Oh man! She's one of the hottest little wives I've seen on here in awhile. It sounds like to me you're playing things pretty well, and she's beginning to buy the idea, as well. I look forward to hearing about your future adventures. The only thing I'd add to what has been already said is that sometimes you have to just summon the nerve to go ahead and spit out what's on your mind. All too often people are thinking the same thing, but neither of them dares to say it. It sounds to me like she's ready as hell and is just waiting to make sure you're not going to leave her or lose respect for her if she actually acts out her desire to fuck someone else and please you in the bargain. She may also be worried about her own reaction to sex with other men. Will she lose herself? Will she lose you? Can she maintain her self respect while becoming a wanton slut? So tell her in plain and simple terms that it's your fondest desire that she fuck other men . . . frequently and well, and you will love her forever for doing it. She's had enough time now to accept the idea theoretically, but you may not have actually convinced her that you're serious about it and will help her through any difficulties it causes at first. It goes against a wife's instincts and all that she's been taught, after all, to think that she could get away with fucking other men (no matter how much she'd secretly like to and no matter how often she has lately seen men she'd like to fuck!) and not lose the love and respect of her husband, as well as her good reputation as a wife and respectable member of the community. Those social inhibitions are powerful forces, so instead of teasing her about it and denying her sex, I'd suggest beginning to fuck and eat her more regularly and talk honestly to her about what you want her to do with other men before, during, and after you two have sex. Go down on her and whisper how excited it would make you to find her full of other men's sperm. Fuck her and whisper how you'd love to watch her pussy getting stretched by a real live black dick that's twice the size of yours. Afterward, while you lay in each other's arms, tell her how fantastic the sex was while you were thinking about her really doing it with strangers and hot men. A woman who is having sex regularly, even less than satisfactory sex, thinks about getting fucked more often, stays hornier, and fantasizes more than a woman starved for it. So fuck her regularly, even if you don't do it well. Keep her sexual pump primed, but admit to her that you don't think you have the sex drive, stamina, dick size or ability that a sexy woman like her deserves. Tell her you're willing to make up for it by allowing her to enjoy sex with more virile men as often as she likes and whenever she finds herself attracted to one. Promise her that her sexual secrets will be safe with you, and you will always support and love her no matter how many men she fucks. A good way to get things physically started is one you're already discussing, going to places where you don't know anyone and she is not familiar and encouraging her to flirt, dance with other men, and generally loosen up and enjoy herself with your protection and support. Encourage her to go out alone or enter places separately and play like you don't know each other. That way she has the security of knowing you're there, but other men just see her as an attractive woman alone. Often women are relatively insecure about participating in the sexual marketplace again for the first time after having been married awhile, and if might help if you actually approached other men for her the first time or two. I actually enjoyed doing that for my wife, especially at first. Later, of course, she didn't need me for such things because she'd fucked enough men to know how easy it was and how desirable she was, but on at least three or four occasions I did the talking, and it wasn't nearly as hard for me as it would have been for her, especially after we'd had a few drinks. The first time I did it was in a hotel bar, and I just sat down next to a guy she was interested in at the bar and quietly told him that my wife was the woman sitting at a table across the room, and she found him attractive and had asked me to invite him to our room for a late night drink. He looked over at her (not for the first time!), smiled and said he'd love to. Ten minutes later I was sitting in a chair in our darkened hotel room jacking off and watching them fuck. It was hot as hell. After several such encounters we tried a new idea. I'd leave her naked in our hotel room and go find a stranger to come fuck her. It was exciting for me to have to find someone I thought she'd like and I'd enjoy watching fuck her, and it was very exciting for her to stay in our room watching television and drinking and fondling herself, naked on the bed, waiting for me to show up with some horny stranger she'd never seen before who would be fucking her within minutes of coming in the door. And, of course, I usually brought back black men when I could find them. There are lots of fun and safe ways to get things rolling, and once she gets rolling with other men, watch out, because it gets much, much easier for her and much more fun for both of you. You've got the makings of a perfect hot wife there. Good luck.
