Hello, I am a European guy and I am happy to be here in your community dedicated to interracial couples. I apologize if my English is not perfect.
After my father's sudden death, I had to deal quickly with my mother's new relationship. Her new partner is much younger than her, 26 years old, black, and part of my circle of friends. The picture in my profile is of the two of them.
Initially, this situation bothered me a lot and fueled feelings of discomfort and anger. My mother was very firm in telling me from the start that I am an adult and must accept that her love life has changed. She warned me that she will not tolerate my hostility toward her new partner and will take drastic measures if I continue to behave immaturely.
Now the situation has become unbearable. He is very exhibitionist and controlling, and seems to enjoy having sex with my mother even in broad daylight while I am in my room. My mother seems to be completely submissive to him; at first she tries to restrain herself, begs him to be quiet, but then she starts moaning losing control completely.
Every day I hear my mother making love to him. She tries to restrain herself, but finally she cannot resist and begs him to go on, moaning loudly until she loses control. I can feel their bodies moving and moaning through the thin walls, and it torments me.
It is hard to bear because he is so different from my late father, even physically, being very muscular and dominant.
I never imagined that my mother could be attracted to a man like him and completely forget that she is also a mother.
I tried to talk to my mother, but she told me to mind my own business. She claims that I suffer from inferiority complexes because of his physical size and that I should do some physical activity to feel better.
Now, however, I have to admit that I feel a strange kind of arousal at hearing those noises, and this puts me in a state of inner conflict.
I would like to know if there are other families in a similar situation and how your children have reacted to your relationship. It is not racism, but it is difficult for me because he is so different from my late father, even physically, being very muscular.
After my father's sudden death, I had to deal quickly with my mother's new relationship. Her new partner is much younger than her, 26 years old, black, and part of my circle of friends. The picture in my profile is of the two of them.
Initially, this situation bothered me a lot and fueled feelings of discomfort and anger. My mother was very firm in telling me from the start that I am an adult and must accept that her love life has changed. She warned me that she will not tolerate my hostility toward her new partner and will take drastic measures if I continue to behave immaturely.
Now the situation has become unbearable. He is very exhibitionist and controlling, and seems to enjoy having sex with my mother even in broad daylight while I am in my room. My mother seems to be completely submissive to him; at first she tries to restrain herself, begs him to be quiet, but then she starts moaning losing control completely.
Every day I hear my mother making love to him. She tries to restrain herself, but finally she cannot resist and begs him to go on, moaning loudly until she loses control. I can feel their bodies moving and moaning through the thin walls, and it torments me.
It is hard to bear because he is so different from my late father, even physically, being very muscular and dominant.
I never imagined that my mother could be attracted to a man like him and completely forget that she is also a mother.
I tried to talk to my mother, but she told me to mind my own business. She claims that I suffer from inferiority complexes because of his physical size and that I should do some physical activity to feel better.
Now, however, I have to admit that I feel a strange kind of arousal at hearing those noises, and this puts me in a state of inner conflict.
I would like to know if there are other families in a similar situation and how your children have reacted to your relationship. It is not racism, but it is difficult for me because he is so different from my late father, even physically, being very muscular.
