i'm a 30 white woman from London UK married to a white guy but have this fantasy about taking a black lover, been married for 5 years now and my husband completely takes me for granted, i feel i should have more respect than that, but taking a lover for me would be a big step, i'm not talking about being a group slut or anything just one guy to treat me right and respect my feeling and urges ( don't have a pic yet but soon ok)