Sexygirluk,
sexygirluk said:
My mate fucked my wife with his thick 9 incher; now my wife can't get enough of it. She can't believe after all these years of just fucking my 5 incher what she has been missing. She's having multiple orgasms [with my friend and] squirting.
Congratulations! You introduced your wife to big-cock sex, and she loves it! Your experimental effort to see whether fucking your friend would increase your wife's sexual appetite and satisfaction was wildly successful.
sexygirluk said:
But, my wife struggles to orgasm with me [as before, seems to be the implication]. I wanted her to [fuck my friend] but didn't think she would [be so responsive]. She keeps going to his house to [continue] fucking him.
That's what your wife is supposed to do when she's intensely turned-on by a lover. I suggest relaxing, suppressing your feelings of cuckold anxiety (or panic), and trying to enjoy — indirectly — your wife's intensely-elevated sexual satisfaction. I suggest this because the intensity of your wife's affair probably won't last forever. Since your friend is obviously talented at satisfying women, his services are probably in demand. Thus, his attentions like as not will wander to other (possibly married) women after a while.
If so, your friend's sexual interest in your wife will like-as-not taper off to a lesser level of intensity, although it won't necessarily drop to zero.
sexygirluk said:
I may have made a mistake.
Your main mistake appears to be attempting to compete with your friend's 9-inch cock and his related sexual abilities. You may be more successful with your wife if you recognize her new lover has put you in the shade (so to speak), and accept your new role in her marriage and the broader society as your wife's cuckold. This would include taking on the role of househusband in order to provide her with the support she needs to devote her time and energy to fucking her lover. As such, you might... for instance... begin assisting her with her preparations (bathing, selecting and putting on her sexy lingerie and short dresses, and learning to manicure her finger- and toenails) whenever she goes to her lover's home to fuck him, or otherwise goes out on dates with him.
It might also help if you recognize your main source of sexual satisfaction, now, may have to consist of masturbating at home while imagining what your wife and her lover are doing.
It may also help if you recognize your main job when your wife returns from fucking her lover — as noted by Jeffers and Daddyau — is to clean up her pussy and/or her asshole with your tongue while she rides your face, thereby attaining one or more additional orgasms. See, for instance:
The Fine Art of Queening
For illustrations of queening positions that may be of interest to you and your wife, see:
Queening Furniture (“Queens and Kings”):
queens and kings-queening
then click on "It's Origins" and scroll down to "Queening Gallery."
(Other forum members have said they, and sometimes their wives, find queening distasteful at first but they come to find it a turn-on and look forward to it when their wives come home from their dates.)
Good luck with your new role as your wife's cuckold. Both of you have taken a big step.
—Custer