are you posting RGB JPEGS? is the file size too big? I REALLY recommend doing it - then showing her the posts and emails after a day or so, having my wife see that "holy shit - he really posted them!! omg - ALL those black men SAW me - and they LIKED me - and want to FUCK me" got her horny as hell, got me the BEST fuckin we've had i a while and I'm sure it got her one step closer to tryin for real