My wife and I are in our 60's. In the 70's, at my encouragement, after our second child, we experimented with swinging. Although we had some great times and are still good friends with another swinging couple from back then, my wife was always jealous of me with another woman. I was totally comfortable and excited about her fucking another man.
Eventually we migrated to just her dating and an occasional three some with one of her dates. On her dates I would wait home for hours with a constant erection thinking about what she was doing with the other guy. It was very erotic for me. When she came home she would describe for my pleasure in great detail exactly what happened; how she could feel him getting hard against her leg as they danced, kissing and petting, undressing in the motel room, his penis size, technique, what positions they used and you get the idea. I sometimes would cum without even entering her as she related the encounter to me. She didn't have that many guys, but dated the same ones over about a 20 year period. I think there were about 15 total. She was happy and I was happy with this arrangement.
I was and am still turned on with her having sex with other men and wish she would do it again. However due to menopause and a hysterectomy she is no longer interested in extramarital sexual encounters. Much to my lose. She will give me hand jobs and even allow me sexual intercourse if I request it, but it's not the same as she never is aroused to the point of cumming like she used to do with me watching her with another man. Or me going down on her after a date. I used to really enjoy that as her vulva would be swollen and hot and very sexy after a night out.
On the other hand I still masturbate 4 or 5 times a week to completion remembering her past sexual escapades and visualizing an aroused penis entering her and being excited to the point of orgasim. That is almost the only way I can climax. I especially enjoy remembering her getting fucked doggie style on our bed and her breasts moving with the rhythm of the thrusts.
So what's the point? I have been fascinated about finding another couple like my wife and I were who would accept me into their bedroom. That's not going to happen as they all want younger men and I am apparently too old.
So my fantasies are turning more and more to finding another married guy my age who is interested in exploring mutual sexuality without destroying the our marriages. I am just wondering if there are other guys like me that have watched their wife have sexual relations and are somewhat excited about the idea of fondling another man's erection without the presence of our wives and in having us both ejaculate.
Does anyone else share this desire?
Tim
Eventually we migrated to just her dating and an occasional three some with one of her dates. On her dates I would wait home for hours with a constant erection thinking about what she was doing with the other guy. It was very erotic for me. When she came home she would describe for my pleasure in great detail exactly what happened; how she could feel him getting hard against her leg as they danced, kissing and petting, undressing in the motel room, his penis size, technique, what positions they used and you get the idea. I sometimes would cum without even entering her as she related the encounter to me. She didn't have that many guys, but dated the same ones over about a 20 year period. I think there were about 15 total. She was happy and I was happy with this arrangement.
I was and am still turned on with her having sex with other men and wish she would do it again. However due to menopause and a hysterectomy she is no longer interested in extramarital sexual encounters. Much to my lose. She will give me hand jobs and even allow me sexual intercourse if I request it, but it's not the same as she never is aroused to the point of cumming like she used to do with me watching her with another man. Or me going down on her after a date. I used to really enjoy that as her vulva would be swollen and hot and very sexy after a night out.
On the other hand I still masturbate 4 or 5 times a week to completion remembering her past sexual escapades and visualizing an aroused penis entering her and being excited to the point of orgasim. That is almost the only way I can climax. I especially enjoy remembering her getting fucked doggie style on our bed and her breasts moving with the rhythm of the thrusts.
So what's the point? I have been fascinated about finding another couple like my wife and I were who would accept me into their bedroom. That's not going to happen as they all want younger men and I am apparently too old.
So my fantasies are turning more and more to finding another married guy my age who is interested in exploring mutual sexuality without destroying the our marriages. I am just wondering if there are other guys like me that have watched their wife have sexual relations and are somewhat excited about the idea of fondling another man's erection without the presence of our wives and in having us both ejaculate.
Does anyone else share this desire?
Tim
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