Saraha said:He likes you, he wants you to fuck his wife in front of him - It is your call, because he NEEDS to see his wife fucked. YOU ARE BOSS MAN, YOU DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT.
If his wife is KEEN, then suggest that you and her have several private meetings together, and when everything is going well, he can be invited to watch.
Once you have met him, you can assess how submissive he is, and whether you can "perform with confidence" while he is gawking at you naked.
Most guys don't want the cuck to watch the first few times unless it is a "oneoff pickup".
When you meet him, decide how submissive he is, so that will help you build your confidence and rapport with his wife.
Indy Hubby said:If he's doing the talking, he has more than passing involvement. If you aren't "up to the task" with him there, you don't have what it takes.
In our marriage, if I'm not there, you won't be there either.
A lot of people think their way is "the" way. "The" way is to talk at length with him and then her to find out their "flavor". If they're what you're looking for and you are you are what they are seeking, set up a meeting. If you're not comfortable what they want or it's not something you really want to do, find someone else.
There are three people who need to be compatible. That's more difficult than compatibility foe two. Everyone has something to give and something he is wanting from the lifestyle. Make sure they offer what you want and you fill the hole for them.