Well, the wife instructed me to buy a CB6000 yesterday. I will be entering chastity soon. Some things in our relationship has put us on this path now. I am excited and very afraid. Excited for the obvious reasons. Afraid because I'm not sure how it will affect me. See what led to this is that my wife had 2 "incidents" with a coworker and did not tell me. I blame myself. I obviously have not paid enough attention to her. I love her tremendously but am not as devoted as I need to be. We are hoping that this will focus both of us on eachother more. Me the wearer, her the key holder.
Does anyone have any advice or insight that will help us start on this path?
My guess would be, wearing a chastity device with your wife as sole key holder will have the effect of focusing your attentions much more closely on her. I imagine she is going to like that. It will enable her to focus much more of her time, energy and creative imagination on her lover(s) while expecting you to support her by doing a much larger share of the housework — and, in addition, providing her with other personal services she may only have been able to dream about previously.
Curious Cuckold said:
I blame myself. I obviously have not paid enough attention to her. I love her tremendously....
You ****** your wife to become very loney and seek sex elsewhere, and her body may already have become addicted and re-programmed to expect her adultery to continue long-term. This is your fault, and your willingness to wear a chastity device long-term for a number of years will enable your wife and her best friend to persuade you to "lift your act" so that you never let your wife down again. Chastity is the ideal way to "put things right".
Your wife will advise you of the best ways to make amends, and it is very important that you "go with the flow" and "not make any waves" as she continues to be poly and you monogamous. Your wife will listen to her body vibrational yearnings to get in touch with her primal needs.
Google.... 'A real wife does not do housework' and give your wife a copy, and continue to read every free story you can find on the internet about cuckoldry, including the thousands of stories on 'Literotica' and any articles by 'Elsie Sutton'.
Your marriage will grow stronger if your wife is in charge of it.
I would suggest introducing your wife to it, urging her to read it all the way through, then respond accordingly if she chooses to implement Lady Misato's program, so to speak (which I suspect she will find appealing). It may have potential for greatly improving your relationship with her.
Your wife needs to add some tease and denial in with your chastity. with stimulation and no release your focus will be on how to make her happy. you should start doing all the house work so she can just relax. its now about her not you. you also need to tell her she has the freedom to do what she wishes when she wishes with whom she wishes
Well, today was the first day of fitting. I cannot believe how comfortable it is. I can easily see how this can be worn non stop for days, weeks, months at a time. We have to hurry and get it fitted properly over the next several days because she is going out of town for 2 WEEKS. I really hope I can mentally handle it. Kinda soon for such a long period of time.
Oh and I just found out my wife has been sucking coworkers' cocks for years. And she never told me. The only way I found out was just 2 days ago she asked me to get on her PC to look over some docs and a Yahoo email popped up. It was from a guy she worked with in Ohio several years ago. He mentioned how he would like to see her when she comes in town next week and have some "sweaty slippery fuck time". He also mentioned how he still thinks of her blowing him in the conference room as she fingered herself. AND she sent him the same pics I have posted of her up here before. Wow. She is a blowjob queen/slut. So now part of my chastity has to do with my anger of her lying all these years and wanting to go out and fuck someone.
I have attached a couple pics with the temp plastic key since it was my first day. She says fulltime chastity starts on Jan.1 Boy have I been masturbating like a crazed monkey for the last week as we waited for the CB 6000 to arrive. It is the craziest thing. You have ZERO cock sensations. Not even the rubbing of your pants. Or touching it when you piss. I have to sit down by the way to piss so far. It is truly a denial ultimate.
So wish me luck. At least now she won't lie to me about giving blowjobs and maybe will let me be present.