Help getting rid of the fetish?

[Jun]

When I first discovered cuckolding a few weeks ago, the idea initially turned me off. But I found myself going back to cuck porn and reading cuck stories and I guess the kink grew on me, maybe the taboo of it is what I found hot. I thought maybe it was just a phase, but since then I've been only jerking off to cuckold porn. I keep having 'cuckold fantasies' where I'm married and my wife begins to sleep around that get more and more intense each time. I tried to quit porn overall because of this but I just couldn't do it. I've been browsing cuckold forums trying to see if anyone has any solutions to this but I couldn't find any, so does anyone have any tips to getting rid of this kink?

 

[2wheel]

Sorry to say you can't get rid of it and all the cuckolding in the world won't suppress it either.

Like herpes - once you have it, you have it.

 

[Jun]

Sorry to say you can't get rid of it and all the cuckolding in the world won't suppress it either.

Like herpes - once you have it, you have it.

I mean, I don't mind cuckolding as a kink, but what I do mind is how overpowering it's become. It's literally all I've been jerking off to for the past 5-6 weeks lol. I read stories about how cuckolding has transformed from a bedroom kink into a lifestyle, which get me insanely turned on but I'm afraid it just fuels the desire for cuckolding.

 

[Robert Smith]

Stop being a whiny bitch. Just stop watching cuck porn or reading about it. Go read a good book,take a walk,or just watch some tv.

 

[Jun]

Stop being a whiny bitch. Just stop watching cuck porn or reading about it. Go read a good book,take a walk,or just watch some tv.

Could be a little less demeaning but thanks for trying. Except for reading books, I've been engaging in activities to take my mind off not just porn, but stress in general. I still keep finding my thoughts wandering to cuckolding, but like I said, hopefully it's just a phase.

 

[Robert Smith]

I apologize for being demanding,but I find that most people just want to sit around and feel sorry for themselves. If you are under stress find a way to deal with it like taking a yoga class,take a walk,do something. There are better way to deal with stress than having a fantasy of your wife being fucked by another man. If none of that works go and have a hot roast beef sandwich with mash potatoes.

BTW,you might like the yoga class. You maybe the only man there. The rest will be women. Take a place in the back and look at all those asses in yoga wear.

 

[Jun]

What exactly are you afraid of anyway? If you enjoy it, do it. Nobody is judging you.

Hmmm. Honestly I can't point out why exactly. Nobody is 'judging' me per se, but the most people don't view cuckoldry with high regard, so that might be a part of the reason why. I think most of it is the feeling of shame after I get off. It's a guilty pleasure, sort of like "wow I really want someone else to fuck my girlfriend." Also there's a part of me that knows if I indulge in this kink further, it'll only get more and more intense and I don't know if I want that.

 

[Robert Smith]

Go off by yourself with a notebook and write down why you find being a cuckold so exciting. Maybe,you find the idea of someone finding your partner sexually desirable a turn on. Underneath this fantasy is a real reason.

 

[Capt. Ron]

Go off by yourself with a notebook and write down why you find being a cuckold so exciting. Maybe,you find the idea of someone finding your partner sexually desirable a turn on. Underneath this fantasy is a real reason.

Jun, Robert Smith just saved you (Jun) a trip to a shrink lol. Seriously, the root of it may be hidden in your past. Think of your childhood and events that shaped your sexuality, especially the impressions and feelings you never tell anyone else about.

I had a smoking fetish and still do, and over time I realized it went back to an experience I had in junior high school. I was sitting at a booth in a roller skating rink when this older girl I had a crush on came up to the table (she was 16 and I was all of 13). She asked me to reach into her bag among the pile there, and get her cigarettes and lighter for her. I was blown away; she was very pretty, a popular “good girl,” and her perfume was heavenly to me. I couldn’t believe she was about to do something so brazen and so much associated with what “bad girls” do. Furious masturbation followed when I got home lol, and I’m still a sucker to this day for any pretty woman I see lighting up. It does help keep it in check, knowing where it came from.

 

[Robert Smith]

Thanks,Capt Ron for being helping me and saving me money from visiting a psychologist. At one time I smoked and drank unlike you I put my cigarettes down and have not smoked in thirty years. I quit drinking in the late eighties. Why don't you take your own advice and act like a grown ass man.

Next time,Capt Ron the next time you want to offer me unsolicited advice keep it to yourself.

 

[Capt. Ron]

Thanks,Capt Ron for being helping me and saving me money from visiting a psychologist. At one time I smoked and drank unlike you I put my cigarettes down and have not smoked in thirty years. I quit drinking in the late eighties. Why don't you take your own advice and act like a grown ass man.

Next time,Capt Ron the next time you want to offer me unsolicited advice keep it to yourself.

Thanks,Capt Ron for being helping me and saving me money from visiting a psychologist. At one time I smoked and drank unlike you I put my cigarettes down and have not smoked in thirty years. I quit drinking in the late eighties. Why don't you take your own advice and act like a grown ass man.

Next time,Capt Ron the next time you want to offer me unsolicited advice keep it to yourself.

I actually intended to reply to the OP, Jun, and was not addressing you or giving you unsolicited advice. I edited the post to make it more clear who my message was aimed at. It’s lost here but I don’t smoke.

 

[Robert Smith]

Captain Ron, thanks for your explanation. Rereading your original post I can see your offer of help. Have a great Saturday.