Hi,
I am just wondering if our current situation is a possible beginning of a cuckold relationship.
My wife is pretty conservativ when it comes to sex. Since I am with a little under 5 inches on the smaller side I have allways been a very openminded and experimental guy in order to keep my girlfriends happy. I had allready experienced some fun with sex toys. My ex girlfriend loved to be fucked with a huge dildo and I loved to watch.
However it took me some time to convince my wife to try a toy. We started with a smaller abstract dildo and it did not really bring anything for her. She acted like she would not miss anything in bed. On the other hand I could never ever bring her to climax with my penis. No matter how long and how passionate our foreplay was we could fuck till we just could not move anymore but she never climaxed. This only happened when I was licking her and playing with my fingers in her pussy. Ok, the literatur tells us that there are many women out there who can not orgasm just by the stimulus of fucking. So I just gave her satisfaction as good as I could with my tounge and my fingers. In the beginning just now and then. She soon realized how eager I was to perform this duty and to know her satisfied.
So it became a thing which was allways prior to fucking. This did not make things easier for me because I was allways highly turned on by performing pussy licking, by the sight of her having a heavy orgasm and by the very wet and soft feeling of her pussy when I entered her. So in addition to my rather small penis I came like a rocket in very short time. She did not really protest because she was allready satisfied and did not care how long I lasted when I fucked her. So our regular sex became me 90% with my head between her legs and a maximum of 10% in her hot pussy.
A few years down the road I asked her if she ever had orgasms only by intercourse and she answered that this was of course not allways the case, but that she had them with some of her former partners quite frequently just by fucking. She thinks that the reason why it does not work with me is possibly a combination out of size and technic. Honestly, I would have prefered if it would only have been a size issue, because that makes me to a small dicked lousy fucker. Well she did not put it that way but I was just wondering if she was thinking like that and packed it in a nice package for me.
However, our sex live went like that for another year or so. Meanwhile she knows that I like to be humiliated a bit for the size issue and that I would like her to be more dominating. I tried several things and treated her like a queen but she could not warm up to that. She is acting sometimes pretty dominant but when it comes to speaking she would draw back. About a year ago I asked her If I could buy her a more realistic dildo to fuck her while I lick her. She was reluctant but agreed. So we ordered one and I kept an eye on that the dildo was of a good size. When it arrived we were both pretty surprised by the size of the dildo and she was not sure if it would fit. I had no doubts because I was often pleasuring her with four or five fingers. Well the thing is huge but after a lot of foreplay I managed to get in in and she had her fist orgasm with the dildo. In the beginning I could only use it when she was really wet and she wanted him on rare occasions. When we used it she told me to move it only very little and very slow otherwise it starts to hurt. Little by little the occasions when she wanted the dildo increased. Also she started to like it when I moved the dildo a little more.
Some weeks ago I came up with a little denial game that we played now and then in the past. In this game she denies me fucking and just gives me a handjob after I have pleasured her. In the past she stopped that quite fast with a maximum of one week. We are now in the 8 week and she loves to be fucked with the dildo every time when we have sex. There is no more fear that I could move the dildo to much, she loves to be fucked hard and fast! In the beginning she removed the dildo from her pussy immediately after her orgasm, now she loves it when I just stop licking her after she came but keep on fucking her for another 5 minutes. I have never ever seen her coming that wild before. She for sure has the best orgasms since a long time. She still does not like to speak to much about her feelings, but she kept the denial game still going. In the last 2 month I had my penis only two times in her pussy.
Additionaly we were talking about the use of her wearing the loop for contraception. She does not really feel comfortable with the foreign body in her. In our past she was on the pill first but started to dislike it. We experimented with other options and pretty soon realized that we are both highly fertile. So there is no room for any further contraception failure. To be on the absolutly safe side my wife got the loop. Recently she told me that she does not feel all too comfortable with the loop. I told her that if she does not like it she should just get rid of it, but that we chosed it because it was the safest way of contraception (I offered her to have my spermatic ducts clipped, but she did not like it). More in a joking manner I told her that we are not fucking that much nowadays and that she should decide if the few minutes of fucking in the end are worth the disscomfort that the loop gives her. She answered that if she is looking at that issue from an economical position there is no way to opt for keeping the loop. That was when the denial game started to last. I think she is really trying if it could work without intercourse. She had a weak moment about 4 weeks ago where she jumped on me and had a nice ride. I was not pleasuring her before and lasted pretty long. I think it was good for her but of course she did not climax. I thought ok, the denial is over but got surprised the next time when I tried to enter her. Obviously it was not good enough to change her mind.
I am really looking forward how this will develop. She knows that I fantasize about her taking a big dicked lover but does not like the idea. Well maybe this is also changing!? Did anyone of you also enter this lifestyle by a "fake lover" like a dildo?
I would be happy for any serious comments, especially for female insights.
Please excuse any mistakes, I am not used to right and express myself in english.
Best regards
weener
I am just wondering if our current situation is a possible beginning of a cuckold relationship.
My wife is pretty conservativ when it comes to sex. Since I am with a little under 5 inches on the smaller side I have allways been a very openminded and experimental guy in order to keep my girlfriends happy. I had allready experienced some fun with sex toys. My ex girlfriend loved to be fucked with a huge dildo and I loved to watch.
However it took me some time to convince my wife to try a toy. We started with a smaller abstract dildo and it did not really bring anything for her. She acted like she would not miss anything in bed. On the other hand I could never ever bring her to climax with my penis. No matter how long and how passionate our foreplay was we could fuck till we just could not move anymore but she never climaxed. This only happened when I was licking her and playing with my fingers in her pussy. Ok, the literatur tells us that there are many women out there who can not orgasm just by the stimulus of fucking. So I just gave her satisfaction as good as I could with my tounge and my fingers. In the beginning just now and then. She soon realized how eager I was to perform this duty and to know her satisfied.
So it became a thing which was allways prior to fucking. This did not make things easier for me because I was allways highly turned on by performing pussy licking, by the sight of her having a heavy orgasm and by the very wet and soft feeling of her pussy when I entered her. So in addition to my rather small penis I came like a rocket in very short time. She did not really protest because she was allready satisfied and did not care how long I lasted when I fucked her. So our regular sex became me 90% with my head between her legs and a maximum of 10% in her hot pussy.
A few years down the road I asked her if she ever had orgasms only by intercourse and she answered that this was of course not allways the case, but that she had them with some of her former partners quite frequently just by fucking. She thinks that the reason why it does not work with me is possibly a combination out of size and technic. Honestly, I would have prefered if it would only have been a size issue, because that makes me to a small dicked lousy fucker. Well she did not put it that way but I was just wondering if she was thinking like that and packed it in a nice package for me.
However, our sex live went like that for another year or so. Meanwhile she knows that I like to be humiliated a bit for the size issue and that I would like her to be more dominating. I tried several things and treated her like a queen but she could not warm up to that. She is acting sometimes pretty dominant but when it comes to speaking she would draw back. About a year ago I asked her If I could buy her a more realistic dildo to fuck her while I lick her. She was reluctant but agreed. So we ordered one and I kept an eye on that the dildo was of a good size. When it arrived we were both pretty surprised by the size of the dildo and she was not sure if it would fit. I had no doubts because I was often pleasuring her with four or five fingers. Well the thing is huge but after a lot of foreplay I managed to get in in and she had her fist orgasm with the dildo. In the beginning I could only use it when she was really wet and she wanted him on rare occasions. When we used it she told me to move it only very little and very slow otherwise it starts to hurt. Little by little the occasions when she wanted the dildo increased. Also she started to like it when I moved the dildo a little more.
Some weeks ago I came up with a little denial game that we played now and then in the past. In this game she denies me fucking and just gives me a handjob after I have pleasured her. In the past she stopped that quite fast with a maximum of one week. We are now in the 8 week and she loves to be fucked with the dildo every time when we have sex. There is no more fear that I could move the dildo to much, she loves to be fucked hard and fast! In the beginning she removed the dildo from her pussy immediately after her orgasm, now she loves it when I just stop licking her after she came but keep on fucking her for another 5 minutes. I have never ever seen her coming that wild before. She for sure has the best orgasms since a long time. She still does not like to speak to much about her feelings, but she kept the denial game still going. In the last 2 month I had my penis only two times in her pussy.
Additionaly we were talking about the use of her wearing the loop for contraception. She does not really feel comfortable with the foreign body in her. In our past she was on the pill first but started to dislike it. We experimented with other options and pretty soon realized that we are both highly fertile. So there is no room for any further contraception failure. To be on the absolutly safe side my wife got the loop. Recently she told me that she does not feel all too comfortable with the loop. I told her that if she does not like it she should just get rid of it, but that we chosed it because it was the safest way of contraception (I offered her to have my spermatic ducts clipped, but she did not like it). More in a joking manner I told her that we are not fucking that much nowadays and that she should decide if the few minutes of fucking in the end are worth the disscomfort that the loop gives her. She answered that if she is looking at that issue from an economical position there is no way to opt for keeping the loop. That was when the denial game started to last. I think she is really trying if it could work without intercourse. She had a weak moment about 4 weeks ago where she jumped on me and had a nice ride. I was not pleasuring her before and lasted pretty long. I think it was good for her but of course she did not climax. I thought ok, the denial is over but got surprised the next time when I tried to enter her. Obviously it was not good enough to change her mind.
I am really looking forward how this will develop. She knows that I fantasize about her taking a big dicked lover but does not like the idea. Well maybe this is also changing!? Did anyone of you also enter this lifestyle by a "fake lover" like a dildo?
I would be happy for any serious comments, especially for female insights.
Please excuse any mistakes, I am not used to right and express myself in english.
Best regards
weener
