Hello I am 43 same as my wife, I will in short form tell my story and hopefully with some good pointers become what I desire a cuck. As my wife desires a hot wife as she as told just a change being fucked by another man. We have been married 21 years. I am by know means what I have seen here and avergae cuck. What I mean by that I am a big man in both cock and statue. I am an excelent lover with my wife, about five years ago it happened as we played with handcuffs, while i was cuffed she slid a finger in my ass. By my reaction she hit a nerve, next her mouth sucked on my nipples as my excitment grew the verbal shit started. My God your a faggot look at how hard you are. Imagine the rest very dirty, very hot after a night of drinks. We have graduated slowly over time to her controlling most of actions in bed. Orally, verbally and times hard penetration of my anus. She has used strap ons on me, I have sucked didlos and been fucked by them from her. The whole cuckold theme started over a year ago. I introduced her to it thru emails, sending blogs and posts. Two months ago she even went out alone as she said the next day to call my bluff. To understadn us 25 years ago when we met I was the jealous guy, often beating up any prospects for dates she had. Till she was mine. Well when she came home that night I still swear she has the scent of cologne on her when she got home. She called at about 3 oclock am that night and said get a strong drink ready for me cuck, I have done what you wanted. When I met her at the door with a kiss on her neck she saw how excited I was. She called me a sick fuck and slammed the door of our bedroom. I spent the night alone. Not the reaction i thought id get. All was forgiven the next day as we kidded around about what she did. She loves to play the role but swears she could never do it. She flirts openly in bars but always the other men see me and often without brag get very nervous at my presence. Our love life is now totally in everyway controlled by her. Including panties and some house cleaning and the new one shes started is me cleaning up after myself after she feeds my own ejaculation. getting called a bitch cuck as I eat her or getting called a fag as I fuck her does turn me on her on. Three weeks back as we lay playing with eachother during foreplay i said it, if you dont cuck me soon I will find another woman to do it. All stopped imediately as she got up and said once again. your fucked up your my husband and your telling me if I dont fuck another youll leave me. Another long nught alone in bed for all the wrong reasons. The next she shared her fear with me, If she fucks another man I will leave her!!!! heres a strong beautiful woman that has taken over my entire soul and she says this. I repsonded very strongly i wouldnt, she said even your response has a strong sence of rejection!!!!! What i said Id do anythong for this, next i knew she was telling me to lower my pants and bend over the bed. I follwed her order and next i knew she ws fingering me and telling me jerk off as she called me every name in the book. When I came she said your a bitch only to me i know that, thats why i wont fuck a man. if I do youll end up in jail me miserable and your kids fatherless. now clean your cum off the sheets bitch and change the sheets. I did know here we are still stuck in a fanatsy based in my own cuckness. I know she dereives much pleasure from this but how how how can I get her to the next step. What can I do !!!!!!!! To get her to the next step. please only real responses from being on here awhile Ive seen the sarcasm, just looking for help.
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Getting wife to fuck with other men.
I will try to help you. First of all, make your messages easier to read. You need to break them up into paragraphs, and use some more punctuation and quotation marks. I am not criticising; only trying to help you.
You probably can't get your wife to fuck with other men by asking her. You need to set-up a natural situation, in which she can decide to fuck with another guy and even feel like she is hurting you in the process. That is the way some women are.
I have found that a good place to set-up a wife with other men is a nudist club. There, everyone is naked, so the other men can see what her tits and pussy look like, and she can see which guys have the biggest dicks. If she is attractive, I can nearly guarantee you that some other men will come around to you and ask if they can fuck her. If they do, give them permission to try to get her cooperation.
Good luck! As many on this site know, there is no thrill to equaly watching another man fuck your own wife! Go for it!
I will try to help you. First of all, make your messages easier to read. You need to break them up into paragraphs, and use some more punctuation and quotation marks. I am not criticising; only trying to help you.
You probably can't get your wife to fuck with other men by asking her. You need to set-up a natural situation, in which she can decide to fuck with another guy and even feel like she is hurting you in the process. That is the way some women are.
I have found that a good place to set-up a wife with other men is a nudist club. There, everyone is naked, so the other men can see what her tits and pussy look like, and she can see which guys have the biggest dicks. If she is attractive, I can nearly guarantee you that some other men will come around to you and ask if they can fuck her. If they do, give them permission to try to get her cooperation.
Good luck! As many on this site know, there is no thrill to equaly watching another man fuck your own wife! Go for it!
Thank you Son of John. Yes my typing was indeed off lol was very nervous about doing this post and did a little rambling. As far as a nudist club I could only wish, my wife is indeed very jealous of me when it comes to other women. The thought of her ever letting me show myself to another woman is not an option even in a nudist camp. I did not add in my first post I think she uses this fantasy of mine to keep me in check. I thank you for taking the time to answer this post and honestly I will give it a shot and ask her if shed like to go.
Getting wife to fuck with other men.
You can use her jealousy of you to your own advantage. Get in situations where other men show attention to her and pretend to be stressed. Help her to understand that she attracts other men, and that you are a bit uncomfortable with it. If she feels like she can hurt you a little, it may progress on to a point somewhere that she will let some other guy fuck her, just to embarrass you, or make you jealous. Good Luck!
You can use her jealousy of you to your own advantage. Get in situations where other men show attention to her and pretend to be stressed. Help her to understand that she attracts other men, and that you are a bit uncomfortable with it. If she feels like she can hurt you a little, it may progress on to a point somewhere that she will let some other guy fuck her, just to embarrass you, or make you jealous. Good Luck!
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This Saturday as me and my wife played, she asked me of my real intentions if i was serious about this. She made me get out of bed and get a paper and pen. She asked me to write out what I wanted in short form. She had me add as a ps I could never ask for a divorce because of this act. We both signed and as of tonight Monday she gave it back to me. She said she doesnt need a sheet of paper she knows she owns me. Im not sure what to do she saw me fold up and slip in wallet and said you cant even throw it out or burn it can you Bitch. So she now sleeps as I wonder will it ever happen.
This Saturday as me and my wife played, she asked me of my real intentions if i was serious about this. She made me get out of bed and get a paper and pen. She asked me to write out what I wanted in short form. She had me add as a ps I could never ask for a divorce because of this act. We both signed and as of tonight Monday she gave it back to me. She said she doesnt need a sheet of paper she knows she owns me. Im not sure what to do she saw me fold up and slip in wallet and said you cant even throw it out or burn it can you Bitch. So she now sleeps as I wonder will it ever happen.
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My full intentions of having my wife cuck me, she has known about now for over 9 months. She has spoken with several men on here and continues to speak of cucking me every weekend when we play. We have spoken of another man fucking her for over 5 years while in heats of passion. But as I said shes known of my true feelings and has had my blessing for months. My question is if any cucks can tell me is how much longer !!!!!!! I am getting impatient and shes been out twice but still hasnt gone for it. I speak of it in one or another almost everyday and she does also. It has gone from the bedroom on weekends to an everyday thought for both of us. She does this by saying things like come here bitch and slapping me on the ass. She comes in the bathroom when I pee and says sit down like a bitch that pathetic cock of yours shoudlnt be used like a real man. About four times a week she calls me into the bedroom and tells me to lower my pants and jerk myself off as she calls me faggot and cuck till I cum. It seems like she ready but still no result. Again just wondering if any other cucks can tell me how much longer. i know it might be different for everyone but please just an idea. THX
Subhubny
My full intentions of having my wife cuck me, she has known about now for over 9 months. She has spoken with several men on here and continues to speak of cucking me every weekend when we play. We have spoken of another man fucking her for over 5 years while in heats of passion. But as I said shes known of my true feelings and has had my blessing for months. My question is if any cucks can tell me is how much longer !!!!!!! I am getting impatient and shes been out twice but still hasnt gone for it. I speak of it in one or another almost everyday and she does also. It has gone from the bedroom on weekends to an everyday thought for both of us. She does this by saying things like come here bitch and slapping me on the ass. She comes in the bathroom when I pee and says sit down like a bitch that pathetic cock of yours shoudlnt be used like a real man. About four times a week she calls me into the bedroom and tells me to lower my pants and jerk myself off as she calls me faggot and cuck till I cum. It seems like she ready but still no result. Again just wondering if any other cucks can tell me how much longer. i know it might be different for everyone but please just an idea. THX
Subhubny
Here are some ref's that may be of assistance to you...
Subhubny,
See the 8-part article that starts here:
» A Wife Into A Hotwife Hot Wife Blog - hotwife and cuckold husband fetish discussion
It's a subpage (so to speak) of this site, which you might consider pointing out to your wife:
Hot Wife Blog - hotwife and cuckold husband fetish discussion
You might also consider pointing out this site to your wife:
The Magazine of Cuckolding For Women
It may assist her in taking the concept of cuckolding you more seriously.
Your post indicates your relationship with your wife has taken on at least some of the characteristics of a FemDom marriage, and suggests your wife has grown to accept this. Cuckolding of the submissive husband by his dominant wife is often a characteristic of FemDom marriages (or so it seems), so I would suggest you refer to Ms. Elise Sutton's web page
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
and order her two books (both available in paperback from well-known online distributors), which are prominently advertised near the beginning of her web page. These books provide what might be called formalistic frameworks for FemDom marriages which can grow to include cuckolding.
You might want to read them yourself, and also Ms. Sutton's web page, before encouraging your wife to read them.
Good luck!
Custer
Subhubny,
See the 8-part article that starts here:
» A Wife Into A Hotwife Hot Wife Blog - hotwife and cuckold husband fetish discussion
It's a subpage (so to speak) of this site, which you might consider pointing out to your wife:
Hot Wife Blog - hotwife and cuckold husband fetish discussion
You might also consider pointing out this site to your wife:
The Magazine of Cuckolding For Women
It may assist her in taking the concept of cuckolding you more seriously.
Your post indicates your relationship with your wife has taken on at least some of the characteristics of a FemDom marriage, and suggests your wife has grown to accept this. Cuckolding of the submissive husband by his dominant wife is often a characteristic of FemDom marriages (or so it seems), so I would suggest you refer to Ms. Elise Sutton's web page
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page
and order her two books (both available in paperback from well-known online distributors), which are prominently advertised near the beginning of her web page. These books provide what might be called formalistic frameworks for FemDom marriages which can grow to include cuckolding.
You might want to read them yourself, and also Ms. Sutton's web page, before encouraging your wife to read them.
Good luck!
Custer
Your wife may have to pursue her career as your cuckoldress without you....
Subhubny,
Having said the above, and given your self-description:
Your wife, should she decide she wants to step up to the status of cuckoldress, may find it difficult or impossible to find lovers among those who know or are acquainted with both of you, or have some awareness of who you are.
Rather, she may have to seek lovers in social settings where she can become acquainted with men who don't know you. If you live in or near a large city (New York?), this would probably not be a problem. If you live in a small town (somewhere in upstate New York?), it could be a significant problem.
Since you've found your presence intimidates men your wife is flirting with in bars, you may have to reconcile yourself to letting her pursue her career as your cuckoldress without you, and be satisfied with the stories (and other evidence) of her sexual adventures she brings home.
—Custer
Subhubny,
Having said the above, and given your self-description:
subhubny said:
Your wife, should she decide she wants to step up to the status of cuckoldress, may find it difficult or impossible to find lovers among those who know or are acquainted with both of you, or have some awareness of who you are.
Rather, she may have to seek lovers in social settings where she can become acquainted with men who don't know you. If you live in or near a large city (New York?), this would probably not be a problem. If you live in a small town (somewhere in upstate New York?), it could be a significant problem.
Since you've found your presence intimidates men your wife is flirting with in bars, you may have to reconcile yourself to letting her pursue her career as your cuckoldress without you, and be satisfied with the stories (and other evidence) of her sexual adventures she brings home.
—Custer
thx
Custer I want to thankyou for your advice. I have sent them all to her email. Hoping she will read tonight. Thanks again so much I have the feeling what you said tho will be the way it happens. I dont think she will ever be capable of doing it front of me. If thats the way it has to be then it will be. thanks
Subhubny
Custer I want to thankyou for your advice. I have sent them all to her email. Hoping she will read tonight. Thanks again so much I have the feeling what you said tho will be the way it happens. I dont think she will ever be capable of doing it front of me. If thats the way it has to be then it will be. thanks
Subhubny
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i do have another idea...dono if it will work but i think it will in deed
bring her black stud and tell her that he is a masseur (Massage Man)....in fact she is need for it anyhow you can convince her....
make a deal with the stud that...start with her as masseur and then start seducing her step by step...as you watching her
then let him give her a very good fuck while you watch....so at end this will be suddenly and natural.....
what my friends custer and son of john said was so perfect..but i just wanted to add something could help you enjoy watching her jumping on big black cock...where after you can enjoy cleaning
can you post some pics for her ...even without face no prob.
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Subhubny,
You're welcome.
Excellent! Maybe your wife will begin to realize that not all married men, including you, are like the popular stereotype of the "macho but possessive and insecure" husband.
Good. You seem to be enlightened with respect to your wife and her needs, and to have a solid feeling for what you want and are willing to accept. There seems also to be no doubt you have moved beyond the days when you beat the shit out of competitors for your (now) wife's attentions. (Obviously you won... but I'm sure you understand those days must be hard for your wife to forget.)
I hope this works out well for both of you.
—Custer
* BTW, you might refer your wife to the post by "StrongCuckold" and subsequent replies. It dates from March '07 but drew two new replies today, so it is among today's posts — i.e., at http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/general-cuckoldry/3978-new-fantasy.html
Subhubny,
subhubny said:
You're welcome.
subhubny said:
Excellent! Maybe your wife will begin to realize that not all married men, including you, are like the popular stereotype of the "macho but possessive and insecure" husband.
subhubny said:
Good. You seem to be enlightened with respect to your wife and her needs, and to have a solid feeling for what you want and are willing to accept. There seems also to be no doubt you have moved beyond the days when you beat the shit out of competitors for your (now) wife's attentions. (Obviously you won... but I'm sure you understand those days must be hard for your wife to forget.)
I hope this works out well for both of you.
—Custer
* BTW, you might refer your wife to the post by "StrongCuckold" and subsequent replies. It dates from March '07 but drew two new replies today, so it is among today's posts — i.e., at http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/general-cuckoldry/3978-new-fantasy.html
thx
Custer again Thank you have sent her that also. I do know she was up late last night alone. I intentionally went to bed early. Its about 9.00 am here in Newyork and she still sleeps. I will just be quiet today and not ask if she went to any cuck sights. But have a feeling she was on cuckshare.com watching some flicks I bet : ]
Thanks again
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Custer again Thank you have sent her that also. I do know she was up late last night alone. I intentionally went to bed early. Its about 9.00 am here in Newyork and she still sleeps. I will just be quiet today and not ask if she went to any cuck sights. But have a feeling she was on cuckshare.com watching some flicks I bet : ]
Thanks again
p.s. If anyone reading this thread enjoys free cuck vids go check out cuckshare its awesome, also cuckoldspace by Dcgohard si also excellent. His web as is cuckoldspace.ning.com
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quite sometime
Hello all,
Its been quite sometime that this fantasy me and my wife have might finally come to life. We are going away this weekend and when we played this weekend in bed I asked her if she should buy some condoms for when we are away. In her playfull way she said yes of course with all the cock I am going to get I better!!!!! Asked her last night if she bought them yet and she smiled and said no Im looking for some special ones. Got call today at work from her and in a serious voice she said "look in your dresser draw when you get home tonight and if you pack them when we go away, there is a strong possibility what you want will happen" I then asked baby are you sure and she said yes but hes gotta be good looking and I have to be wasted. Well im home and took this pic of what she got, Glow in the dark condoms........ I am at the sametime both nervous and excited. Where will it go from here. Heading to Atlantic City saturday. Will keep you informed.
Hello all,
Its been quite sometime that this fantasy me and my wife have might finally come to life. We are going away this weekend and when we played this weekend in bed I asked her if she should buy some condoms for when we are away. In her playfull way she said yes of course with all the cock I am going to get I better!!!!! Asked her last night if she bought them yet and she smiled and said no Im looking for some special ones. Got call today at work from her and in a serious voice she said "look in your dresser draw when you get home tonight and if you pack them when we go away, there is a strong possibility what you want will happen" I then asked baby are you sure and she said yes but hes gotta be good looking and I have to be wasted. Well im home and took this pic of what she got, Glow in the dark condoms........ I am at the sametime both nervous and excited. Where will it go from here. Heading to Atlantic City saturday. Will keep you informed.
