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I've been persuading wifey to try someone else for a few years now and she's always enjoyed the fantasy but never taken it much past kissing and feeling up guys in clubs (which she has always enjoyed). However, things have progressed rapidly over the past 3 days with very little input from myself.
She phoned an old flame (who she met when she was in her early 20s) just after Christmas to catch up. They chatted and caught up and she thought nothing more of it (she liked him all those years ago). Then, 3 days ago, some heavy flirting started through text messages. We have had a lot of snow here and he was asking her what they would do to past the time if they were snowed in - she responded that the would have a lot of fun. After a few texts he is telling my wife that he would like to taste her and really 'tear her apart'. This has just rocked her world and at first, she got completely carried away (this is the first day remember).
She texted back all sorts of naughty things she would like to do to him (naughty being her thing). He texted her about being hard most of the day thinking about her and then masturbating thinking about what he would like to do to her. Before long, we are in bed and she is fantasising about him. This time, she is happy to role play me being him and her thinking about what she can say to him to turn him on further.
The next day she is full of guilt (it's a religion thing). She writes an email to him telling him how much she enjoyed the previous day's flirting but that it's gone from 0-60 too quickly. She also told him that when she had sex with me (hubby) she climaxed by thinking of him. She also tells him that her life is complicated at the moment and although she loves the thought of them together, she can't cope with a relationship or anything (basically telling him she doesn't want to leave her family or anything).
He writes back and tells her that he wants her even more and is even more explicit. This is day 3 now - and she's really up for it. I asked her what she thought about being 'torn apart' and she says she loves it. They've discussed the rough sex that she wants and he will give her and how I'm too gentle. Currently she is 80-20 (out of 100) in favour of meeting up with him and is looking at hotels (which she told me I must pay for). I'm wildly excited about the thought that she will finally have another experience and come back and share it with me.
I'm not really seeking any advice here - just wanted to share the enjoyment and let others know that patience is the best way of letting her find her way. I had given up on anything this exciting happening about a year ago, but low and behold this jumps out at us. She is really happy at the thought of being with him and is excited at the communication she's having with him. Even now, she checks her phone and emails regularly to see what the latest saucy message tells her to do.
Anyway, will keep you updated on the journey and let you know if this one goes all the way.
She phoned an old flame (who she met when she was in her early 20s) just after Christmas to catch up. They chatted and caught up and she thought nothing more of it (she liked him all those years ago). Then, 3 days ago, some heavy flirting started through text messages. We have had a lot of snow here and he was asking her what they would do to past the time if they were snowed in - she responded that the would have a lot of fun. After a few texts he is telling my wife that he would like to taste her and really 'tear her apart'. This has just rocked her world and at first, she got completely carried away (this is the first day remember).
She texted back all sorts of naughty things she would like to do to him (naughty being her thing). He texted her about being hard most of the day thinking about her and then masturbating thinking about what he would like to do to her. Before long, we are in bed and she is fantasising about him. This time, she is happy to role play me being him and her thinking about what she can say to him to turn him on further.
The next day she is full of guilt (it's a religion thing). She writes an email to him telling him how much she enjoyed the previous day's flirting but that it's gone from 0-60 too quickly. She also told him that when she had sex with me (hubby) she climaxed by thinking of him. She also tells him that her life is complicated at the moment and although she loves the thought of them together, she can't cope with a relationship or anything (basically telling him she doesn't want to leave her family or anything).
He writes back and tells her that he wants her even more and is even more explicit. This is day 3 now - and she's really up for it. I asked her what she thought about being 'torn apart' and she says she loves it. They've discussed the rough sex that she wants and he will give her and how I'm too gentle. Currently she is 80-20 (out of 100) in favour of meeting up with him and is looking at hotels (which she told me I must pay for). I'm wildly excited about the thought that she will finally have another experience and come back and share it with me.
I'm not really seeking any advice here - just wanted to share the enjoyment and let others know that patience is the best way of letting her find her way. I had given up on anything this exciting happening about a year ago, but low and behold this jumps out at us. She is really happy at the thought of being with him and is excited at the communication she's having with him. Even now, she checks her phone and emails regularly to see what the latest saucy message tells her to do.
Anyway, will keep you updated on the journey and let you know if this one goes all the way.
