I have been trying to figure out if my wife is cheating, if you all don't mind read the whole below and let me know what you think or make of all this:
1) First of all, this happened with a coworker:
well he is a big black guy, and probably around 25 years old...well first of all, when he first moved here we all met at a bar and my wife came and met us there, well about 30 min after she got there i introduce her to him and he said something like "i didnt realize you were his wife or i wouldnt have given you a look when u walked in" and he laughed and she laughed well, so like my wife stayed there and talked to him for like two hours, and he bought her drinks, etc...well at the end of the night he was trying to get her to hang out with him while i had to work the next day, because we both work in game management but he didnt have to work so he wanted my wife to sit with him my wife was all aobut sitting with him, and they traded numbers, i said no and she was mad at me like the whole next day and like aslo she was saying that like she thought this one girl was cool cause she is a hugger, and the guy was like "a hugger" and my wife was like yeah and gave him a partial hug
2) well then we were at a party last weekend and i was out smoking a cigar and came bakc in and she was talking to this black guy that is a chef and she introduced me and was like "hey hey he is gonna teach me how to cook for you"
3) when i first started dating her, this guy i knew pretty well told me she likes black guys...but then again he isnt credible and i dont believe him cause he is racist, and she claimed he was lying and making that up so i wouldnt date her
then, like three months after we got together she told me she had a dream where two black guys ***** her
3rd. she wont ever do doggystyle with me and when i asked why she said "well cause it is degrading, i can just imaging a black man slapping a big ass saying take it bitch"...then she asked me if i like her butt and i said yes made some comment that only black guys like her ass
4) One time she was driving up and this group of black guys next door screamed at her. Well then she was leaving for work an hour later, and these group of black guys next door pulled out and she got out of her car and came back in the house to get something while they drove by.
What do you all make of all this? Is it nothing? She is a social person, but I am just naive when it comes to this stuff. Thank you in advance.
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1) First of all, this happened with a coworker:
well he is a big black guy, and probably around 25 years old...well first of all, when he first moved here we all met at a bar and my wife came and met us there, well about 30 min after she got there i introduce her to him and he said something like "i didnt realize you were his wife or i wouldnt have given you a look when u walked in" and he laughed and she laughed well, so like my wife stayed there and talked to him for like two hours, and he bought her drinks, etc...well at the end of the night he was trying to get her to hang out with him while i had to work the next day, because we both work in game management but he didnt have to work so he wanted my wife to sit with him my wife was all aobut sitting with him, and they traded numbers, i said no and she was mad at me like the whole next day and like aslo she was saying that like she thought this one girl was cool cause she is a hugger, and the guy was like "a hugger" and my wife was like yeah and gave him a partial hug
2) well then we were at a party last weekend and i was out smoking a cigar and came bakc in and she was talking to this black guy that is a chef and she introduced me and was like "hey hey he is gonna teach me how to cook for you"
3) when i first started dating her, this guy i knew pretty well told me she likes black guys...but then again he isnt credible and i dont believe him cause he is racist, and she claimed he was lying and making that up so i wouldnt date her
then, like three months after we got together she told me she had a dream where two black guys ***** her
3rd. she wont ever do doggystyle with me and when i asked why she said "well cause it is degrading, i can just imaging a black man slapping a big ass saying take it bitch"...then she asked me if i like her butt and i said yes made some comment that only black guys like her ass
4) One time she was driving up and this group of black guys next door screamed at her. Well then she was leaving for work an hour later, and these group of black guys next door pulled out and she got out of her car and came back in the house to get something while they drove by.
What do you all make of all this? Is it nothing? She is a social person, but I am just naive when it comes to this stuff. Thank you in advance.
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