My Wife and I have been married for 16 yrs, She is 37 and I am 44. Last year she had a steady guy she would see 1-2 times per week, always telling me about it when she came home. ( yes I enjoyed many creampies ) but that all ended 8 months ago. since then she has gained some wieght but has been talking about going out danceing again to help her lose wieght.. I am sure this will start her hotwifeing agian.. The only thing is, this time I want it to be with a Black man, Is there any way I can convince her that Black is Better without her knowing?