Hello to everyone. I am new to the forum and don't really know if this is the place to talk about this, but I am having some issues with my girlfriend.
My name is Scott and Catherine is my girlfriend. I am 20 and Catherine is 19. We dated for most of highschool with a few breakups along the way. We made it through her first year away at college this year, but things have taken a really weird turn.
She joined a sorority when she got to school. She was rooming with a Senior that she knew from highschool. Tiffany, her roommate, is a good girl and not really wild at all from what I have heard. That was what I liked about her. Catherine is what you would call shy and modest for sure. We have never had sex, but have messed around alot. LOL
The first year was going great. The first semester she went to all the formals with a friend of Tiffany's who was a senior and had a girlfriend back home. Then during the Christmas break a sister introduced her to Kyle. Her sister wanted to set them up for a formal for New Years Eve since the other guy had just graduated and Catherine had to go with someone. I have never understood that.
Catherine and Kyle hit it off right away as friends. Then a month later Kyle kissed her at a party. She said they were *****. I was pissed but told her I was ok with it as long as it didn't happen again. I told her mistakes happened and to be careful. I knew she wasn't the kind of person to do that. She told him that if they were going to keep going to these things that that couldn't happen. Since then nothing physical, but they had been getting really close as friends.
All went well till about a month ago. After a formal they went to his frat house and eventually to his room with some friends. By 2 they were along and she started to leave. He said no wait he had something for her. He read her this letter about how much he cared for her and that this would be there last formal together unless she wanted to be more than friends.
That is when she admitted to me that she had feelings for Kyle. I said what kind and she said she didn't know. I told her I guess her mom was right. Her mom said we should break up when she left for school so she would be free to enjoy college and meet other people. She said no she still loved me and wants to marry me. I said how are you going to do that when you have feelings for other guys. That is when she said she wanted to see other people for a while. I said so we are over. She said no that is not what she wants, but if we can't see other people then yes. So I took a while to think it over and told her ok. Deal is she will never lie to me about it and break up with me if she doesn't love me any more.
This is all really weird to me. I talked to a friend of mine at work and she actually said the word cuckold which I had never heard before. I guess I am a little sheltered.
So now she is going to open her self up to the feelings she has for Kyle she says. I don't want to see anyone else and don't want her to but love her. She has her first “date” with him tonight at a formal. She said she would call me when she got home. I am really nervous and hope it all goes bad obviously.
I am not really into cuckold, but I am also not destroyed by her kissing someone else.
I guess I could use someone else's opinion on all this. I will try and post a picture, but don't want this to be a post about pictures. Also from reading the post I will go ahead and tell you I would never post a nude picture of her if I had one.
My name is Scott and Catherine is my girlfriend. I am 20 and Catherine is 19. We dated for most of highschool with a few breakups along the way. We made it through her first year away at college this year, but things have taken a really weird turn.
She joined a sorority when she got to school. She was rooming with a Senior that she knew from highschool. Tiffany, her roommate, is a good girl and not really wild at all from what I have heard. That was what I liked about her. Catherine is what you would call shy and modest for sure. We have never had sex, but have messed around alot. LOL
The first year was going great. The first semester she went to all the formals with a friend of Tiffany's who was a senior and had a girlfriend back home. Then during the Christmas break a sister introduced her to Kyle. Her sister wanted to set them up for a formal for New Years Eve since the other guy had just graduated and Catherine had to go with someone. I have never understood that.
Catherine and Kyle hit it off right away as friends. Then a month later Kyle kissed her at a party. She said they were *****. I was pissed but told her I was ok with it as long as it didn't happen again. I told her mistakes happened and to be careful. I knew she wasn't the kind of person to do that. She told him that if they were going to keep going to these things that that couldn't happen. Since then nothing physical, but they had been getting really close as friends.
All went well till about a month ago. After a formal they went to his frat house and eventually to his room with some friends. By 2 they were along and she started to leave. He said no wait he had something for her. He read her this letter about how much he cared for her and that this would be there last formal together unless she wanted to be more than friends.
That is when she admitted to me that she had feelings for Kyle. I said what kind and she said she didn't know. I told her I guess her mom was right. Her mom said we should break up when she left for school so she would be free to enjoy college and meet other people. She said no she still loved me and wants to marry me. I said how are you going to do that when you have feelings for other guys. That is when she said she wanted to see other people for a while. I said so we are over. She said no that is not what she wants, but if we can't see other people then yes. So I took a while to think it over and told her ok. Deal is she will never lie to me about it and break up with me if she doesn't love me any more.
This is all really weird to me. I talked to a friend of mine at work and she actually said the word cuckold which I had never heard before. I guess I am a little sheltered.
So now she is going to open her self up to the feelings she has for Kyle she says. I don't want to see anyone else and don't want her to but love her. She has her first “date” with him tonight at a formal. She said she would call me when she got home. I am really nervous and hope it all goes bad obviously.
I am not really into cuckold, but I am also not destroyed by her kissing someone else.
I guess I could use someone else's opinion on all this. I will try and post a picture, but don't want this to be a post about pictures. Also from reading the post I will go ahead and tell you I would never post a nude picture of her if I had one.