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[blkdepositbox]

Gottcha!!!!! now that you are here...you might as well read. It seems that you have to have a titile like that to even get someone to open it. but I wont be too horrible here is a pic of me from a couple months ago...

I will be the first to admit that I am not AS into this as my husband. I would just like to put out my way of thinking and get other opinions rather than just my husband!

So what defines a "lifestyle"? My husband and I have been exploring this for about three years now. In the beginning, I could not understand why my husband would WANT to see me with other guys...I was completely against it. Since then, we have grown in our relationship and I am BEGINNING to understand the thrill...but not totally yet. I have been with about 5 black guys with my husband right there and I will admit, there is a thrill. The sex between my husband and I afterwards could not be better! For me, it is not actually being with another person that does it for me...it is the reaction that my husband has. However, for the last three years I have been with one guy in particular with AND without my husband (no cheating, husband knows about EVERY time). I have been with this person about 8 or 9 times in the three years...the most recent was in December when I was pregnant and due any day. So what defines a lifestyle? Is it our lifestyle? Does it have to be an everyweekend thing to be a lifestyle? Another thing is...that I am not always into it. It turns me on sometimes and othertimes I dont even want to talk about it. Can anyone explain that for me? Needless to say...I dont want to play games with my husband and he gets so confused when sometimes I am ok with fucking other guys and other times it bothers me. To be honest, I am confused too...any opinions would be helpful! Maybe I need to go see Dr. Phil...LOL

 

[Elizabeth T]

Many times I am like you and wonder who I am also. Neither of us need Dr. Phil. I have been swinging off and on for over 23 years and over the last few years now doing the group parties with me being the only woman. I wonder at times who I am and then at times I am so glad at what I do. Think about this, we have the best of both worlds. We have great husbands, I know I am financially secure and I am sure you are also, and then we are allowed to have mind blowing sex with some of the hottest guys out there. I call myself a Shared Hot Wife. I have had many guys make proposals to me and ask me to leave my husband. Never. Those guys I have never played again with. That is also the reason I am doing groups now and no more one on ones. There are guys who become possessive and I have no time for that. when I leave, I leave with my husband. Be proud of what you do. Good luck also..........Liz

 

[blkdepositbox]

Thank you Liz...I am Heather BTW. One question....has fear ever stopped you? Like the fear if they are clean or not, or have you ever feared of losing the romantic part of your relationship....fear that it would become who you are or what your relationship is?

 

[blkdepositbox]

ANY OPINIONS ARE WELCOME!!! It is disappointing to see that so many people have read my story but no replies!

 

[kp3some]

For us....

Hi Husband here, and like "Marriedcpl_3blkmen" I feel I am very fortunate to have a beautiful wife who not afraid to indulge our desire. I would define the "lifestyle" as whatever you want it to be, but to an extent; you have to at least participate in extra-maritial relations otherwise you are just a voyeur or fantasizer, which there is nothing wrong with.
The wife and I have been in the "lifestyle", which we define as MFM, FMF, MFMF, etc for about ten years on and off. Hiatus times were kids, life etc. For me the biggest thrill is seeing her give and receive pleasure from others. It's amazing to see her in action and truly let lose. As most she was apprehensive to take the plunge and not all the experinces had been "mind-blowing", but there have been many more good that bad.
We continue to experiment and hope to find a select few to find long term relationships with; I'm not nor ever have been into the whole humiliation thing and unlike many on here, have no desire to have M/M contact, other than the accidental contact which occurs while pleasuring the women involved (regardless some may occur, deal with it). Nothing wrong with the guys who want that, just not my cup of tea.
My wife also goes through the up and downs you describe, sometimes she really wants others for fun and sometime she doesn't, even those not in the lifestyle go through this, just with eachother. Howfully these "spells" do not last for too long, but as far as I'm concerned any duration is too long.

Sorry for the lengthy response.

KP & Hub

 

[blkdepositbox]

"Alexis" gets all those posts...(16 pages worth) and I can't get anything...my questions are real too! Oh well...my husband told me that nobody really likes to respond...they just want to get off for the most part.

Thanks to you who have responded!

 

[hotsex4us4]

Its natural

I believe that in almost everything people participate in the desire to do that particular thing ebbs and flows. Otherwise it would be an obsession.

 

[lewis]

Hey Box,,,,,,,I just think that you love the ability to have different lovers when you feel like and swinging is just another part of your life. You don't have to feel like it every day to love it. MY love for white women is not a controlling part of my life and I really like it that way. Lets leave the porn life to the professionals and we will play when we get the chance. I don't understand how some why some guys think all women that you fuck the hell out off, will leave their husband/bf, some women like you and Elizabeth T can clearly separate the two, its part of your personality,,,,,,,sometimes you're a swinger and sometimes you're not.

 

[porngd]

This whole 'lifestyle' is about living the life you wat to live absent of fear of what others might think. It's just a sub category that likes to live with wreck-less abandon flirting and fucking black guys whether your single or not.

It's not that you don't always want to fuck black guys that you are not really a part of our lifestyle, it's that you do want to. There are many that do want to but don't. others that don't know they'd want to, and then there are people like you.

 

[Vicky4Blk]

Remember to Do What Makes you Happy!

Cheers for a beautiful, sexy, liberated couple!!! An older girlfriend once told me that it is always the road not traveled, the adventure not experienced that we regret later in life. My Hubby and I have tried to always be adventurous and see what is over the next hill and in the next valley. Swinging and Naked, Wet IR sex is just one aspect of our lifestyle (and one I am NEVER, EVER going to give up - LOL). You only go around ONCE in Life - KEEP GOING FOR IT!!!