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CuckoldMick

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My name is Mick and my hot wife’s name is Kristen (Krissy). I’ve been reading your comments for a number of months and thought it was time to “come out”.

I’m in a traditional May-December marriage (I’m 56 and Kris is 38--- we met when I was 48 and she was 31 and we were married 5 years ago). Six months after our wedding Krissy began cuckolding me--- not that I had any idea what cuckoldry was then or that she intended to introduce this lifestyle into our relationship. Nearly 5 years later Krissy has been with nearly 40 different men and currently dates up to 3 guys per month (regulars).

Like other cuckold men I have kept a diary nearly the entire time we have been in the lifestyle (which I have entitled “My Life with a Slut Wife”)--- that details almost everything that has happened… the names of her lovers, what they did, what I did, etc. I also have written extensively on the subject of cuckoldry (in private), and consider myself somewhat of an armchair expert on the subject (if I do say so myself).

I’d like to share My Life with a Slut Wife with other cuckolds (cuckoldresses, bulls/studs, Doms, etc.). From reading your posts I believe I have something to offer the group--- if nothing else some real true life experiences of a man that has been a cuckold for a number of years and who has spent most of those years working to understand the phenomenon. And, from what I have read in this forum my experiences have been both “right on” and unique in their own way.

I look forward to sharing.

CuckoldMick :)
 
CuckoldMick,

Thanks for your post. Welcome to the forum!

CuckoldMick said:
I’d like to share "My Life with My Slut Wife" with other cuckolds (cuckoldresses, bulls/studs, Doms, etc.). From reading your posts I believe I have something to offer this group.... —CuckoldMick :)

Yes, I think so. How about an account of the first time your wife fucked another man ~6 months after you married her, thus making you her cuckold, and how you came to terms with that...?

How did Krissy identify her first extramarital conquest (as it were) as a potential lover? Was he someone she had known for a long time, or a relatively new acquaintance?

Afterwards, were there bad feelings and recriminations between the two of you? Did you assert you too should have the right to fuck other women? If so, how did your wife respond to that? Or, did you pretty much agree straight off that Krissy, as your wife, would have the right to date and fuck whomever she pleased, while you would remain faithful as her cuckold...?

—Custer
 
Mac, thanks for your message.

We had an affair to begin our relationship, and between us both getting divorces from our existing spouses and setting up house together it took us about two years to get to the altar. (FYI--- she was a student of mine at the local university, and was "hot for teacher" lol). Sex was pretty vanilla during most of this time and my impression of Krissy was that she was not concerned about our age difference and that she was satisfied with our "missionary-style" unadventurous sex life.

However, about 4 or 5 months before our wedding things began to change in little ways. One day I came home from work and found her masturbating with a vibrator and a sizable dildo. Soon after I accompanied her to the local sex shop where we purchased several toys for her use, including elaborate vibrating dildos and glass toys. At home she had me assist her masturbate--- an activity that we share to this day. I passed it off as just a part of our regular sex routine, but in retrospect it was a clear sign that I was not getting the job done. My issue isn't size (7.5 inches with some good girth)--- its not being able to keep up with her between the sheets. At my age I don't have the staying power to bring her to the kind and number of orgasms she wants and needs--- not to mention that she wants to have sex everyday (and turned out to be very adventurous to boot). I was/am way over my head with her--- and all the Viagra in the world ("Happy Pills" as we call them) can't bring me up to her level sexually.

Of course I didn't see things this way as we recited our vows--- I was just happy to be marrying a beautiful younger woman. As you can imagine, after we got married things began to change very rapidly--- just to tantalize you, it only took her a couple of months to ratchet up our play with "toys".... and one day when I got home from work she was waiting for me wearing a new strap-on complete with a large fake cock. More later.

(Custer--- I will respond to your questions as soon as I can).

CuckoldMick
 
Nice to meet you CuckoldMick - and I'm looking forward to hearing more about Krissy (there's something special about a girl with a glass dildo) ;)
 
Custer,

A little background. Kris and I went to Las Vegas for our honeymoon and I began to realize that I wasn’t “doing it” for her. She got very frisky and I couldn’t keep up with her--- and I felt somewhat inadequate. A while later (back home) I remember a defining moment that’s relevant--- we were making love and as I began to cum I looked into her eyes and I could see this utterly disinterested look on her face. Some time after she came to me crying, telling me that she felt like an old married woman who would never have the thrill of the first time experience again. I felt terrible.

The moment of truth came when I returned from a business trip to Arizona a month or so later--- when she approached me and asked me outright if I would consider “swinging”. I knew why she was asking and agreed to try it out. After a week on the swinging website without much response Kris asked me if it was okay if she ”went first”--- meaning, of course, if I would let her play alone--- and I agreed. To be honest I didn’t have any idea what long term ramifications this would have. The next day she hooked up with a single male from the website and before I could wrap my arms around what was happening she was out fucking this complete stranger.

She arrived back home in tears--- and told me the details of her experience. She met this guy at the same motel we used to patronize when we were having our affair. After some chit chat she sucked his cock and then he bent her over the end of the bed (standing up) and pounded her from behind for about 15 minutes before unloading in her. Apparently after he finished he just zipped up and left.

The entire incident didn’t seem real to me, though I could smell the guy’s scent on her and when I touched her pussy it was slick with his cum. She let me have sloppy seconds and I have to admit that it turned me on knowing that she had just been with another guy--- though my head was filled with a number of conflicting thoughts. I didn’t get mad—instead I comforted her, since it seemed like she had had a bad experience. Interestingly, when I told her how sorry I was that she didn’t enjoy her first time--- she was quick to correct me saying that she had several orgasms and that “it wasn’t all bad”.

We decided that we would pursue couples first and that if she wanted to try another single male (SM) that I would have to interview him (and approve) and that the man would be told that Kriss was not after a “hit and run” fucking. About a week later Kris arranged an “interview” with another SM. We met at a hotel lounge during my lunch hour and he appeared to be a good choice. Kris asked him if we could talk alone for a minute and the guy excused himself. She told me she was hot for him and that she wanted to fuck him “right now”--- I agreed, and got up and left to return to work leaving her alone to tell this new stranger the ‘good news’.

On the way back to work it finally hit me like a ton of bricks--- my wife was fucking another man. At the office I couldn’t concentrate and just sat at my desk staring at my computer screen--- thinking that at that very moment this guy, this nobody to me, had it cock in MY WIFE. It was my initial “cuckold” mountain top experience.

There’s much more to this experience--- the man’s name was Ryan and he turned out to be an extremely interesting person. He became Kristen’s “steady” for many months and we had a number of fun and exciting encounters, including hot threesomes, an orgy, and some heavy “slut wife” training. But what Ryan contributed the most to my transformation into Krissy’s cuckold was his knowledge of the lifestyle and his encouragement that she cuckolded me (though he never used this term and I was still unfamiliar with it).

One last snippet. It was Ryan that got me to eat my first creampie. They were together one night when I received an email from Ryan with “instructions” (not unusual). He told me that he would be sending Kristen home to me with her pussy full of his cum and that I was to orally clean her. I thought it was just a game, so when she got home I tried to play it off as a joke. But Kris was serious and made me do it--- which left me a little queasy--- but curiously, it also gave me an unexpected hard on. More later.

Hope this answers your questions.

CuckoldMick
 
Mac,

Didn't answer your question completely. Did she cheat on me? If she did she was good at keeping it secret--- but I am quick to point out that she cheated on her ex-husband and he didn't know it until she served him with the divorce papers. After we got together, Krissy admitted that I wasn't her first "affair" and that she had worked as a cocktail waitress once upon a time and that there had been seven other guys.

Guess I was thinking with the wrong head-- cuzz I fell in love with her anyway. The great irony--- it was her sexuality that I wanted, her youthful body, the smell of her "ripe" pussy, her perfect teeth and smile--- the way she dressed and wore her hair. Her sweet perfume.

But today, I am mostly denied any of these "charms"--- which she bestows on her lovers, and rarely on me. She has evolved into a natural cuckoldress and is an expert at cuckolding me--- without ever picking up "the book". Its not "be careful what you ask for"--- in my case "its be careful who you marry and what you agree to"....lol :eek:

CuckoldMick
 
CuckoldMick,

Thanks for your articulate and comprehensive reply.

CuckoldMick said:
Custer, A little background. .... [Kris and I] were making love and as I began to cum I looked into her eyes and could see this utterly disinterested look on her face. Some time after she came to me crying, telling me that she felt like an old married woman who would never have the thrill of the first-time experience again. I felt terrible.

Oh-oh.... you knew you had trouble, my friend, right there in River City....

CuckoldMick said:
The moment of truth came when I returned from a business trip to Arizona a month or so later--- when she approached me and asked me outright if I would consider “swinging”.

Ah, yes.... "swinging," in which the cuckold-in-waiting (you, in this case) soon finds his wife is attracting all the attention, and comes to realize a married man seeking extramarital sex is, well, sort of like "business as usual" and nowhere near as exciting as a married woman seeking to cuckold her husband — especially if she's young, looks hot and exudes sexuality....

CuckoldMick said:
I knew why she was asking and agreed to try it out. After a week on the swinging website without much response Kris asked me if it was okay if she ”went first”--- meaning, of course, if I would let her play alone--- and I agreed. To be honest I didn’t have any idea what long term ramifications this would have.

The long-term ramifications are, of course, analogous to the well-known Golden Rule ("he who has the gold makes the rules"), except it's "she who has the ovaries and womb attracts the lovers."

CuckoldMick said:
The next day she hooked up with a single male from the website and before I could wrap my arms around what was happening she was out fucking this complete stranger.

Sounds like a good demonstration of "the ovaries/womb rule."

CuckoldMick said:
She arrived back home in tears--- and told me the details of her experience. She met this guy at the same motel we used to patronize when we were having our affair.

Must have been tears of nostalgia....

CuckoldMick said:
After some chit chat she sucked his cock and then he bent her over the end of the bed (standing up) and pounded her from behind for about 15 minutes before unloading in her. Apparently after he finished he just zipped up and left.

Jeez.... that doesn't sound too chivalrous and gentlemanly at all. He sounds sort of boorish, in fact.

CuckoldMick said:
The entire incident didn’t seem real to me, though I could smell the guy’s scent on her and when I touched her pussy it was slick with his cum. She let me have sloppy seconds and I have to admit that it turned me on knowing that she had just been with another guy--- though my head was filled with a number of conflicting thoughts.

Hm.... sounds like reality began slowly sinking in.

CuckoldMick said:
I didn’t get mad—instead I comforted her, since it seemed like she had had a bad experience.

Very nice.... an entirely appropriate response to your seemingly-hurt wife, as her cuckold....

CuckoldMick said:
Interestingly, when I told her how sorry I was that she didn’t enjoy her first time--- she was quick to correct me saying that she had several orgasms and that “it wasn’t all bad”.

Ah-ha.... verification of the "tears of nostalgia" hypothesis....

CuckoldMick said:
We decided that we would pursue couples first and that if she wanted to try another single male (SM) that I would have to interview him (and approve) and that the man would be told that Kriss was not after a “hit and run” fucking. About a week later Kris arranged an “interview” with another SM. We met at a hotel lounge during my lunch hour and he appeared to be a good choice. Kris asked him if we could talk alone for a minute and the guy excused himself. She told me she was hot for him and that she wanted to fuck him “right now”--- I agreed, and got up and left to return to work leaving her alone to tell this new stranger the ‘good news’.

So, the "swinging couples strategy" once again devolved into your wife/cuckoldress immediately attracting the interest of a hot single man, whom she responded to immediately.... but on the plus side, your response was entirely proper and appropriate.

CuckoldMick said:
On the way back to work it finally hit me like a ton of bricks--- my wife was fucking another man. At the office I couldn’t concentrate and just sat at my desk staring at my computer screen--- thinking that at that very moment this guy, this nobody to me, had his cock in MY WIFE. It was my initial “cuckold” mountain top experience.

Yeah, really.... sounds like the sort of thing that could seriously decrease your work productivity.

CuckoldMick said:
There’s much more to this experience--- the man’s name was Ryan and he turned out to be an extremely interesting person. He became Kristen’s “steady” for many months and we had a number of fun and exciting encounters, including hot threesomes, an orgy, and some heavy “slut wife” training.

This sounds very cool....

CuckoldMick said:
But what Ryan contributed the most to my transformation into Krissy’s cuckold was his knowledge of the lifestyle and his encouragement of her cuckolding of me (though he never used this term, and I was still unfamiliar with it).

Awright.... obviously your young wife scored a winning lover on her second attempt. That's admirable; it sounds like Ryan furthered her education substantially (something you're in a position to appreciate, it sounds like).

CuckoldMick said:
One last snippet. It was Ryan that got me to eat my first creampie. They were together one night when I received an e-mail from Ryan with “instructions” (not unusual). He told me he would be sending Kristen home to me with her pussy full of his cum and that I was to orally clean her. I thought it was just a game, so when she got home I tried to play it off as a joke.

Well, yes — of course. I mean, who did this guy think he was, anyway...?

CuckoldMick said:
But Kris was serious and made me do it--- which left me a little queasy--- but curiously, it also gave me an unexpected hard on.

Hm.... when your wife told you to suck her cunt and eat her lover's cream pie that, of course, was serious. Good to hear you immediately perceived it was your duty as her cuckold to obey, though, and you complied.

CuckoldMick said:
More later. Hope this answers your questions.

Yes, thanks for your great reply. Regarding your last comment (above):

CuckoldMick said:
It was her sexuality I wanted, her youthful body, the smell of her "ripe" pussy, her perfect teeth and smile--- the way she dressed and wore her hair. Her sweet perfume. But today, I am mostly denied any of these "charms," which she bestows on her lovers and rarely on me. She has evolved into a natural cuckoldress and is an expert at cuckolding me--- without ever picking up "the book". — CuckoldMick

Sounds like your wife is a natural. As for your own high sexual aspirations.... ah, well. That's life in the jungle, I guess.

Will look forward to hearing more of your wife's continuing adventures as your boss/cuckoldress, and your feelings and responses in your (albeit unexpected) role as her cuckold husband.

Best wishes to both of you—

Custer
 
Thanks for your comments Custer. I didn't realize how much I had to say until I began writing it down here. I can tell you that everything that I report is real and it happened pretty much as written with no editorizing. There's so much more that I feel anxious to just blurt it all out--- but I will remember that "patience is a virtue".

CuckoldMick
 
Mick,

Please continue to fill us in on your journey. You sound like a stand up fellow. I hope that you are both getting what you like, want, and need from your relationship. Welcome to the board.
 
sharing stories is fun..seeing how other people got into all this.. would love to share some of mine..in posts.but also find an email or IM cuck buddy. hit me up mike000028@yahoo...just soooo into it right now (esp being 15days denied orgasm)

great stories mick
so glad she was up front about it all with ya...and it makes that much more intense to be cuckd by someone who you have an investment in
 

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