I haven't had sex with my girlfriend for a year, since our child was born. I brought it up to him today and jokingly remarked that then I have no other idea, let's take in another guy. you had sex, I'm looking at this, he didn't say that I don't want to, but that it would be weird if I looked. after all, you shouldn't have a child with him. and whether this is fraud or not, I told him that I don't know how. I don't know what to do next because I don't want to force myself either