I haven't fucked my wife in 8 months

[iWorshipmyWife]

We have only been married for 4 years. I've been looking at cuckold porn for about a year. I think I am pretty much resigned to the fate of a cuckold. I started by jerking off to cuckold porn, then I started dreaming of the woman in the porn being my wife. Lately I can only get it up if I am picturing one of my friends nailing my wife. I cannot, however, get it up in front of my wife no matter what I concentrate on; it is just too much pressure.

I have always eaten a lot of pussy, even when we were having sex too. Lately I have been eating her out 4 or 5 times a week, to make up for the fact that I can't get it up. I am 99% sure I am going to tell her to get a boyfriend. I am not sure how she will take it. I think I'll start it out as a little joke, and then one day when she is really horny I'll bring it up to her. I am fairly confident she has been cheating on me already; sometimes when I eat her out she has the faint taste of latex. I know it will take a while though for her to grow confident that I am serious.

I hope to get her to admit to fucking around, and eventually work up to telling me about it each time. Maybe one day she will fuck while I am in the house.

 

[dcuckw2b]

Before you take drastic action...Have you tried Viagra

 

[chrisjohn]

My wife and I haven't had sex in a year. She is very shy and passive but is looking for a bf now. Its a big step but your wife is very attractive like mine and I can only hope that she finds a nice man and we all get along together

 

[OneForSure]

Iworshipmywife,
Welcome to the forum. I'm a little confused by your post. You say that you are resigned to your fate of a cuck, but you also say you "get it up" by picturing one of your friends nailing your wife.

It sounds to me that being a cuck is exciting to you!

Leading your wife down the path of being your cuckoldress sounds like a way for you to solve the problem.

Like many starting out (myself included), there are mixed emotions as you go down the path. It sounds to me like you are headed there! If so, there are articles that will help you and your wife understand what's happening.

Both you and your wife will enjoy the cuckold lifestyle. She will again enjoy a cock in her pussy, and you may enjoy fucking her (soon after someone else has - if your lucky!

 

[marrieddad]

A perfect copy of my life with the only difference that i have been married for 31yrs and wanting to be a cuckold for the past 30yrs.

 

[Custer Laststand]

IworshipmyWife,

Thanks for including a photo of your beautiful wife and (partially) yourself with your post. She's *very* attractive. Gorgeous. One has the impression she has a friendly, outgoing personality. Her dress showing cleavage suggests she is comfortable with her body and her sexuality. If so, she has large potential (in my opinion) to become a successful cuckoldress.

.... I cannot, however, get it up in front of my wife no matter what I concentrate on; it is just too much pressure. [But] I have always eaten a lot of pussy, even when we were having sex too. Lately I have been eating her out 4 or 5 times a week, to make up for the fact that I can't get it up.

Excellent. It's *very* important to be your wife's cuntsucker (as I have mentioned to others), particularly given your inability to get it up for her. See:

Cunnilingus: A How to Guide for Orally Stimulating the Vulva

for suggestions that may enable you to improve your technique.

I am 99% sure I am going to tell her to get a boyfriend. I am not sure how she will take it.

That may be too blunt. It sounds sort of like "Start fucking other men, or else!" Your wife might not respond too well to that.

I think I'll start it out as a little joke, and then one day when she is really horny I'll bring it up with her.

Possibly. You're the one who knows her best, obviously. A slightly more indirect approach might also be effective, sometime when she seems in the right mood for it. You could mention you "found" an article on the Internet you thought was interesting, and tell her you'd appreciate it if she would be willing to read it and let you know what her thoughts are on it:

The Science of Cuckoldry « Cuckold Couple

I am fairly confident she has been cheating on me already; sometimes when I eat her out she has the faint taste of latex.

Good! It sounds like your wife is on her way, and so are you.

I know it will take a while though for her to grow confident that I am serious.

Since your goal is to persuade your wife to openly acknowledge that she has stepped up and out and become your cuckoldress, perhaps it would help to give it a little time — depending on her response to the above article — then suggest this article to her:

For Women Scandalous Magazine cuckolding, Playgirl, fashion, beauty, health, sex advice for women

Then, after she has read it, be a bit more explicit and ask her what she would think of moving in that direction, so to speak.

I hope to get her to admit to fucking around, and eventually work up to telling me about it each time.

Yes, that would be a desirable outcome. You might try for an even better outcome by gently encouraging her to take pride in having attracted a lover. At a suitable time, you might suggest this e-zine to her:

For Women Scandalous Magazine cuckolding, Playgirl, fashion, beauty, health, sex advice for women

(This link appears to be the same as the one above, but it isn't. The first is an article; the second is the e-zine.)

as a way of enabling her to learn that taking lovers is not some sort of "bad" behavior she should feel guilty about. Rather, there are lots of married women who take lovers; their marriages are enhanced by that, and their husbands fully acknowledge that is among their prerogatives and privileges — in fact, they encourage their wives to do so.

Maybe one day she will fuck while I am in the house.

That would be cool.

Your relationship with your wife seems to have some things in common with Cuckold Bill's marriage. (His wife has not yet made him her cuckold, apparently, but my guess is he will "get her there.") I passed along some suggestions, at his request, that you might find relevant if you haven't read his thread already. It starts here:

http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/general-cuckoldry/11460-trying-get-her-started.html

—Custer

 

[jennie1108]

Well this is what happens

2 and half years ago...my wife found pix of me on our computer dressed like a slut and sucking a guy off. Since then no sex....the only sex this sissy gets is jerking off and sucking cock. It now consumes me...i love cock my wife loves her boyfriend and i wear panties everyday...wow how things have changed.

 

[Mark the Mac]

My wife and I had many encounters several years ago. Trust me, find a more personal way for you and her to enjoy sex. (By the by, my wife and I are still together)

Reason for not intimately involving others:

1. Honey, I never noticed those sores before.
2. Why do you perform (enter which ever sex act you prefer) so well with him and not with me?
3. Funny, every time I answer the phone, the person hangs up.
4. I can't believe that your boss has you staying overtime every Friday night.
5. We're smart enough to keep this from the kids.
6. There is that car again, it's driven around the block at least a dozen times.
7. You're divorcing me and marrying who?

I'm sure you'll have your fill of responses to your post telling you why it won't go as facetiously described above, but:

1. Misery likes Company.
2. Some men like the idea of having sex with your wife while degrading you and they won't apply the normal checks and balances accorded to a friendship. Remember, after everything in your life has been cast asunder by wrong moves on your part, they can just move on to the next victim.

Spock (yes yes, from Star Trek) once said: Sometimes the desire to have something is much more rewarding than actually having it. (This is paraphrased).

Listen, you only live once and when you screw it up, you can be alone for a long period of time before the end of that life. I'd advocate finding another way to enhance your sex life. It's a rush when your doing it, but the lingering doubts afterward can be destructive. As you someday lay on your deathbed, the memory of intimate encounters between you and your wife will be more solace than memories of your wife and someone else. It just works that way.