New Question....

[NinaGirl]

I know me. I know, tomorrow I'm going to wake up and say, "What was I thinking." But if I were to explore a little more. Is there any place safe to actually find some bbc in NYC where I'm not going to feel like my entire life is going to be posted on the internet (ie. safe) At first I was thinking a swing club, but I've never done that. Then again I see all sorts of women here, but you can never tell...

Okay. Let's suppose I do go out and explore, and be sexually free. Where would I go? Swing or not.

Nina

 

[MsGary]

Come a little ways upstate and you can be pretty anonymous
some people even think a mask or big sunglasses are kind of erotic
luv, MsGary

 

[gears]

Well, if I were actually concerned with being outed, I damn sure wouldn't put my home city in my profile then ask where I could go find black men who wouldn't take pictures. I find it very difficult to accept that you are somewhere that you can't find a black man to fuck you. I have never laid eyes on you and I pretty much know that you are not going to have trouble finding a black man to fuck you. Not trying to flame you. Just trying to understand what you are trying to do. NYC is frigging huge and even if you had your picture taken with your face in some black guys ass, who could actually prove it was you? I swear I have seen guys fucking women on porn pic layouts who could pass for my twin. I have distinctive birthmarks and scars, so I could prove it wasn't me if I had to (why would I?). You also need to keep in mind that if somebody does see pictures of you sucking black cock, the person who sees them is probably looking somewhere that would embarrass himself if people knew what he was doing. It's like getting caught in a gay bar by someone you know. What the fuck are THEY doing there?

Good luck.

 

[NinaGirl]

I sent you a private PM, Gear. I knew when I woke up I'd regret this post. Sure enough. Oh, well. No more writing with margaritas.

 

[susan]

I think Nina had a legitimate question Gears, I know it may sound silly to some I was/am hesitant to go to swinger or IR lounges because I may see someone I know ( Yes, I realize they are there for the same reason as me and Hubby, but its knowledge someone has that I wish to keep private) My suggestion for Nina is a swing lounge or IR lounge on the OTHER side of town. Swing would probably be better at first.

 

[gears]

I think Nina had a legitimate question Gears, I know it may sound silly to some I was/am hesitant to go to swinger or IR lounges because I may see someone I know ( Yes, I realize they are there for the same reason as me and Hubby, but its knowledge someone has that I wish to keep private) My suggestion for Nina is a swing lounge or IR lounge on the OTHER side of town. Swing would probably be better at first.

Think we cleared it up in a couple of PMs.

 

[Josetta]

Safety in numbers, that is why girls go out in groups to "look over the guys" and help each other "pick one out".

Several couples all looking for BBC - that is why swing clubs help build up your networks, confidence and contacts.