My wife is in her mid 40's. When we first did anal sex many years ago it was as tight as any woman. She really didn't enjot it much, though. Over the years she and i have done it many many more times and over the past ten years she has done it with other men as well, both black and white. About five years ago i notived her butthole looked different. There is now a permanent tiny hole back there! I'm certain this is a result of a lot of anal. Any other husbands or men ever notice something like that on an older woman? It's weird in a way, but i actually enjoy that little hole!