I am 45 my wife is 35 and we have been married 16 years, the last couple of years I have expierenced loss of a sexual drive that I had before. I love my wife dearly but can only get turned on by the thought of her doing a BBC, while we have discussed this and she will role play and nasty about it while we are having sex, I really want to see her with a bbc, I have no desire to be with another woman but would love to see her. I have discussed this with her and she feelsit is not normal for a man to want to see his wife with another, anyhow am just feeling very confused and frustrated and expierence or advice any of you have is greatly appreciated.
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Is this Normal
- Thread starterArtioga
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Semi-Normal. What concerns me is not wanting to see a BBC take your wife, but that it is the only thing that gets you turned on. Before you start the cuckold fetish in your own life, straighten out the intimate relations issues you have with your wife. If she doesn't turn you on by the feelings of love you have for her alone, then you might be heading to troubled waters.
A man has most testosterone at age 18, and by age 65 it has fallen to 25%.
Testosterone controls the speed that the prostrate can refill itself. When it is full, there is a desire to have an ejaculation. It is difficult to have sex if the prostrate gland has not re-charged enough.
Teenagers find that there prostrate gland refills very quickly, so they can do a lot of masturbation. Puberty brings a big surge of testosterone.
Psychological problems also have a major affect on libido, especially if a wife is moody and turns her husband down often when he asks for sex.
Females have peak sex drive at 35, and it is still double that of a man at 65. Psychological and hormonal fluctuations can sometimes cause a woman to lose interest in sex for various periods of time.
Testosterone controls the speed that the prostrate can refill itself. When it is full, there is a desire to have an ejaculation. It is difficult to have sex if the prostrate gland has not re-charged enough.
Teenagers find that there prostrate gland refills very quickly, so they can do a lot of masturbation. Puberty brings a big surge of testosterone.
Psychological problems also have a major affect on libido, especially if a wife is moody and turns her husband down often when he asks for sex.
Females have peak sex drive at 35, and it is still double that of a man at 65. Psychological and hormonal fluctuations can sometimes cause a woman to lose interest in sex for various periods of time.
