My girlfriend used to play solo so as far as her FB was aware she was just another statistic, another cheating girlfriend.
When i first met him after he had fucked her a few times i had a mixture of emotions.
Firstly came the anger, that this prick could fuck my girlfriend and shake my hand and talk to me as if we were old friends, secondly came a feeling of respect for him, knowing that he was much better endowed than me and that he was able to pleasure and satisfy my girlfriend in ways i never could or will be able to. Finally came the embarrassment and humiliation, that he knew i had a small dick and suffered from premature ejaculation and that i could not pleasure her and that she had to seek sexual fulfillment outside our relationship.
My situation is not like yours, but I believe it has something to say to yours. When I first met my wife's ex-husband, and we shook hands, I was very much aware that this was the hand of a man who had fucked my wife. And I'm sure that as he shook my hand, he was thinking "I've fucked this guy's wife!"
Later he and I got pretty well acquainted and we even discussed the fact that we had both fucked the same woman. I was surprised to find that it had a kind of "bonding" effect on us both. There is just something that brings to guys together, even at a subconscious level, when they have fucked the same woman, no matter what the cirucmstances.
Some people have told me I am "sick" to even be able to stand his presence, but I feel it is very normal to have a relationship with a guy who has fucked my wife!
I had met Brad (Sue's first true FB) long before they got together. So when she told me who she wanted, I was already pretty okay with it.
Don, her current partner, I had not met ahead of time. But since we'd already come as far as we did with Brad, meeting Don was not difficult. I was apprehensive at first - as others here had stated - meeting the guy who's fucking your wife isn't always easy. But he was respectful to me and even said "thank you" so it was an amicable meeting, but I do not find it as easy to interact with him as I did with Brad, probably because I was socially comfortable with Brad (met him at some of Sue's work-related events) beforehand.
I have never felt any anger at either of them though. It was a bit awkward at points knowing what you know about him before you meet. I actually found myself mentally visualizing them in bed together as we met the first time as her FB. It was a bit distracting as I did find myself lost in thought and missing a bit of the conversation.
Don has a bit of an attitude towards Sue - the macho "my girl" kind of thing where he expects her to hang on his every word and stuff like that, but if Sue is okay, then I am too.
I meet nearly all of them the same time my wife does. We usually meet them together and I watch them fuck for the first time. After that, if she likes them she usually leaves me home and sees them alone.
It is an odd feeling seeing a relative stranger undress your wife in front of you. Play with her, sucking and nibbling. Rubbing the head of his dick along the wet folds of her pussy. Pushing it in. Hearing her moan as she looks right at you and starts to fuck back.
It's intoxicating. You're a cuckold. Everyone in the room knows it. You want more, and you can't help yourself.
I have met my ex-wife's lover and although I wanted to clock him, I wimped out. It was your standard cheating relationship and although I had cuck fantasies I was not ready.
I have met two of Susan's lovers, one before and one after. The before on was an old high school boyfriend that we ran into at one of her work events (she gave him her phone number and told him to call - I took the first call, gave the phone to her and she set up the date in front of me).
The second was her boss at the time and I met him many times and even visited his house. I did not know until after for sure, but I suspected she was sleeping with him.
Mac, we have always been discrete and don't want to let the cat out of the back for a number of different reasons. It's funny what you said about the FB realizing that all he will get is the sex as this i believe was the cause of the break up of the relationship between my girlfriend and her FB. I think his objective was to get her to leave me for him, his ultimate goal (remember he always thought she was cheating on me). When she told him that she loved me and that her relationship with him was purely sexual their relationship wound down, which is contrary to what i would have believed the norm is, afterall what guy would not want to have such a hot girl fuck him when ever he wanted it. Obviously, some men are very intimitated by women who just want to get fucked hard.
Nimrod,
It is an odd feeling seeing a relative stranger undress your wife in front of you. Play with her, sucking and nibbling. Rubbing the head of his dick along the wet folds of her pussy. Pushing it in. Hearing her moan as she looks right at you and starts to fuck back.
That is one of the hottest sentences i have ever read. I have never seen my girlfriend with another guy. I don't know if she would ever be able to relax and enjoy hereself knowing that i was watching her, although she did say that when she gets another FB she would take pictures and video record them fucking. Just the thought of seeing her suck another cock or watching her moan and scream in pleasure drives me crazy.
