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New developments - Uncertain What To Do!

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BruceCuck

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Yesterday I posted a description of a situation that took place over the weekend between me and my wife and another couple. Take a look at the other post for details, but suffice it to say that we were all having a few drinks and before any of us knew it the other husband had attaached leather restarints to my wife's arms and swaatted on the ass several times with a riding crop. I was very arounsed watching and when we got home that evening we fucked like crazy. She was very wet and open. Like I said, there is a full description in my post from yesterday.

Anyway... two things have happened since.

The first was that last night once we were in bed my wife told me that she had gone over to her friend Lynda's house yesterday afternoon. She told me that she did not expect Lynda's husband andy to be there, but indeed he was. She said that all thre of them began discussing the other night and andy began teasing my wife about how hard her nipples became once he attached the retraints. He said she must have really liked it. Apparently my wife admitted to him that she had become aroused and that the two of us had some realy hot sex afterwords. Andy told her that he to had become aroused putting the restraints on her (even though she was clothed) and that he would like to do it again sometime. She told Andy that she could not do anything without me knowing and he told her to talk with me

So last night in bed my wife of 10 years told me that she would like to do some light expermenting. She explained how Andy and Lynda suggested that the three of them get togther without me. Lynda told her that Andy had shared her with other men early in their relationship, but that he now had somewhat of a fetish for, as she put it, "being the first to take submissive married women" and showing them pleasures that they thought about but did not act on all while Lynda watched and assisted. I was shocked to hear this but very turned on. We had some crazy sex afterward. I was uncertain if this was just another roleplay thing or if she was serious. It did not take long for that to be answered, she asked if I was ok with it. I told her it turned me alot thinking about it. She told me that she tought Lynda and Andy were right and that it would be best, at least the first time, if she was there alone with them. She explained it might be less embarressing for both of us. I left it at that, I am not sure what is going through her head of if sha has made plans, etc.

Even more astonishing is that I received a call from Andy this morning. Like I said in my post yesterday, Andy is a state cop, quite big and intimidating. Anyway he told me everythin that my wife told me the night before. I didnt even know what to say. I felt so humiliated as he told me how my wife had explained to him how she became aroused when he was putting the retarints on her. He then proceeded to tell me that some women, those like my wife, have a natural submissive tendanency and become aroused when they are with dominant males. he told me how he has alsways had very dominant tendencies and found submissive women like my wife to very exciting. My most humiliating moment came when he told me that my wife had confided in him that she loved me, but that was not a very dominant lover.

Andy then told me that he would love to play with Lynn, and that if all worked out could eventually be included. He said that prior to meeting Lynda he had "played" with a submissive couple and that he was certain I would enjoy it. I was speechless! I did not know wha to say. he asked if I would consider it and I said I would. i felt so small talking to this guy.

Anyhow, I am supposed to call him back later ad let him know if Iam ok with my wife going there this evening.

SUGGESTION? I am unsure what I am getting myself nto.
 
I am unsure what I am getting myself into.
You are getting yourselfe into a lot of trouble. You are not looking to participate in BDSM, and that is where this is leading to.
 
My advice is to encourage and let your wife do what she wants to do. Life is too short to deprive yourself, or more importantly, others who you love, chances to be happy.

She wants to do this. Give her space so she can. If not, she will always wonder what could have been, possibly resenting that you stopped her. Or she may just do it without ever telling you.
 
Bruce
If your wife wants to try this bondage-domination sex then you should let her. However, if she does not fantasize about being the bottom in a BDSM scene then it is unlikely that she will enjoy it. Personally I like BDSM and would want to watch. If she decides to do it and you are OK with it you should make sure that everyone knows her “safe word” and agrees that the action will stop if she uses it and she will be released from any restraints immediately. Then you can ask her what the problem is. Keep us informed, this is interesting.
 
I say go for it

I think you should let your wife go on her own. Things are very different when the husband is not around. she will be herself without wondering if you aare ok with everything. Let it see where it progresses. I meet without my husband most times. The reason is both me and my partner cannot be totally comfortable with him here. She will express her limits. Plus she asked yu first. you have to respect that.
 
This doesn't strike me as the best idea since sliced bread.

Brucecuck,

BruceCuck said:
.... Like I said in my post yesterday, Andy is a state cop, quite big and intimidating.

This sounds risky as hell. Suppose it works out badly, perhaps very badly, due to any of a number of potential outcomes you should easily be able to imagine. Where would you go for assistance? To the police? I don't think so. If something like what your friend (such as he is) Andy is proposing to do to your wife were to come out, it would make his entire police force look bad — really bad. Those guys would stick together like glue to make sure that didn't happen.

If I were you, I wouldn't touch this with a ten-foot pole. You need to spend some time talking with your wife about the realities of individual policemen and police forces vis-a-vis "the citizenry," as the rest of us are called.

—Custer
 
In St. Paul, your wife could have been treated abusively by any number of cops....

Brucecuck,

You might point out to your wife that if she wanted to experience abuse from a policeman, with a little help from his friends — gangbang abuse, as it were — she should have attended the Republican National Convention in St. Paul as an uninvited participant. See, for instance:

Democracy Now! | Call to Action on Behalf of DN! Journalists Facing Charges for Reporting on the Republican National Convention

If you look at this link, perhaps it won't escape your notice that a number of the journalists being treated roughly (to put it mildly) by the police were women.

—Custer
 
Custer, I love your responses to most of the posts. You appear to be very knowledgeable in the fields of cuckolding, hotwifing, etc. I also admire your use of the English language.

However, I have to ask, do you believe in equal rights for women? If you (or I) were to be "an uninvited participant", also known as a trespasser, would we not expect to be handcuffed? If we resisted, would we not expect to be forcibly handcuffed? I saw no gangbanging or abuse, just a couple of women receiving the same treatment as any protester pushing past police lines would expect.

Velvet handcuffs are fun in the bedroom, but don't work so good in a crowd control situation that has gotten out of hand. I do wish people would try to remember that rights have responsibilities and behaviors have consequences. Civil disobedience is disobedience, and disobeying the law generally has the expected outcome of being handcuffed.

Call me a redneck sissycuck, but that is how I see it!
 
While I am no fan of the police, I think Custer is way off on this one. I would be more concerned with some random stranger as opposed to someone you presumably know and trust already.
 
Getting back to Bruce's fantasy...

It's obvious to me that you enjoy this idea. My wife is not a B&D or S&M type at all, so I have no REAL experience with this type of scene. BUT I can appreciate some of the ideas and thoughts, as I've had such fantasies myself. Your wife's interest... a big police officer... having him talk to you about it (THAT way)... all very exciting.

As for your wife being alone with him and his wife, well that takes a lot of trust. However, if that kind of trust can be mustered up, there are definitely advantages. First, your wife will not be distracted. Having you there in any capacity will definitely distract her from the full enjoyment of the scene. And even though your police friend sounds more at ease with this scene, I'm sure he would prefer one less distraction.

Of course it's very difficult to put one's self in another persons shoes, so I really can't say what's best for YOU. My only suggestion at this point would be to talk with your wife about EVERYTHING, then make the best decision, and then move on (forward). As with anything else in your life, never look back... if you make a mistake, learn from it, and then move on.
 
I would be wary Bruce. I know some cops and have several cop friends, but in my time had been on some cops bad side as well. Though they are not all bad if things do turn out poorly, you are royally screwed, and I mean that in the worst way possible. If you are not comfortable, the answer should be an unequivacable no. You need to tell your wife to cease and desists immediately and that you will seek out other people you are both comfortable with if she wants to pursue this further.

And to Custer, I second the poster who said normally your posts are very thoughtful and spot on but I can't believe you bought into that liberal BS my friend. I typically lean liberal myself but the crap these people were pulling at the RNC is disgusting. Pushing past police lines, disrupting the convention in general, rioting, planting molotov cocktails with the intent of injuring law enforcement agents. Yeah, those Obama supporters are some swell people alright...

My favorite part was were the woman kept saying "do not arrest me!" WTF is that? Do they teach that crap in liberal law breaker school or something, because the instructors need to be fired LOL. Yeah, maybe I should try robbing a bank and when the cops come I can just say do not arrest me and hope to get off scot-free. For those who could not detect it, that bank idea was sarcasm.

How about we just stick to the topic of the boards here and leave the lies, BS, and other politicking out of here?
 
Here's a novel idea.

Why not discuss this with your wife. Say that you have noticed that the bondage thing turns her on and really gets her hot and how about us as a couple explore/role play and have some fun ...maybe add a new dimension to our sexlife. It will probably (depending on your relationship) draw you closer together! Go to a sex shop together and pick out the "toys"!?!

I have been a lurker for a while now. I still don't get the cuckold thing. Fantasy maybe but actually doing it ??? Why is it that when couples what to try something new sexually the only answer here is I have to fuck a stranger. Why not develop this inside your marriage and grow together instead of apart?
 
TexasCuck,

TexasCuck said:
I would be wary, Bruce. I know some cops and have several cop friends, but in my time have been on some cops' bad sides as well. Though they are not all bad, if things do turn out poorly you are royally screwed, and I mean that in the worst way possible.

This was my message to Bruce and his wife.

—Custer
 
A number of you seem to be concerned about Bruce’s wife having bondage-domination sex with Andy, the cop, but how many of you have raised such concerns when a man says that his wife goes to bars at night to find a one-night stand? The wife may be interested in anonymous, vanilla sex, but who knows what the boyfriend is after? If Andy is a friend, cop or not, it is unlikely that he would try some dangerous SMBD when Bruce knows where his wife is, what she is doing and who is doing it to her. If Bruce is into cuckoldry and his wife wants to try bondage-domination sex then he should let her do it. Bruce, if you and your wife do decide to go through with this, please provide us with details, I would love to hear about it.
 
Sounds like a great opportunity! Let him fuck her all she wants, and she does want it, right??

Let it happen and don't forget to give us all the yummy details you very lucky guy!!
 
why?

Why doesn't he want you there? She's your wife, and you are into it, too, right? Your wife gets off on you watching, right? So does his wife. So what's the problem? I think that you guys are a couple and should do it together. For pete's sake, he's eventually going to take your wife (and I mean this in the best way), so shouldn't you get to see the whole seduction?

Just my 2 cents.
 
Bruce and his wife, Lynn, are both submissive. Andy is dominant and his wife, Lynda, is probably submissive as well. Andy would recognize the signals and responses right away and instinctively know how to set up both Bruce and Lynn. Lynn would be excited by a man that would act instead of looking for her permission. Lynda probably enjoys showing off her man, and probably would not want to defy him if she didn't. Bruce is excited by Andy's direct no nonsense approach and by Lynn's interest.

If this is not a fake post (it's almost too perfect not to be) it sounds like the perfect set up. Lynn should go, she wants it, Andy wants it, Bruce wants it even if he is afraid to admit it. Lynda wants it, or doesn't care. Andy will find out from Lynn the best way to include Bruce in the future.

Of course, it could all go wrong. Andy might be too much and frighten Lynn instead of exciting her. Lynn could enjoy it and then feel remorse. Lynda might get jealous in throw a fit right in the middle of things. Bruce may find that he can no longer look at his wife without feeling sick to his stomach. And in the next episode of As the World ...

If this is real I would advise Lynn, Andy, and Bruce to go for it. At the end of the day I would prefer to have lived and lost over never having lived at all. Of course, as I have said in the past, you have to be willing to accept the consequences no matter how it all plays out. Hopefully, if it goes badly, Bruce and Lynn will be able to talk it out and chock it up to a learning experience that strengthens their love.

Blah, blah, blah, just do it, and tell us about it so I have something to wank off too!
 
It Happened

After some lengthy discussion with Lynn we agreed that she would be with Andy and Lynda. We did not necessarily put any limits n what was going to happen, but it was clear to me that Lynn had considerable attraction to both the idea of being submissive and to Andy's dominant nature. She admitted that when she was "cuffed" with chest pushed out that she became very aroused, shealso admitted that when Andy was behind her cuffing her, she could feel his cock swell and push into her.

when finally left the house, she was wearing a white tank top which clearly showed her breasts off and one her tightest pairs of jeans. Even though it was not a typical "slut" outfit (as described in posts here) she was most certainly showing off her body. I felt pangs of jelousy but also a nervous sexual feeling. I was also hard when she left. It was very weird feeling knowing that I was essentially sending my wife out so that she could be a submissive slut for another male. I paced the house for the next four hours!

Lynn arrived home around 12:30. She looked worn out and tired! Her hair was a mess and she looked like she had had a few drinks. I was in bed and I noticed that she jus undressed and slipped into bed. I was nervous and scared and pretended to b sleeping. I felt her touch my arm and I rolled over to her. I instantly felt her lips on mine and felt her hand on my body. I was surprised when I felt her hands immediately move to my cock and strat to rub. I became instantly hard!

When I tried to touch her body she resisted and told me that before I could touch her she wanted to tell me about her evening. She told me that andy had wanted her to describe what had happened before I could begin to have her body.

Lynn described arriving a their house and how things were easy and casual. She told me they had several drinks and that after about 30 min Lynda simply left the room only to return a few min later with severl restarints and a riding crop. Apparently Andy was sitting with Lynn while Lynda laid out the various items. She told me that the room was totally silent as Lynda did that and that she was feeling nervous and excited. At one point Lynda told Lynn to stand up and Lynn described how Lynda told her to move around the room. Lynn told me that she knew she was being displayed and as she walked and turned, Lynda described to Andy what my wife looked like in workout clothing and what a sexy "little body" she has.

Lynn told me that eventualAndy stood up and went to he. She told me that hekissed her and described to her how he would nt hurt her. He asked her about her fantasies and got her to admit how much she liked being restrained and how she had tought about being fucked by other men. Lynn told me that Andy the told her that she was a submissive slut and that if she was game he could show her the pleasures of submission to a dominant male. He then proceeded to tell her the differences betwen men like himself and more docile or submissive men like mysel.

Andy had Lynda disrobe and sit in a chair. She watched the seduction. Andy had Lynn strip to just her panties and then had her kneel in frontof him. Lynn told ne how she was cuffed again and how any commented and spoke to her alot wile he used the crop litely on her ass. She described how Andy eventually lowed his pants and made her ask him to allow her to be his slut, all while his cock was inches from her face. Lynn told me that he teased her like that with his large cock jus out of reach of mouth and her arms bound behind her. She told me how he was an expert and that before long she found herslf craving his cock - she said she could only describe her desire to have it in her as a sort of "hunger". She described how she sucked him and the satisfaction it brought her. She also told me how he actually spoke to her while she sucked and how he trained to suck the way he liked it. he told me that eventually he came full on" in her mouth. As she described this I was thinking about how I had just kissed her and was engaging in pillow talk. I did not notice any smell of sean nor taste it in her kiss, but nonetheless I had kised her.

She next descibed how he took her to their bedroom, talkng to het the whole time. Lynda followed and Lynn described how Andy had Lynda restrain her on her back with her legs attached to a bar. This caused her to keep her legs spread and open. Andy had her arms restrained over her head. She explained to me how Andy talked "dirty" to her and kept telling her how she was even more of a submissive slut then he originally thought, and how there were all sort of nasty things he was going t be doing with her in the future.

She then described being penetrated by him. She told me how anydy placed the tip of his cock at her opening and then made her beg him to push it in . She also told me how he made her admit that she "neeed" this.

Lynn is on birth control but she apprently askedAndy to use a condom. Lynn told me that she was restrained at that point, legs spread and her pussy was open and wet. When asked him to use a condom she saw him motion to Lynda. Lynda came to the bed and laid next to her. Accordin to Lynn, Lynda whispered in her ear to ask any to take her without a condom. Lynn told me was resisting and said she should be safe. ventually Lynda persuaded her and Lynn told me that she ultimately asked andy to penetrate her and to cum in her. I knew as I was lying there, that my wife was probably dripping and that he had cummed in her.

Despite all of this I was still hard, Lynn did not ask me to "eat her out" of anything like that. She told me that Andy had told her to masterbate me and that s hat she did. As she further described her evening she masterbated me. She did take myhand and put it on her pussy and I felt her ver wet pussy while she brought me off.

That was a few days ago. things have pretty much returned to normal.. we will have to see what happens. I dn really know where Lynn stands or what she wants to do.

Even if this was a one tme thing I am sure it fuel our fantasies for a long time
 
Hi Bruce,
Thank you for the follow up. You been very nervous or in a hurry when you typed it, there were many typos in your text. That’s of course very understandable. To comment on your post you must understand that I have a prejudice against a Cop with a riding crop. Sure he said “ he would not hurt her” . At that sentence the word “yet” . He has his wife trained or broken in that she dances, the way he whistles. Is that fear of the riding crop?
Lynda told Lynn to stand up and Lynn described how Lynda told her to move around the room. Like a animal in a circus arena. And then he” proceeded to tell her the differences between men like himself and more docile or submissive men like myself.” Yes, every grocer is praising his merchandise . And he is influencing your wife against you. It works, The more you push the others down, the bigger you appear.
Hemade her admit that she "need" his pisser, she did not express it freely, no he demanded it.
The top of his, he does not consider your wives requests. When Lynn asked him to use a condom she saw him motion to Lynda. Lynda came to the bed and laid next to her. According to Lynn, Lynda whispered in her ear to ask Andy to take her without a condom. Lynn told me was resisting and said she should be safe. Eventually Lynda persuaded her and Lynn told me that she ultimately asked Andy to penetrate her and to cum in her.
Lynn told me that Andy had told her to masturbate me and that’ s what she did. Man, the next thing is that he demands her pussy be reserved for him and you have to use your right hand to get an orgasm.
From Alpha to Omega it all stinks to me. The guy is a Cop with a riding crop.
 
Susan's Slave said:
If this is not a fake post (it's almost too perfect not to be) it sounds like the perfect set up.

I vote fake.
 

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