I'm pretty new to this forum, so I should give a little intro. My wife and I are in our mid-30's and I am submissive to her. We have been married over a decade now, and ever since I met her, I could tell that my wife was perfect for a person like me: a naturally submissive man. Not only is she absolutely gorgeous, but she also is very assertive and charismatic, and everyone loves her. Especially men. She has admitted to me that she has had quite a few sexual escapades before she met me. And she admits that she has given the wrong impression to men she wasn't attracted to as well.
I can't believe it has been over five years ago when I first introduced her to a FemDom lifestyle. I told her about marriages where women were in complete charge and the men were there to serve them. She thought that it was a great idea and when I showed her some of the writings and postings on the internet, she agreed that she wanted to be in charge. We have never gotten to the point of true 24/7 lifestyle dominance and submission since we do have a very vanilla life, friends, etc. otherwise. But she did find her niche in a couple of things. One being chastity. She has me on a schedule to where I'm only allowed one orgasm every three weeks. It doesn't always happen that way, sometimes more, sometimes less, but that is the basic rule. She says I turn into such a good submissive when I'm denied like this. Another thing is that she loves is the servitude of being pampered, massaged, and having the housework taken care of.
It was maybe a year after we started living this way that I brought up the idea of cuckolding. To my pleasant surprise, she was very receptive to the idea. It was both exciting and a little scary at first. I could tell by the way her eyes lit up that she was definitely not against it. At first it was just an idea that we thought could never happen in real life. As the years went on, we talked more and more about it and we both agreed more and more that it was in fact a possibility, if the right situation arose. We never knew exactly what the best way to make this happen was, though.
So even more time passed and the situation never arose, so this summer I finally asked if I could find a guy for her. She said yes. So I looked online on a swingers website and I found a guy that she was very attracted to. They sent messages back and forth, and finally we set up a date to meet him. Then, about a week before the meeting, he stopped all contact. We sent messages to see if he was still interested, and nothing. He turned out to be a fake. My wife admitted that she was so excited to do this, more than I even thought. Well, since then she has shown very little interest in furthering the search for a man. I've mentioned it a few times and she hasn't had the enthusiasm like before.
We still agree that this could still be the right lifestyle for us. We've still talked about it, but I feel that we're not as far as we've been. We really don't know how to get this thing going. We don't know what's the safest way to meet a guy who is into the same thing we're looking for, which is also somebody who my wife is attracted to. Are there any ideas that we maybe are missing?
I can't believe it has been over five years ago when I first introduced her to a FemDom lifestyle. I told her about marriages where women were in complete charge and the men were there to serve them. She thought that it was a great idea and when I showed her some of the writings and postings on the internet, she agreed that she wanted to be in charge. We have never gotten to the point of true 24/7 lifestyle dominance and submission since we do have a very vanilla life, friends, etc. otherwise. But she did find her niche in a couple of things. One being chastity. She has me on a schedule to where I'm only allowed one orgasm every three weeks. It doesn't always happen that way, sometimes more, sometimes less, but that is the basic rule. She says I turn into such a good submissive when I'm denied like this. Another thing is that she loves is the servitude of being pampered, massaged, and having the housework taken care of.
It was maybe a year after we started living this way that I brought up the idea of cuckolding. To my pleasant surprise, she was very receptive to the idea. It was both exciting and a little scary at first. I could tell by the way her eyes lit up that she was definitely not against it. At first it was just an idea that we thought could never happen in real life. As the years went on, we talked more and more about it and we both agreed more and more that it was in fact a possibility, if the right situation arose. We never knew exactly what the best way to make this happen was, though.
So even more time passed and the situation never arose, so this summer I finally asked if I could find a guy for her. She said yes. So I looked online on a swingers website and I found a guy that she was very attracted to. They sent messages back and forth, and finally we set up a date to meet him. Then, about a week before the meeting, he stopped all contact. We sent messages to see if he was still interested, and nothing. He turned out to be a fake. My wife admitted that she was so excited to do this, more than I even thought. Well, since then she has shown very little interest in furthering the search for a man. I've mentioned it a few times and she hasn't had the enthusiasm like before.
We still agree that this could still be the right lifestyle for us. We've still talked about it, but I feel that we're not as far as we've been. We really don't know how to get this thing going. We don't know what's the safest way to meet a guy who is into the same thing we're looking for, which is also somebody who my wife is attracted to. Are there any ideas that we maybe are missing?
