physically we have always been ok....so your post is not on topic.