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NEED ADVICE - young engaged couple

We are an engaged couple new to the black sexing experience. We are meeting some fine men locally so please do not bombard us with inquiries. We joined to learn more about the lifestyle and gain insite from more experienced couples.

Mindi is 24 I'm 25 we are engaged to marry in the fall of 2006.

We had tried swinging but quickly found out that Andy prefers watching, which was good to learn, as we also found out he was a rather fast cummer and was not pleasing the ladies. An older couple we met introduced us to BBC and said it saved thier marriage and encouraged us to give it a try. Mindi had her first exp over the christmas holiday...needless to say it was eye opening for both of us.

Presently we are experimenting with all the possible facets of Black into White sexing and its become obvious that andy is quickly becoming a cuckold....Mindi has even teased about going black only BEFORE the wedding! Andy is excited by the idea but concerned hes not going to handle it well.

We would appreciate any insite, advice etc as t what to expect and how to
proceed, from any more experiened couples on this site. We think there may be other couples trying to decide whether to go black only for the wife.

Thanks in Advance

Mindi and Andy
 
No advice...except to be careful

EngagedCuck posted:

We are an engaged couple new to the black sexing experience. We are meeting some fine men locally so please do not bombard us with inquiries. We joined to learn more about the lifestyle and gain insite from more experienced couples.

Mindi is 24 I'm 25 we are engaged to marry in the fall of 2006.

We had tried swinging but quickly found out that Andy prefers watching, which was good to learn, as we also found out he was a rather fast cummer and was not pleasing the ladies. An older couple we met introduced us to BBC and said it saved thier marriage and encouraged us to give it a try. Mindi had her first exp over the christmas holiday...needless to say it was eye opening for both of us.

Presently we are experimenting with all the possible facets of Black into White sexing and its become obvious that andy is quickly becoming a cuckold....Mindi has even teased about going black only BEFORE the wedding! Andy is excited by the idea but concerned hes not going to handle it well.

We would appreciate any insite, advice etc as t what to expect and how to
proceed, from any more experiened couples on this site. We think there may be other couples trying to decide whether to go black only for the wife.

Thanks in Advance

Mindi and Andy
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Mindi and Andy:

I have gotten seduced by a couple that was into this lifestyle a few years ago. Unfortunately, the female was not really into it...and my view of the lifestyle was warped horribly.

In my case, I wanted to have sex with the woman, and the guy egged her on...even when she was not comfortable. She eventually called off the hotel meeting - not her hubby, who set it up. The guy still wanted me, and I said no. I learned that the hubby was bi, and his wife didn't even know.

The point I am making is: USE CAUTION! Grammatical errors aside, this lifestyle may be fun for some, and a pain for others. Also, go slowly...as Andy is prone to having second thoughts.
 
At your ages you want to be careful. Mindi might enjoy the sex and might get attached as well to a potential lover. 25 is young, I'm 30 and have been with wives from 22-50 and the younger, 22-30 generally let feelings get involved so you need to keep things balanced. And at that age, without having a real foundation in terms of marriage underneath you, you might lose all respect for Andy over time. COuples that are older respect one another in this lifestyle because they've built something over time, if you are just getting married, Andy isn't giving you satisfaction physically, you might lose more than just sexual respect for him.

Drop me a line if you have additional questions, I am very exp with couples
 
Good advice. Expanding your sexual partners can be fun but also a source of conflict. As long as you both fully agree it is for the experience and fun, then you can enjoy the swinging lifestyle as full partners. But what happens is that there are lots more men in to this life style than women so you have to keep you jealousy from ruining your pleasure. Believe it or not, most women prefer having a "Main Man" and sexual partners are just like new shoes. They make you feel sexy but sometimes they hurt your feet.
 
Thank you everyone for your well thought out replies. We have pulled back and slowed down our experimentation and it seems to be for the best. Mindi still likes to tease me about going "black only" but its only a game right now for us. Maybe someday when we are more confident in our marriage. The shoe scenario is pretty much how Mindi feels. She loves and needs my soothing tenderness she says, but likes a hard deep ride often which is something I can't give her. Mindi gets that from her well endowed lovers.

Most couples who have been doing this said the same things,...."Do it together as full partners" So we are not going to waver from that course.
 
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