Is there potential ?

[ZAPPATA007]

Hi.
I am very new at this forum. I am a hubby who has been fantasizing about becoming a cuckold for years. Wife has known only me from a sexual point of view and she is (from my point of view) pretty conservative, but still very modern.
After months of chatting with a professional sensual masseur; I set her up for a massage to get her to relax and heal her back.....with his help, my accomplice masseur used special oils and touches to get her so relaxed he actually massaged her pussy and tits and got her to reach orgasms 3 times during the 3 different sessions (one session a day). BUT I did tell her that she needed to do that to get our sexlife sexed up and loosen up her vagina muscles.
Now the masseur relocated very far. When I bring up the subject about him visiting town she does say she's like to "see" him again because he is nice. And that stops here. I have never dared tell her about my fanatsy.

Now the 2 questions I have for you are:

1/ Is that a good sign she is ready for more? Or did she do the massages only because I asked her for physiotherapy reasons?....can massages lead to women get more aroused? her reaching orgasms with him does that mean anything?

2/ If things work out; and that is a big IF.....and she tries another bigger cock or gentler manly hands that know how to get her to orgasms (I am not that good)....is there any way she would reverse back to monogamous relationship with me? I mean if she gets fucked by another and she likes it, will she feel ashamed and regretful afterwards? or will she want more?

Sorry about the ignorance, but I really need to have the above 2 points cleared as I now have a chance to get this guy into town in a couple of weeks and need your experience and guidance on how to proceed without damaging our relationship and marriage. Thanks all !!

 

[susan]

In my opinion reaching orgasm with him means he was good enough at his profession to bring her to that point...The fact that she went back for more means she is sexually adventuresome and did indeed get pleasure from this...but in a controlled and "professional' manner. I dont think she orgasmed for the masseur, but because of the way she was treated.
Using my own experiences and from what I know from my friends, I feel if she were to have intercourse with a different lover it does not necessarly mean she would prefer him to you even if he were more accomplished. I have been with men who were/are bigger and better, men who have literally turned me into a blubbering idiot in bed, but I would never even think about leaving my husband for any of them. I think you should think about how strong your relationship is with her, it cant be strong enough and you 2 must work every day on that..THEN you dont have to worry about her 'preferring' some superman. Just my $.02

 

[susan]

In my opinion reaching orgasm with him means he was good enough at his profession to bring her to that point...The fact that she went back for more means she is sexually adventuresome and did indeed get pleasure from this...but in a controlled and "professional' manner. I dont think she orgasmed for the masseur, but because of the way she was treated.
Using my own experiences and from what I know from my friends, I feel if she were to have intercourse with a different lover it does not necessarly mean she would prefer him to you even if he were more accomplished. I have been with men who were/are bigger and better, men who have literally turned me into a blubbering idiot in bed, but I would never even think about leaving my husband for any of them. I think you should think about how strong your relationship is with her, it cant be strong enough and you 2 must work every day on that..THEN you dont have to worry about her 'preferring' some superman. Just my $.02

 

[ZAPPATA007]

Hi

In my opinion reaching orgasm with him means he was good enough at his profession to bring her to that point...The fact that she went back for more means she is sexually adventuresome and did indeed get pleasure from this...but in a controlled and "professional' manner. I dont think she orgasmed for the masseur, but because of the way she was treated.
Using my own experiences and from what I know from my friends, I feel if she were to have intercourse with a different lover it does not necessarly mean she would prefer him to you even if he were more accomplished. I have been with men who were/are bigger and better, men who have literally turned me into a blubbering idiot in bed, but I would never even think about leaving my husband for any of them. I think you should think about how strong your relationship is with her, it cant be strong enough and you 2 must work every day on that..THEN you dont have to worry about her 'preferring' some superman. Just my $.02

Thanks a lot Susan for your time and guidance. Our marriage is VERY strong and the relationship really solid. And that might be the reason why she would be extra careful about any "move"....but my confusion lies in the doubt that she could've gone back as she thought that he was doing something therapeutic....or was she just using this as a "veil" to send me signals that she is really ready to do this and needs more?....not sure which way to interpret this as this would depend on how to proceed....fyi she is ready to see the masseur again if he is in town, but she is short saying that she expect anything more or less from him as she is not very talkative in that field...

 

[susan]

Thats 4 cents worth!!!!

LOL sorry about dat Cider......think of it as a bonus:flash: