Hubsub,
hubsub said:
My wife has made me post these pics of what I have to wear to satisfy her.
That's very reasonable and appropriate. It's also a good sign... very positive... that when your wife told you what to do, you did it.
hubsub said:
Now, she wants to stretch her ass with a 'real-man's' cock.
That's to be expected. The (hollow, evidently) strap-on dildo or cock-sleeve your wife requires you to wear is an expression of her desire for a larger cock, obviously. She probably began fantasizing about having a well-hung lover as soon as she began requiring you to use your "cock expander." It was only a matter of time until she began telling you openly about her desire...
hubsub said:
First she lubes herself (she's never done that for me), then she sodomises herself on the cock.
So, your wife likes it anally... interesting. Many married women don't allow their husbands to fuck them anally, because... well, you know... they feel they need to maintain appearances, and suspect their husbands won't respect them as "proper married women" if they allow that. But, with lovers it's different. They don't want to become known as "uptight" or "prissy," so nothing — including anal fucking — is off the table...
Anyway — since the hollow dildo your wife requires you wear when she fucks you is substantially larger than your cock, she requires lubrication. It sounds like she doesn't feel your cock is large enough (in circumference) to make it worthwhile for her to bother with that, otherwise...
hubsub said:
Why has my wife never cum when I fuck her? Yet every time she makes me fuck her with the strap-on she cums over and over again. Mish, doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, spoon - for every position, at least one orgasm each time.
Lots of women can't orgasm from vaginal intercourse with (evidently) men who have about average- to smaller-than-average size cocks.
Such women often can, however, orgasm — i.e., cum with a clitoral orgasm — if their man goes down on them and gives them cunnilingus. Thus, you might consider expanding your repertoire and becoming your wife's cuntsucker. See (for instance):
Cunnilingus - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Also, some women can orgasm from analingus. Since your wife likes taking your expanded cock (so to speak) anally, perhaps she is among them. Thus, you might consider further expanding your repertoire and also becoming her asskisser. See (for instance):
Anilingus - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Regarding both of the above, see:
Queening:
The Fine Art of Queening and:
Chin Dildos:
The Accommodator Chin Dildos, Face Dildos, Head Dildos, Facial Dildos and:
Queening Furniture (“Queens and Kings”):
queens and kings-queening and:
Queening Furniture (“Fetish Furniture Factory”):
Fetish Furniture Factory
(For position possibilities, under "Queens and Kings furniture" click on "its origins" then scroll down to the "queening gallery... 'queening, anyone?' ")
Women who orgasm readily, oftentimes repeatedly, when they fuck a lover with a significantly larger-than-average cock do so (it appears) as a result of having what might be called a "second g-spot"* or, more generically, a "second area of sensitivity" deep in their vaginas that is stimulated by longer cocks — especially by cocks that are both longer and larger in circumference. This appears to be the case with your wife.
*A woman's "normal" G-spot is located only about 2-1/2 inches inside her vagina, as you probably know. (This, of course, is the reason many dildo's are turned upward at the end.) If your wife doesn't experience "G-spot vaginal orgasms" when she fucks you, conceivably that may be because your cock doesn't have sufficient circumference. But, that's just speculation.
hubsub said:
And, she squirts until it drenches the bed. Not once has she squirted with my cock.
That's very cool. It's a real turn-on if a woman female-ejaculates during orgasm. You're very fortunate that your wife does that, and to have discovered (with her insistence, it sounds like) a means for giving her orgasms that are so intense she ejaculates.
—Custer