Is this heading where I think it is?

[johnrousher]

My wife recently told me that she feels bad for our babysitter. She can't hve children of her own. Her and her husband have tried for years but the doctors ran tests and say that she can't have children.

My wife was feeling bad for them and mentioned she wouldn't mind being a surrogate for them. At first it didn't dawn on me and then I started thinking about how my wife would be carrying someone else's child. I've had a vasectomy so I never really thought of her being pregnant again.

Then as we were talking a few days later she brought it up again and said she really felt bad and wished she could help them have a child of their own. But I then asked her how they could with the babysitter not having any fertile eggs. Then the othe shoe dropped and my wife just randomly said that she would mind if they used her egg.

I let it go and then later on about a week later she brought it up again and mentioned she had looked online at how much the fertilization would be and that neither us or them could afford it.

The more I think about it the more I'm thinking that my wife may end up on her back taking this guys sperm the old fashion way. I'm not sure how I feel about her carrying another man's baby for them much less him knocking her up. He's a nice looking guy and actually very arrogant so I can imagine the thoughts he would have about me after planting a baby in my wife.


But one thing's for sure, I'm rock hard thinking about it.

So am I dreaming or does that sound like that is where it is headed?

 

[renonympho]

It may be where it is heading, but this is not the right situation to be a part of. You are excited about it for sexual reasons. You're wife seems to be into it because she seems caring and compassionate. The arrogant husband sounds like he may be using you both. Not to mention; there is no mention of how the other woman feels about it.

I think this is a bad idea all around. If you want to enjoy a cuckold relationship do it for you and your wife; not someone else.

 

[becontree2001uk]

I think she wants to fuck the babysiters husband! Is he black? Do you want to be a cuckold?

 

[Custer Laststand]

But hey, what do I know....

MacNfries,

Regarding your comment:

johnrousher Carrying a baby does have its fair share of risks. Last time I recall, the going rate was something like $30,000 + all expenses, (I suspect Custer might want documentation) and that was a couple years ago.

Some of the "statistics" you've laid on us out of the blue have seemed sort of, well, fantasmagoric.... but I won't contest this one. Googling "surrogate mother payments" brought up a site called "pay for surrogate mothers" which says, in part:

"This a job that is unlike the normal 9 to 5 job that most of us have. It requires the surrogate mother to be “working” 24 hours a day, 7 days a week until the baby is born. Because of that, women are compensated for their time and the toll being a surrogate mother takes on their body and their lives for the time before and during their pregnancy. The amount of pay a woman receives varies, but can range from $25,000 to as much as $35,000."

So, it looks like you're in the right ballpark.

johnrousher Certainly I wouldn't consider doing this for the couple for free.

I don't want you to take this as a personal insult, Mac, so I'll break this to you as gently as possible. The probability that anyone will offer you ~ $30 K to be a surrogate mother for them is very, very low. But hey, what do I know....

—Custer

 

[johnrousher]

Update.

To answer a few questions, a while back we actually did go out with the babysitter and her husband and I asked her why she didn't have any kids since she was so good with them. She said that she wanted to have kids but apparently she had an abortion in her teenage years and she was unable to get pregnant now. I didn't go any more into it.

I do know that her and her husband were high school sweet hearts and been together since they were seniors in high school. He is white and about 6'2" and in decent shape. He played football in high school and has kept himself up since then. I'm not ashamed to say he's a good looking man.

My wife is 27, 5'8" and about 120 pounds. She is blonde and turns a lot of heads. She knows that I get online and talk to other guys about sex, etc. But she doesn't know I'm part of a cuckold site.


Last night I told her that I had asked the advice of a guy on line and he said that she probably wouldn't get pregnant the first time if she had sex. She said she was aware and had been thinking that if we did decide to do this she would have to track her cycles and "try to conceive" (her words) several times while she was the most fertile.

So now I'm thinking that if they do this that she'll be getting it from him several times. WHile I know that the main goal for all parties would be to have a baby. I know that this guy would love to even just have sex with my wife.

Last night we had sex and we usually start out with some fourplay, then I cum in her and then she cleans up a little and then I go down on her, get her off and then we fuck until I cum again.

After I came in her the first time she didn't get out of bed, just gently pushed my head down. She asked once I was down there if she was really messy. I told her yes and she said just off the cuff that if she tried to be a surrogate she would probably me really messy for me a whole lot more. I think she was just doing that to get me hornier, but I about shot my load right then.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Eyes wide shut....?

Johnrousher,

You and your wife might give some thought to the possibility that if your wife likes your babysitter's husband and finds him attractive, and if they spend multiple nights in bed together, and if she becomes pregnant by him, then carries his and her baby to term and gives birth, then in an emotional sense she will feel very, very strongly that it is *her* (and his) baby.

The emotional bonding between a woman and her baby that occurs when she gives birth is on a primal level and is very strong. Thus, I suggest your wife would almost certainly find it an incredibly wrenching experience to hand her baby over to your babysitter after birth, even if there is a formal agreement among all concerned that she will do so.

Another possibility you should probably consider is that your wife and your babysitter's husband will find this too difficult to deal with, and consequently your wife will leave you, your babysitter's husband will leave her, and they will remarry each other in order to raise what they will view (rightly) as their child. That won't necessarily occur if all concerned go into this with their "eyes wide open," but it strikes me as possible your wife and her (potential) lover may go through all this with their "eyes wide shut," to steal Kubrick's movie title.

—Custer

 

[AngleBaby]

Custer has a good point. If she wants to cuck you, then she needs to be up front about it. If you are turned on by that, find another guy. If she wants a baby by another guy, bring up the counter argument that sexual life styles should not have any influence on your family. Children are not sexual toys to even be part of a fantasy, even as a by product.

 

[Bradley]

John,

Any updates?