cuckoldwittol said:
Me and my GF are in love for 2 year. We never had intercourse yet. Just kissing and fingering. For the past 2 months I have this weird feeling. During a reunion party my gf and friend danced together for a event. At the end of the dance they did a liplock for just 3 secs. Even though everyone took it normally I was turned on so much. Everyone praised them as the "Best Dancing Couple".
Since then I jack off thinking about their kiss. My feelings evolved and now I really wish my gf to lose her virginity to my friend.
Am I wrong? If not what else I should do to make this happen. [I dont want both of them to know about my cuckold feelings]. There are rumors that they kissed even after the reunion party. I am not sure...
This sounds very similar to another poster that desired something similar with his long term girl-friend that had not yet had intercourse, both were still virgins at the time the thread began. As noted on this thread and on his thread you will find people which will believe you to be crazy and others will be supportive of your desire.
To begin with, be very careful as to what you wish for and how you take the steps to turn fantasy into reality. You need to make sure that you and your girl-friend have a strong relationship build on a solid foundation which extends well beyond sexuality. You both will need to make sure that each of you feels that you can have open, honest, judgment free and transparent communication with each other. You should be able to share with each other your desires, preferences, and fantasies without reservation or hesitation.
Based on your very brief intro you have suggested that you and your girl-friend do have physical intimacy, just not intercourse. You already know that your girl-friend and your friend have some connection even if it is not admitted it to each other or to you. If you and your girl-friend have the level of communication in which I mentioned above, maybe you should simply talk to her about how you have been feeling and what you’re thinking.
- If this girl-friend a women that you would like to and can envision being married to?
- What role would you like to be in moving forward with your girl-friend, wife?
- Is this a lifestyle that you would like to live for life with or without her?
- Why do you want the friend to take her virginity?
What concerns me is that you have stated
“I dont want both of them to know about my cuckold feelings.”; this would suggest that you and your girl-friend do not have the required level of communication which a couple should have when following this lifestyle path. With that said, if you are simply trying to arrange for your girl-friend to cheat on you and lose her virginity to your friend, the warnings that others have presented here should be considered. There are emotions involved, and a much deeper connection between your girl-friend and your friend could develop if not already there.
If you are set on your girl-friend losing her virginity to your friend, I would suggest that you take a step back, develop the communication with your girl-friend that you should have had established already. Have this discussion with your girl-friend and talk it through in detail. Make sure that you are both on solid ground as a couple and make this a threesome between you, your friend and you girl-friend. Be there with her when she gives this gift to your friend instead of you. Do what needs to be done so that your girl-friend does not feel guilty about the sexual interlude and that she understands that while she is giving the gift of her virginity to your friend, she is also giving you a gift at the same time. This would also be a event were you would need to establish your place. Would you want to have intercourse with her after your friend or do you see yourself as being denied intercourse with her moving forward?
Make sure that you do not have regrets; you should talk to her (girl-friend) let her know, give her that opportunity to become the woman you want her to be up front, do not try to trick her into something that might back-fire and you both will have the opportunity to be a much happier couple.
