You like a woman and "want to keep her in your life", but she says that "if you want to stay, you have to let her play". A real cuckoldress says to her husband, "I play or you are history, I set the rules, you obey, I know what is good for you, end of story".
The only way for a husband to prove he is not cheating, is to let his wife cage him and hide the key until she is in the mood to take off her panties again. Sex is "absolutely the best" when a penis has been denied release for far two long. And when the husband gets his release, he is "ever so grateful" and promises all sorts of things on the spur of the moment, even that fur coat if she wants one.
Virgins "hold off", so guys get excited by the chase. For some guys, once they take her virginity, she loses some of her glamour and becomes just "normal" like others.