I recently had a discussion with my wife about growers vs showers. I was surprised she was somewhat oblivious to the terms. I had to explain that locker room days in high school were always embarrassing for most boys. I distinctly remember the few showers from HS and certainly the very small potential growers that I happened to glance at in the locker room. I was always insecure about the “soft” size of my penis but soon learned that the hard erect penis seemed somewhat acceptable. I am a crossdresser so the soft side helps when I wear panties and have a very small bulge. I’ve attached photos if anyone cares to discuss this topic.