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How To Dominate A Cuck Properly Online

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Lots of cucks have played dice game and more than willing to ****** there wives to a dom. The problem is most doms do not know how to take control and do it right. This is a step by step guide to be a better dom and teach your cuck how to obey.

  1. gain control of pictures and info as much as possible. and label them with info as you go to keep
  2. make sure you connect with him on kik to have contact with him 24/7
  3. onces you have contact then tell cuck you will post on ******** , image fap, Tumblr and other sites if cuck does not keep sending
  4. The key is get personal info. So to keep cuck at bay tell him go to Amazon and buy a cock cage. you can buy them for around $30 if you shop. You could even find one that works and send him link to buy.
  5. Once you get cuck in cage you have total control and demand more info of her
  6. Keep him locked in cage and by using KIK you can force cuck into checking in every day 2 or more times a day to show cuck is in cage. Make cuck send you pics of cuck in cage by saying show me X number of fingers in this pictures. Change it up all the time.
  7. After cuck is locked in cage for many days the cuck will be your slave.
  8. make the cuck use his wife dildo on himself
  9. make cuck save his cum in freezer and when you do let cuck out to cum. make him eat his cum before letting him out. Then ****** his wife on sites like ******** until he cums and relockes himself back in the cage.
To be continued...
Post your ways of controlling a cuck.
 
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10. Make cuck jerk off in a cup watching wife and bull copulate and make him lick it after.
 
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asianwife2013 said:
Lots of cucks have played dice game and more than willing to ****** there wives to a dom. The problem is most doms do not know how to take control and do it right. This is a step by step guide to be a better dom and teach your cuck how to obey.

  1. gain control of pictures and info as much as possible. and label them with info as you go to keep
  2. make sure you connect with him on kik to have contact with him 24/7
  3. onces you have contact then tell cuck you will post on ******** , image fap, Tumblr and other sites if cuck does not keep sending
  4. The key is get personal info. So to keep cuck at bay tell him go to Amazon and buy a cock cage. you can buy them for around $30 if you shop. You could even find one that works and send him link to buy.
  5. Once you get cuck in cage you have total control and demand more info of her
  6. Keep him locked in cage and by using KIK you can force cuck into checking in every day 2 or more times a day to show cuck is in cage. Make cuck send you pics of cuck in cage by saying show me X number of fingers in this pictures. Change it up all the time.
  7. After cuck is locked in cage for many days the cuck will be your slave.
  8. make the cuck use his wife dildo on himself
  9. make cuck save his cum in freezer and when you do let cuck out to cum. make him eat his cum before letting him out. Then ****** his wife on sites like ******** until he cums and relockes himself back in the cage.
To be continued...
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  • When ******** on web sites make the album name simple for people to search. This will increase views. Example: Nude Wife *******.
  • Always add hash tags if you can and make those simple also.
  • Stay in drivers seat by posting there wife on a site and making them do something so you will take the pics down.
  • A good link for chat and sharing the link is imig.es
 
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great post Sir
 
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asianwife2013 said:
Lots of cucks have played dice game and more than willing to ****** there wives to a dom. The problem is most doms do not know how to take control and do it right. This is a step by step guide to be a better dom and teach your cuck how to obey.

  1. gain control of pictures and info as much as possible. and label them with info as you go to keep
  2. make sure you connect with him on kik to have contact with him 24/7
  3. onces you have contact then tell cuck you will post on ******** , image fap, Tumblr and other sites if cuck does not keep sending
  4. The key is get personal info. So to keep cuck at bay tell him go to Amazon and buy a cock cage. you can buy them for around $30 if you shop. You could even find one that works and send him link to buy.
  5. Once you get cuck in cage you have total control and demand more info of her
  6. Keep him locked in cage and by using KIK you can force cuck into checking in every day 2 or more times a day to show cuck is in cage. Make cuck send you pics of cuck in cage by saying show me X number of fingers in this pictures. Change it up all the time.
  7. After cuck is locked in cage for many days the cuck will be your slave.
  8. make the cuck use his wife dildo on himself
  9. make cuck save his cum in freezer and when you do let cuck out to cum. make him eat his cum before letting him out. Then ****** his wife on sites like ******** until he cums and relockes himself back in the cage.
To be continued...
Post your ways of controlling a cuck.
I am a cuck and would love this sort of domination
 
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asianwife2013 said:
Lots of cucks have played dice game and more than willing to ****** there wives to a dom. The problem is most doms do not know how to take control and do it right. This is a step by step guide to be a better dom and teach your cuck how to obey.

  1. gain control of pictures and info as much as possible. and label them with info as you go to keep
  2. make sure you connect with him on kik to have contact with him 24/7
  3. onces you have contact then tell cuck you will post on ******** , image fap, Tumblr and other sites if cuck does not keep sending
  4. The key is get personal info. So to keep cuck at bay tell him go to Amazon and buy a cock cage. you can buy them for around $30 if you shop. You could even find one that works and send him link to buy.
  5. Once you get cuck in cage you have total control and demand more info of her
  6. Keep him locked in cage and by using KIK you can force cuck into checking in every day 2 or more times a day to show cuck is in cage. Make cuck send you pics of cuck in cage by saying show me X number of fingers in this pictures. Change it up all the time.
  7. After cuck is locked in cage for many days the cuck will be your slave.
  8. make the cuck use his wife dildo on himself
  9. make cuck save his cum in freezer and when you do let cuck out to cum. make him eat his cum before letting him out. Then ****** his wife on sites like ******** until he cums and relockes himself back in the cage.
To be continued...
Post your ways of controlling a cuck.

Good idea. Most wannabe doms don't know how to do it.
 
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I have to say that this is an interesting topic. I am one of those guys that started out as an Alpha/Dom type guy and at a point began the transition into being much more of a beta/cuck sexually speaking as time progressed. This has led me to see multiple view points and for me personally it takes a truly creative, confident, and intelligent Alpha to be an effective dominate. So many wannabe dominates have no idea on how to truly take hold and guide a submissive cuckold type couple. With that said, there are many that would not agree with me and believe that it take an aggressive dominate that seems that he has to be rude along with having an disrespectful attitude. I am simply saying that when you have a true Alpha/Dominate (not a wannabe), the submissive cuckold type couple will willingly follow him without being humiliated or degraded in a none erotic manner. So being a successful dominate can be done in some many ways and can achieve goals in a variety of ways. Just my two cents!

As the original poster indicated there are many cucks that have played dice games as a basis for ******** their wives to dominates guys. In reality, are these guys dominate or are they simply picture collectors? A committed beta submissive that is a cuck or a wannabe cuck generally can tell when the person on the other end is simply that, a picture collector and not a truly Alpha/Dom type.

The step-by-step guide that was posted is an interesting template of sorts although can you truly dominate someone by remaining online only? For you to dominate the husband, you truly have to have some level of interaction and or control with the wife also unless you’re approaching this more from a blackmail only perspective although the funny thing about all this is that the cuck/wannabe cuck is generally topping from the bottom if the Alpha/Dominate does not truly understand or know how to take control. A lot of cucks will bore easily when the Alpha is not knowledgeable, experienced and creative.


The Alpha/Dominate should gain as much personal information as possible about the couple.

  • Acquiring copies of the state issued identification of each (wife and husband) of them.
  • Acquiring cellular numbers of each (wife and husband) of them.
  • Acquiring access to images (g-rated and ********) of each (wife and husband) of them.
The Alpha/Dominate should be positioned to ****** the couple in a variety of ways, including those previously mentioned on this thread.
  • Once access has been secured to images (g-rated and ********) of each (wife and husband) of them they should be organized/archived by the Alpha.
  • The images should be replicated as it should not be simply access to a folder on the couples computer were the cuck may later decline access to the Alpha.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha will have a variety of options to post image.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha should add hash tags, enhancing the meta data.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha could create an album which with a header/name that simple for people to search on, increasing the visibility and heightens the risk of ********.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha should establish a short easy links for sharing with others by increasing the visibility and heightens the risk of ********.
The Alpha/Dominate should use the acquired personal information and images to hold as leverage to influence the couple (wife and or husband) to perform activities.
  • Always stay in control by using the acquired leverage as needed to influence the couple.
  • Always expand the couples comfort zones by in steps/phases, progressively train the couple to do as you direct.
  • Always present consequences for the couple not performing as directed and follow through.
  • Always present rewards for the successful completion of activities as directed when the couple does not hesitate. The rewards may including taking something down that you previously posted.
The Alpha/Dominate should include the use of chastity and other sexual devices if this is his thing.
  • Chastity devices comes in all sizes, shapes and materials; prices range from as low as $30 to more than $1000 for custom devices.
  • If he couple does not already have a device, have the wife measure her husband and share the measurements with you. (have the couple send images of the session)
  • Provide the couple with link to your preferred device, (remember this is training), so a cheaper device will be ok.
  • In the future, provide the couple with link to your preferred device, (more advanced training), so a cheaper device will still be ok.
  • The couple should be using the numbered tags along with a lock on the training device; when a more advanced custom device is in use the method of locking will also evolve.
  • The couple should be required to sent imaging showing the cuck in the cage, some with and without the wife. As suggested the Alpha should always change this up often so the couple does not know what to expect.
  • Continue to expand on the boundaries, establishing different and unpredictable criteria for being let out of the device and for what duration. (Be Creative and require images)
  • Hve the husband use toys on himself; have the wife use toys on him; at times allow the husband to use toys reciprocally with the wife while in chastity. (Be Creative and require images)

The Alpha/Dominate could require the couple (wife and husband) to make adjustments such as:
  • Assorted piercings as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Assorted tattoo’s as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Manicures and Pedicures as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Change to their body hair (hair removal or growth) as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Changes to their hair style and or color as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Changes of how the each are clothed as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).

The Alpha/Dominate should connect with and communicate with the couple.
  • Have the couple (wife and husband) be available via chat connection 24/7
  • Have the couple (wife and husband) be available via email connection 24/7
  • Have the couple (wife and husband) be available via cellular text connection 24/7

Suggested things to have the couple (wife and or husband) do:

  • Use to sexual aids (aka toys) of a variety of types (images required).
  • Arrange for other men to have sexual encounters with the wife; have the husband send you images as proof to compare to images you already have of the men during your vetting of them.
  • Require the husband to clean up his wife in a variety of ways as part of and or following those encounters (Images Required).
  • Have the cuck save any and all cum from his body so that it can be frozen for later consumption as described by the original poster.
  • As mentioned by the original poster “****** his wife on various sites until the husband cums and is relocked back in the cage.”; the longer he is out, the higher the risk of his wife being found out becomes.
  • Continue to escalate and push the previously established boundaries.
  • As indicated by ‘kinkaholick’; have the cuck jerk off in a cup while watching his wife and another man copulate and make him lick it after.

The Alpha/Dominate should be ready and willing to ****** the couple (wife, husband or BOTH) as may be needed.
 
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SquirmingSub said:
A lot of cucks will bore easily when the Alpha is not knowledgeable, experienced and creative.

Exactly. You must never forget that, except for the rare weirdo or two, people engage in this to have some kind of fun. The cuck wants to be dominated, ******* etc. to experience fun, excitement etc. To be confronted by a mere pic collector who pretends to be a dom is as exciting as a visit at the dentist. Ideally, both the dom and the cuck are looking to experience some thrill. The dom's task is to create that thrill for both of them.

But not only the cuck wants to have some fun, the dom, too. The dom will achieve the thrill from making the cuck - and eventually the cuck's wife - do something they don't feel courageous enough to do on their own. They want to be pushed, and the dom wants to push. Nothing more boring for a dom than having an overly submissive cuck who begs for being *******/having his wife *******. If a wannabe cuck pushed the dom to have him ****** photos which have already been on the net for years, the dom's reaction will only be a yawn.
 
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SquirmingSub said:
I have to say that this is an interesting topic. I am one of those guys that started out as an Alpha/Dom type guy and at a point began the transition into being much more of a beta/cuck sexually speaking as time progressed. This has led me to see multiple view points and for me personally it takes a truly creative, confident, and intelligent Alpha to be an effective dominate. So many wannabe dominates have no idea on how to truly take hold and guide a submissive cuckold type couple. With that said, there are many that would not agree with me and believe that it take an aggressive dominate that seems that he has to be rude along with having an disrespectful attitude. I am simply saying that when you have a true Alpha/Dominate (not a wannabe), the submissive cuckold type couple will willingly follow him without being humiliated or degraded in a none erotic manner. So being a successful dominate can be done in some many ways and can achieve goals in a variety of ways. Just my two cents!

As the original poster indicated there are many cucks that have played dice games as a basis for ******** their wives to dominates guys. In reality, are these guys dominate or are they simply picture collectors? A committed beta submissive that is a cuck or a wannabe cuck generally can tell when the person on the other end is simply that, a picture collector and not a truly Alpha/Dom type.

The step-by-step guide that was posted is an interesting template of sorts although can you truly dominate someone by remaining online only? For you to dominate the husband, you truly have to have some level of interaction and or control with the wife also unless you’re approaching this more from a blackmail only perspective although the funny thing about all this is that the cuck/wannabe cuck is generally topping from the bottom if the Alpha/Dominate does not truly understand or know how to take control. A lot of cucks will bore easily when the Alpha is not knowledgeable, experienced and creative.


The Alpha/Dominate should gain as much personal information as possible about the couple.

  • Acquiring copies of the state issued identification of each (wife and husband) of them.
  • Acquiring cellular numbers of each (wife and husband) of them.
  • Acquiring access to images (g-rated and ********) of each (wife and husband) of them.
The Alpha/Dominate should be positioned to ****** the couple in a variety of ways, including those previously mentioned on this thread.
  • Once access has been secured to images (g-rated and ********) of each (wife and husband) of them they should be organized/archived by the Alpha.
  • The images should be replicated as it should not be simply access to a folder on the couples computer were the cuck may later decline access to the Alpha.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha will have a variety of options to post image.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha should add hash tags, enhancing the meta data.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha could create an album which with a header/name that simple for people to search on, increasing the visibility and heightens the risk of ********.
  • When publishing images online, the Alpha should establish a short easy links for sharing with others by increasing the visibility and heightens the risk of ********.
The Alpha/Dominate should use the acquired personal information and images to hold as leverage to influence the couple (wife and or husband) to perform activities.
  • Always stay in control by using the acquired leverage as needed to influence the couple.
  • Always expand the couples comfort zones by in steps/phases, progressively train the couple to do as you direct.
  • Always present consequences for the couple not performing as directed and follow through.
  • Always present rewards for the successful completion of activities as directed when the couple does not hesitate. The rewards may including taking something down that you previously posted.
The Alpha/Dominate should include the use of chastity and other sexual devices if this is his thing.
  • Chastity devices comes in all sizes, shapes and materials; prices range from as low as $30 to more than $1000 for custom devices.
  • If he couple does not already have a device, have the wife measure her husband and share the measurements with you. (have the couple send images of the session)
  • Provide the couple with link to your preferred device, (remember this is training), so a cheaper device will be ok.
  • In the future, provide the couple with link to your preferred device, (more advanced training), so a cheaper device will still be ok.
  • The couple should be using the numbered tags along with a lock on the training device; when a more advanced custom device is in use the method of locking will also evolve.
  • The couple should be required to sent imaging showing the cuck in the cage, some with and without the wife. As suggested the Alpha should always change this up often so the couple does not know what to expect.
  • Continue to expand on the boundaries, establishing different and unpredictable criteria for being let out of the device and for what duration. (Be Creative and require images)
  • Hve the husband use toys on himself; have the wife use toys on him; at times allow the husband to use toys reciprocally with the wife while in chastity. (Be Creative and require images)

The Alpha/Dominate could require the couple (wife and husband) to make adjustments such as:
  • Assorted piercings as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Assorted tattoo’s as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Manicures and Pedicures as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Change to their body hair (hair removal or growth) as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Changes to their hair style and or color as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).
  • Changes of how the each are clothed as determined by the Alpha (Images Required).

The Alpha/Dominate should connect with and communicate with the couple.
  • Have the couple (wife and husband) be available via chat connection 24/7
  • Have the couple (wife and husband) be available via email connection 24/7
  • Have the couple (wife and husband) be available via cellular text connection 24/7

Suggested things to have the couple (wife and or husband) do:

  • Use to sexual aids (aka toys) of a variety of types (images required).
  • Arrange for other men to have sexual encounters with the wife; have the husband send you images as proof to compare to images you already have of the men during your vetting of them.
  • Require the husband to clean up his wife in a variety of ways as part of and or following those encounters (Images Required).
  • Have the cuck save any and all cum from his body so that it can be frozen for later consumption as described by the original poster.
  • As mentioned by the original poster “****** his wife on various sites until the husband cums and is relocked back in the cage.”; the longer he is out, the higher the risk of his wife being found out becomes.
  • Continue to escalate and push the previously established boundaries.
  • As indicated by ‘kinkaholick’; have the cuck jerk off in a cup while watching his wife and another man copulate and make him lick it after.

The Alpha/Dominate should be ready and willing to ****** the couple (wife, husband or BOTH) as may be needed.

Nice post, the question is... will you go that far?
 
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Enigma632 said:
Nice post, the question is... will you go that far?

Thank you for your feedback on the post. As to your question, “the question is... will you go that far?”; let me see if I can give you a straight forward yet qualified answer as it relates to my own personal experiences in this area.

My own personally experiences within this area have included being the Alpha in my younger years and also being the Beta in my more intermediate years. Most of my own personally experiences within this area have been with people that I have known (IRL) and yes some have been those I have met through various online connections through the years.

How far would I go as an Alpha (considering my past)? In the past when I would have considered myself an Alpha I took the time to get to know my submissive women, couples and the occasional self described cucks. Once you have extended details and truly know the submissive the rest is simply a matter of caring creativity with follow through. Back in those days, the only thing on the list we did not explore was chastity devices as they were not as common place than as they are now. There is something to be said about taking another man’s wife as your own sexually and nothing that he can do about it. Than helping him achieve the experiences that he truly needs which is not always what he desires.

How far would I go as a Beta (considering my past)? “So how far would I go, how far have I gone, and will you go that far.” I have experienced being submissive to both genders and as we all know being submissive is not always a sexual thing. It does involve fully giving yourself over to another person or persons. Limited experience with online only dom types as exclusive online Alpha types generally seem to be image collectors and generally seems to lack the more in-depth creativity that is found in a IRL Alpha/Dominate type person (male or female). I am sure that there are exceptions to this although I have not met any that were genuinely convincing. My primary experiences submitting to what I would consider the Alpha/dominate types were with those that I knew in advance of becoming openly beta/submissive and those that I met online what had an IRL component to the arrangement. These were not exclusively online only scenarios and yes I have experienced the majority of the list in my prior post at various times.

The most creative arrangement was when an Alpha/Dominate man was gradually taking over more and more of the household when I was married to my prior wife! That is a story for another time (maybe on its own thread).
 
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Exactly. You must never forget that, except for the rare weirdo or two, people engage in this to have some kind of fun. The cuck wants to be dominated, ******* etc. to experience fun, excitement etc. To be confronted by a mere pic collector who pretends to be a dom is as exciting as a visit at the dentist. Ideally, both the dom and the cuck are looking to experience some thrill. The dom's task is to create that thrill for both of them.

But not only the cuck wants to have some fun, the dom, too. The dom will achieve the thrill from making the cuck - and eventually the cuck's wife - do something they don't feel courageous enough to do on their own. They want to be pushed, and the dom wants to push. Nothing more boring for a dom than having an overly submissive cuck who begs for being *******/having his wife *******. If a wannabe cuck pushed the dom to have him ****** photos which have already been on the net for years, the dom's reaction will only be a yawn.

It is amazing how many picture collectors are out there that have absolutely no idea how to or truly be the Alpha and truly dominate a couple. You are so on point, to be confronted by a mere picture collector who pretends to be a dominate is as exciting as a visit at the dentist.

A truly knowledgeable and experienced dominate will be creative in many ways as he/she would understand how to influence and direct a submissive couple. I would say that you’re correct in that many true cucks want to be dominated, *******, humbled, all while experiencing fun, and excitement etc. Everyone involved should have fun and ideally achieve the overall experiences in which they seek and or truly need. Not every submissive truly knows what they need before they experience it first hand; yes at times their desires to coincides with their needs and at other times it does not. With that said, I would completely agree with you that in most cases it is possible for an Alpha to have a couple do something that they wouldn’t typically feel courageous enough to do on their own.

What I have found in my journeys is that the experience is much more enjoyable when the wife and husband are both actively involved submitting to the alpha (he/she) dominate. A great dominate will make it enjoyable on some level for all involved in the overall experience.
 
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@SquirmingSub Thanks for the replies.

My experiences are that most people on this and other sites will not go anywhere as near as far as your suggestions. For example handing over the wife / GFs real telephone number or e-mail address and personal details carries all sorts of risks that are probably a step too far. It's ironic that these are probably easier to do for a "real life" meeting relationship than a cyber one.

and, of course, there are lots of people on here who are not on as part of a couple exploring or enjoying the lifestyle but as a wannabe cuck (which is fine we're hopefully all on here to have fun) but does mean that any of suggested requirements that involve the wife/gf are almost certainly not going to happen.

Personally I do enjoy collecting pictures of the ladies who are on here, and I will invariably keep them to myself, but as you correctly say there is a point at which private pictures need to be used as leverage to ensure obedience from the cuck.

Yes, of course boundaries are there to be pushed, otherwise the "relationship" becomes stale just like any relationship.
 
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Enigma632 said:
@SquirmingSub Thanks for the replies.

My experiences are that most people on this and other sites will not go anywhere as near as far as your suggestions. For example handing over the wife / GFs real telephone number or e-mail address and personal details carries all sorts of risks that are probably a step too far. It's ironic that these are probably easier to do for a "real life" meeting relationship than a cyber one.

and, of course, there are lots of people on here who are not on as part of a couple exploring or enjoying the lifestyle but as a wannabe cuck (which is fine we're hopefully all on here to have fun) but does mean that any of suggested requirements that involve the wife/gf are almost certainly not going to happen.

Personally I do enjoy collecting pictures of the ladies who are on here, and I will invariably keep them to myself, but as you correctly say there is a point at which private pictures need to be used as leverage to ensure obedience from the cuck.

Yes, of course boundaries are there to be pushed, otherwise the "relationship" becomes stale just like any relationship.

I would completely agree with your experiences as that is how I would also perceive most cuckold wannabe’s on this forum. I believe that most guys browse, some occasional post, while other post a more to life experiences which may or may not be true to life. While some of the people on this forum are true to life, living as they post; there are a far greater number of people on this forum that continue to live in the fantasy world with no real life experiences with their respective partners (GFs or wives).

As you noted, some of the suggestions are a bit on risky side if those items are shared with unknown people (ie strangers) as you never know how the information or images could be used in the present and or in the future. Simply sharing a digital image which has not yet been sanitized will have an assortment of meta data which can be used in a variety of way. The average poster tends to not clean there digital images up before posting them on the web and or sharing them with strangers.

In the scenario’s with my current and with my ex-wife; both have in the past approved there information (online community id, chat id, e-mail address, and telephone number) to be shared with local online connections which resulted in direct off-line communication and follow up face to face IRL meetings. I will also say neither of them has been open to sharing the same level of information with those that they had NO desire to have face to face IRL meetings with. So I would have to say that sharing of information for them has been situational along with being by their choice respectively. In this lifestyle the wife/GF has complete control over the husband, and at a point the Alpha could become the one holding complete control over the couple depending on how deep they take the scenario/arrangement.

So yes, it's ironic that much of these are generally easier to do for a "real life" meeting relationship than one that is exclusively a cyber one. While there are some of us in real life lifestyle relationships, there is a lot more people on here as wannabe cuckolds and there is nothing wrong with that as long as everyone is enjoying their selves in a non-judgmental manner. Some couples have taken fantasy and turned it into reality while others simply enjoy the fantasy of the same, so you are correct in saying that it does mean that any of suggested items that involve the wife/gf are almost certainly not going to happen.

As to collecting of images, I believe that we all collect images that are posted publicly (I do enjoy my tumbr account and yes images in the forum threads) which may or may not includes images previously posted of those close to me. As far as using private images as leverage, if there is an Alpha/Beta arrangement in place, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with them being used as leverage to ensure obedience from the cuckold or wannabe cuckold.
 
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Enigma632 said:
@SquirmingSub Thanks for the replies.

My experiences are that most people on this and other sites will not go anywhere as near as far as your suggestions. For example handing over the wife / GFs real telephone number or e-mail address and personal details carries all sorts of risks that are probably a step too far. It's ironic that these are probably easier to do for a "real life" meeting relationship than a cyber one.

and, of course, there are lots of people on here who are not on as part of a couple exploring or enjoying the lifestyle but as a wannabe cuck (which is fine we're hopefully all on here to have fun) but does mean that any of suggested requirements that involve the wife/gf are almost certainly not going to happen.

Personally I do enjoy collecting pictures of the ladies who are on here, and I will invariably keep them to myself, but as you correctly say there is a point at which private pictures need to be used as leverage to ensure obedience from the cuck.

Yes, of course boundaries are there to be pushed, otherwise the "relationship" becomes stale just like any relationship.

Absolutely. Most people cruising around here probably would not go anywhere the suggestions above would lead a couple who are completely devoted to the lifestyle, and that is OK as long as everyone knows that. The lifestyle is not for everyone, on the contrary, it probably is only suited for a select small group.

There is a much bigger group, here they are called the "wannabe cucks" who try some online aspects of the lifestyle, usually involving their wives' photos. That is perfectly fine. Their counterpart are the pic collectors and exposers, who I don't want to disparage at all, they simply should not call themselves "doms."

SquirmingSub said:
As to collecting of images, I believe that we all collect images that are posted publicly (I do enjoy my tumbr account and yes images in the forum threads) which may or may not includes images previously posted of those close to me. As far as using private images as leverage, if there is an Alpha/Beta arrangement in place, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with them being used as leverage to ensure obedience from the cuckold or wannabe cuckold.

Taking the images of an unsuspecting wife from a cuck and ******** them widely and using them as leverage will provide both sides a lot of fun, the provider of the images (wannabe cuck) as well as the exposer. The same with info connected to them. It is a separate, online, lifestyle that can be enjoyed. In a few cases, as a further step, then an IRL relationship might develop. In most cases, though, it won't, but that is fine.
 
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myasianwife38 said:
i am a wannabe cuck. I enjoy the online play. I have tried many times to talk my wife into it but she always says no and that is not what she wants. She enjoys being prude and only playing in our bed. No where else in the house might I add.

Well, that is what is - for now. Hardly a wife is born as a happy cuck wife. Some are growing into it, after a long time. Are you taking pics of her and have doms ****** her?
 
Enigma632 said:
@SquirmingSub Thanks for the replies.

My experiences are that most people on this and other sites will not go anywhere as near as far as your suggestions. For example handing over the wife / GFs real telephone number or e-mail address and personal details carries all sorts of risks that are probably a step too far. It's ironic that these are probably easier to do for a "real life" meeting relationship than a cyber one.

and, of course, there are lots of people on here who are not on as part of a couple exploring or enjoying the lifestyle but as a wannabe cuck (which is fine we're hopefully all on here to have fun) but does mean that any of suggested requirements that involve the wife/gf are almost certainly not going to happen.

Personally I do enjoy collecting pictures of the ladies who are on here, and I will invariably keep them to myself, but as you correctly say there is a point at which private pictures need to be used as leverage to ensure obedience from the cuck.

Yes, of course boundaries are there to be pushed, otherwise the "relationship" becomes stale just like any relationship.
Bravo.
 
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