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[funnewcpl]

Hello to everyone on Cuckolds.

Where do i begin ? im a male in my late 20's and my girl friend is mid 20's. we have been together for almost a year and things are great. I have always had fantasy's of other guys having great sex with my girl friend and previous girl friends. the earliest memory i have was around 16 or 17 with my second gf, while we were having sex i couldnt cum without thinking of her being pleasured by others, this troubled me after i climaxed because the thought of anyone else touching her made me very angry, now that im in my late 20's it seems nothing and i mean nothing will get me horny unless its something about my now girl friend being pleasured by others.

My girl friend likes it when i take the lead during bedroom play, basically she always likes it when i choose the position and loves it when i tell her what to do. I dont mind it this way but over the past months i have told her i would love it if she took more control and done what she wanted.

Like me she loves the fantasy of being with others and enjoys fantasising of doing naughty things with other people while im at home waiting for her. We have recently joined a dating site and she has expressed interest in meeting 1 or 2 guys but she fears it will destroy our relationship, likewise with myself. We both like the Fantasy but after we cum have second thoughts.

I have no thoughts of being caged or dominated by anyone, i also dont think about any other women, my gf is the only one who can truely drain my balls in a way which no one every has and maybe never will.

So im kinda just trying to establish if i really am a cuck or just a guy who loves his gf and loves to fantasize.

any advice would be great

 

[danyg]

having 2nd thoughts after you cum is completely normal. You never really know if the lifestyle is for you untill you actually try it. Regretting trying it can also be a huge turn on as well though, so its tough... good luck. and keep us updated.

 

[funnewcpl]

You all make excellent points which has brought us both to the conclusion that we will put this on hold for a while, As you said once its been done , it cant be un-done there is no magic switch or rewind button. We are both very happy being together and dont want anything else getting in the way. The Fantasy remains and is still fun,

 

[hotwifeapril]

You can also have fun going out let’s say to a swingers club. Many people think just because it is a swingers club you have to play with others. This is only the case if you want to. These are really social clubs and which means to socialize. Otherwise go have fun and watch others, also if she like dancing you could watch her or watch others looking at your wife and dreaming to be with you.
You are very young and have a lifetime together to experience different things. Role playing and fantasies are great but they might wear off so come up with new and exciting things to do. We use to go to adult book stores I would wear short skirt no panties and he would watch all the guys watching me. We would fantasize about them fucking me or getting caught.
I wish I had at your age experience more, but the way I was raise really affected me sexually. And now that I’m wanting to try more its seems that in the small town I live in it is harder to find guys/couples to play with. And maybe that’s me or its cause I am not in my 20’s anymore its harder to find. Experience life, communicate your wants and desires if you decide to play with others talk before, during and after. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Good luck and have a ball.

QUOTE=funnewcpl;101044]You all make excellent points which has brought us both to the conclusion that we will put this on hold for a while, As you said once its been done , it cant be un-done there is no magic switch or rewind button. We are both very happy being together and dont want anything else getting in the way. The Fantasy remains and is still fun,[/QUOTE]