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Hey all, I need to get this off my chest. I am white guy, mid 30's, married to a white girl in her mid 30's too. We been married 10 years plus. About two years ago I was out with my wife and ran into a guy she went to college with (a black guy, that back then I knew had hit on my wife on more than one occasion). I caught a major vibe watching the two of them that they had fucked in the past. I had never suspected it before. My wife is attractive and has a big juicy butt, and from time to time I have witnessed black men hit on her or talk to her or check her out. She basically ignores them or blows them off.
After that run-in with her old friend I asked if they ever hooked up. She said no, but I could tell she was lying. After some assurance to her that I would not get mad if she did, she said that yes, they had hooked up quite a few times. I told her I was fine with it and that was that at the time.
That got me thinking about and wondering what she did with this guy, and then I also thought about some other instances in the past that I had wondered about but just dismissed. Then I thought about all the recent times she would get checked out or outright hit on by black guys and how she would react with me, v. how she most likely reacted when it most definitely happened w/o me around.
After a while I asked her about getting hit on when I was not around and she said, yea, from time to time. Then I asked how often it was black guys and she responded, most of the time its black guys. Not to drag this out, I eventually asked her if she would want to have sex with a black man again, and she said, "no way", I am married to you and am not interested in that.
Suspecting that she would be into some bbc, I used some of the tips I picked up here to bring up the topic, as it was really starting to intrigue me. I brought it up in bed and she would get pretty hot playing along with different scenarios, but of the few times I asked about it after, she clearly said she was not interested in other guys, it was fun in bed as talk and that's that. So I eventually dropped it.
Fast forward to about over a month ago. I was laid off from my job. She went back to work. The two weeks that I was home and before she went back to work, I noticed in the back of our house a cable guy (black guy) parked his van in the rear alley of our house and then knocked on the back door. He looked a bit strangely at me when I answered and said that my wife called because there was a problem with stations not coming in. I was like, no its been working fine. My wife came up and said, yea, I called, but it was before you were up and the kids wanted to watch tv before school and now its fine. So the guy shrugged his shoulders and left.
The next day, the cable guy was in the alley again and again the day after. Each day he was working on the service pole in the alley. I commented how he was out there alot and my wife said, almost every day, the same time. On the fourth day (thursday) she insisted going out to the alley to retrieve the trash cans after the trash men passed through. I noticed from a window that she was talking to the cable guy and they were have a pretty friendly conversation; it seemed he was totally hitting on her and she was flirting back. When she came back in, I didn't want to let her know I was watching, but said how she was out there quite a while to bring in trash cans, and she admitted the cable guy was flirting with her. I threw out a line that I bet he's been in the house to service more than the tvs, and she got mad and told me to stop talking about that kind of stuff, its not funny.
The next day I went out to go on some interviews and lunch with some connections in my business and as I was leaving the cable guy was out there again. I couldn't hang around to see what happened, but I am pretty sure she's fucking the guy. Which strangely I am ok with. I would love to catch her in the act.
My suspicions were pretty much confirmed when that next Monday I said to my wife that I was going to visit some old associates for lunch and instead watched from a neighbor's back yard across the alley to see what would happen. Sure enough, the cable guy showed up, got out of his van, and went up to our back door. My wife answered the door and let him in. He left about a 1/2 later, and left in his van.
Anyway, in the last few weeks that my wife has been back to work, the cable guy has been back working on that pole only three times. And my wife has called several times and said she either had to stay late or had to run some errand before she came home. I have called her cell on three occasions and she did not answer. She always answers her phone.
So, while it really turns me on, it also pisses me off. Why can't she just tell me? I am dying to know what they do.
Like I have read on here, be careful what you wish for. I can't blame her, she's got a figure black guys love and was with at least one black guy before me, so it's not like I turned her onto bbc. She was already into it, but why can't she let me in on it?
After that run-in with her old friend I asked if they ever hooked up. She said no, but I could tell she was lying. After some assurance to her that I would not get mad if she did, she said that yes, they had hooked up quite a few times. I told her I was fine with it and that was that at the time.
That got me thinking about and wondering what she did with this guy, and then I also thought about some other instances in the past that I had wondered about but just dismissed. Then I thought about all the recent times she would get checked out or outright hit on by black guys and how she would react with me, v. how she most likely reacted when it most definitely happened w/o me around.
After a while I asked her about getting hit on when I was not around and she said, yea, from time to time. Then I asked how often it was black guys and she responded, most of the time its black guys. Not to drag this out, I eventually asked her if she would want to have sex with a black man again, and she said, "no way", I am married to you and am not interested in that.
Suspecting that she would be into some bbc, I used some of the tips I picked up here to bring up the topic, as it was really starting to intrigue me. I brought it up in bed and she would get pretty hot playing along with different scenarios, but of the few times I asked about it after, she clearly said she was not interested in other guys, it was fun in bed as talk and that's that. So I eventually dropped it.
Fast forward to about over a month ago. I was laid off from my job. She went back to work. The two weeks that I was home and before she went back to work, I noticed in the back of our house a cable guy (black guy) parked his van in the rear alley of our house and then knocked on the back door. He looked a bit strangely at me when I answered and said that my wife called because there was a problem with stations not coming in. I was like, no its been working fine. My wife came up and said, yea, I called, but it was before you were up and the kids wanted to watch tv before school and now its fine. So the guy shrugged his shoulders and left.
The next day, the cable guy was in the alley again and again the day after. Each day he was working on the service pole in the alley. I commented how he was out there alot and my wife said, almost every day, the same time. On the fourth day (thursday) she insisted going out to the alley to retrieve the trash cans after the trash men passed through. I noticed from a window that she was talking to the cable guy and they were have a pretty friendly conversation; it seemed he was totally hitting on her and she was flirting back. When she came back in, I didn't want to let her know I was watching, but said how she was out there quite a while to bring in trash cans, and she admitted the cable guy was flirting with her. I threw out a line that I bet he's been in the house to service more than the tvs, and she got mad and told me to stop talking about that kind of stuff, its not funny.
The next day I went out to go on some interviews and lunch with some connections in my business and as I was leaving the cable guy was out there again. I couldn't hang around to see what happened, but I am pretty sure she's fucking the guy. Which strangely I am ok with. I would love to catch her in the act.
My suspicions were pretty much confirmed when that next Monday I said to my wife that I was going to visit some old associates for lunch and instead watched from a neighbor's back yard across the alley to see what would happen. Sure enough, the cable guy showed up, got out of his van, and went up to our back door. My wife answered the door and let him in. He left about a 1/2 later, and left in his van.
Anyway, in the last few weeks that my wife has been back to work, the cable guy has been back working on that pole only three times. And my wife has called several times and said she either had to stay late or had to run some errand before she came home. I have called her cell on three occasions and she did not answer. She always answers her phone.
So, while it really turns me on, it also pisses me off. Why can't she just tell me? I am dying to know what they do.
Like I have read on here, be careful what you wish for. I can't blame her, she's got a figure black guys love and was with at least one black guy before me, so it's not like I turned her onto bbc. She was already into it, but why can't she let me in on it?
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