I Think She is Ready But Scared to Tell Me!

[BruceCuck]

I am hoping to get the opinions of some of the more seasoned bulls and cuks on the site.

For about a year and half my wife of 12 years and I have been fantasizing about her being fucked by a man other than me. We have gone through various cycles, some being more intense than others. Most recently, everytime we have sex she gets extremely wet and excited and wants me to "tell her stories". I know full well that the stories she wants to hear always involve her being used by a dominant well hung stud. In the early phases of roleplaying with the fantasy, we were both very guarded, but over time we have each confessed to the other certain elements of the fantasy that we find hot. The "confessions" are always during sex and we generally do not discuss the fantasy except when in bed.

On occassion, she has said things that have blown me away, and I often wonder if she is looking at this website or others like it. She has flat out told me that she would be jelous if she saw me with another woman and that she would not like that. Notwithstanding her jeously, she will actively pretend that I am another man and will fuck without abandon, spreading her legs wide, talking dirty and feeling my ass, and pushing back onto my cock. She has told me that in her fantasies she sees me watching and stroking my cock. She loves when I cum on her ass and thighs and has on more than one occassion asked who would wipe her clean after "her man" has cum (I do this when we fuck).

She used to tell me that she would never do this for real. Lately I never hear this from her. Sex between us is hotter than ever and always involves role playing with her imaginary lover.

I guess my question is this:

1) Do the people here think she might actually be ready?
2) If not, what are the signs that I will see when she is ready?
3) If she is ready, do I just set something up, or is there a better way?
4) She loves to play the part of the submissive and likes being used in her fantasies, how should that play into finding an appropriate bull?

Thanks!
3)

 

[69tattoo]

introduce her to the swinging lifestyle first that is how i got mrs ajg involved and we now have a regular bull that she plays with either when im at work or when our schedule permits us to play together ..try that,show her a wesbiste or two and see what her reaction is ..

 

[mecca410]

You said yourself, she would never want to see you with another woman. Don't go there. Maybe bring home a large dildo and play with it and eat her at the same time. Tell her to suck you and fuck her with it and tell her imagine it is someone else. Take her to bars or clubs and talk about guys she is interested in. Go to a hotel bar and see if she would ever go along with getting a room after she has been flirting with some man at that bar.

Don't ask for swinging, a lot of women would get pissed thinking you just want to fuck some other babe.

just a thought

 

[nyccouple]

Swinging brings of thoughts of overweight midwesterners fucking around a pool (for my wife - no offense of that describes you). She'd never even consider it.

On the other hand, she used to talk about going out with a guy, going home with him, and getting fucked. She did that, and gradually over time, it progressed to fucking her boyfriend in front of me, having him dominate me, clean up his cum etc.

That said, only you will know the best way to approach it. I just know that swinging does not appeal to her at all. Fucking a well hung guy in front of me, or making me wait outside the door, she loves.

 

[BruceCuck]

Watching First

I think the suggestion that we perhaps watch might be the best. I think for my wife, moving along slowly will probably be the best approach. The one concern I would have though, is that I am not sure exactly what a swing party looks like. Meaning, I once went to a sex club where there were quite a few people "going at it". Frankly it was not even remotley sexy (at least from my perspective) and I would worry that my wife might actually get turned off. Since we live in the NYC area, I am thinking that it might be possible to see a live sex show that is more in line with our mutual fantasies, i.e. femlae submissives and dominant males.

If anyone knows of any places where we might see this type of thing please let me know.

In term of the comment that "i will need to be prepared" I will take that to heart. I have to say, even during our roleplaying I sometimes get a pang of jelousy when I can tell that my wife is really into it. During these times her legs will spread very wide and her pussy will become very wet and open. It becomes clear that she, in her mind, has accepted another man's cock. The only thing is that to a certain degree the cat is already out of the bag. She readily asks to role play with the idea of her submission to another male while I watch. She loves to fantasize about me bringing home another guy or going to a hotel and picking up a male at the bar.

Well thanks for the suggestions, if anyone has anything to add I would really appreciate it!

 

[okdeacon]

Bruce

Welcome, You are on your way. You just answered your own question. Get some drinks into her bring a friend home, more drinks and she will fuck him if you do it just right. Then the horse will be gone and you will not have to ever lock the gate again. Best Of Luck okdeacon

 

[like2wacher66]

this is jsut about where my wife is in the path to cuckolding. I think my wife is ready to be fucked and i think your sife is ready too. for my wife i think she just needs a very comfortable situation.

 

[BruceCuck]

Opportunity Needs to Be there

this is jsut about where my wife is in the path to cuckolding. I think my wife is ready to be fucked and i think your sife is ready too. for my wife i think she just needs a very comfortable situation.

I think your right. In fact I have received some e-mail from other people as well saying that many times its not a question of the wife being "ready" but more importantly of an opportunity actually presenting itself.

What I won't do is try and trick my wife or anything like that, but I will continue to fantasize with her, take her to "watch" at a club of some sort and encourage her by letting her know that I am ok with her taking a lover.

Last night while we were having a steamy, sexy "session", as I like to call it, I told her that I thought if presented with the right situation that she would would do it. She was panting and told me yes, that she probably would. She then rolled off of me, and spread her legs very wide and asked me to pretend that I was a "stud" that was using her while her husband watched. it was quite sexy and her pussy became extremely wet and open.

I think we are probably headed in the right direction. I just wonder what I will feel when I ultimately see another man running his hands all over her body, and penetrating her. This is going to be very difficult and very sexy all at the same time. I hope I will be able to handle it!

 

[mincercuck]

Well, I can tell you that usually it is the man that suggests trying a swingers party, but when couples go to swingers parties, the female is the one that gets fucked a lot. The men usually are lucky if they get fucked once at these functions, as there's always a plentiful supply of hard dicks for the wife to bounce on and far fewer females. So, if you don't have a desire to get involved with another female, maybe a swing party would work. You could always go as a spectator couple the first time.

A better suggestion would be to have a few of your male friends over, invite your wife (after a few libations to drop her female defenses a bit) to join you in a poker game. Let her see a few cocks this way, and work from there. If she gets to touch and feel a few different cocks, and gets felt up herself, she'll maybe want to go the next step and pop one in her mouth or snatch.

BruceCuck, I hope you have your act together, man. Once she crosses over to taking other cocks, you may find yourself on the sidelines a lot more often than you planned. She's already indicated her fantasy to you, so once she starts its going to be tough turning her back off. Just think about it before doing it.

Or you could always tell your wife that you make up stories on the net to give youself and others a cheap thrill,see what she says then when you show her.
I suspect the word DIVORCE will be mentioned

 

[Custer Laststand]

Sounds like your wife is almost there....

BruceCuck,

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If you continue moving your wife forward, it sounds to me like you will soon have a hotwife on your hands.

—Custer

 

[dcuckw2b]

You are a lucky guy that you can even talk openly with your wife about this,and share the fantasy. Regarding moving on from your present position. Instead of taking your wife to a Swingers club(which is a big step ) Why not try an intermediate step by suggesting to your wife that she get a profile on an adult contact site like AFF. She could flirt with other men from a 'Safe' distance ,or even web cam . She would probably get lots of replies,so ,even sorting out the wheat from the chaff could be fun for you both. You would also get an idea of the sort of men who turn her on.
I email a chap from Kent occasionally , who put a profile on AFF for his wife with some very discreet photos not showing her face. He said that she wanted younger guys(She was 47.. . 35 to 40 year olds replied with various photos) He then showed it to his wife and gave her the passwords etc. At first she was a little shocked,but female curiosity got the better of her and she started reading and replying to some of the men.
She hasnt dated any,but has 3 or 4 who she chats to on a regular basis now. It seems most are married and a bit fed up at home. her husband is happy with them beingmarried because he knows they do not want emotional ties.
This may be of no use to you and your wife ,but it is an intermediate step. In my case ,I'd be 'Tickled Pink ' if my wife flirted with guys on line. It would certainly spice up our sex life. Good luck anyway.