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Getting wife to talk about former lovers

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Have any of you husbands had much luck getting your wives to tell about the guys who fucked her before you? Will she give the details, such as how many, how often, how big they were, etc.?

I have found that the best time to get a woman to talk is when she is close to cumming. Then she will really let it out.
 
Susan always tells me to shut up when she is close to cumming! She prefers to concentrate on the physical sensations rather then the mental stimulation. I, of course, love it when she talks about her past lovers when I am close to cumming.

It works out pretty well since she is "never" close to cumming when I am. On the nights she wishes to orgasm she will dismiss me from the room and use her toy. She leaves the toy under my pillow so that when I come to bed I usually find it with the back of my head. Finding it turns me on so much that if I am lucky I can wake her and get "a quicky" and if really lucky she will one of her old lovers or tease me about finding someone new.
 
My wife was a virgin!

Son of John said:
Have any of you husbands had much luck getting your wives to tell about the guys who fucked her before you? Will she give the details, such as how many, how often, how big they were, etc.?

I have found that the best time to get a woman to talk is when she is close to cumming. Then she will really let it out.

Since my wife was supposed to be a virgin when we met, I was never able to find out any details - from her - about her sexual exploits before me.

It was only through much counselling and sexual therapy I ever got any details of her cuckolds and only a few at that. She knew it turned me on to hear but she felt it wrong for her to divulge these details.
 
i've have full disclosore number times sizes thresomes ect... and she was 18 when i married her she had 15 guys before me one was 34 she was 14 she still has sex on ocassion with him today. what they say about preachers daughters is true:D
 
Full disclosure

jbrowning said:
i've have full disclosore number times sizes thresomes ect... and she was 18 when i married her she had 15 guys before me one was 34 she was 14 she still has sex on ocassion with him today. what they say about preachers daughters is true:D

Must be hot for you when she shares so much, I do envy you! But then maybe she knows it turns you on and won't hurt you to find out how sex was good with them, for me I eventually knew how bad I was for her.
 
it works out pretty good we learn new stuff all the time. she is currently right now on a plane on her way home from a visit to one of her b/f.they spent the weekend as a coulpe not only sex but spending time together dating ect... she will have alot to tell me about.funny thing is everyone of her b/fs pretty much are freaks of nature size wise this guy was around 10 inches and decently thick but every one of her guy freinds are between 8 and 11 inches.before we started i thought i was doing good at 6 1/4:rolleyes:
 
Always bigger than you

jbrowning said:
it works out pretty good we learn new stuff all the time. she is currently right now on a plane on her way home from a visit to one of her b/f.they spent the weekend as a coulpe not only sex but spending time together dating ect... she will have alot to tell me about.funny thing is everyone of her b/fs pretty much are freaks of nature size wise this guy was around 10 inches and decently thick but every one of her guy freinds are between 8 and 11 inches.before we started i thought i was doing good at 6 1/4:rolleyes:

How doyou feel knowing she chooses guys who are so much bigger than you?

Do you feel she chooses their size to fuck her better than she can get from you?

I say this because my wife only chose guys with really big cocks, not just bigger than me but much bigger, because they always fucked her to orgasm. She would even feel them up in public to make sure they measured up for her. Some of the cocks she's had were thicker than I was long!
 
Mile high club

jbrowning said:
it works out pretty good we learn new stuff all the time. she is currently right now on a plane on her way home from a visit to one of her b/f.they spent the weekend as a coulpe not only sex but spending time together dating ect... she will have alot to tell me about.funny thing is everyone of her b/fs pretty much are freaks of nature size wise this guy was around 10 inches and decently thick but every one of her guy freinds are between 8 and 11 inches.before we started i thought i was doing good at 6 1/4:rolleyes:

Since she flies quite a bit, has she ever introduced you to a guy in the airport who fucked her on her flight home? Has she ever gone into the Restroom on her return and asked you to eat her out or the hood of your car in th airport parking lot?

Sorry just past experiences of mine! Wondering if your wife cucks you in similar ways?
 
no were kind of picky on partners. if she met a guy though for a quicky id be fine with it.sex is fun for us not a tool to beat each other with.i'd love it if something like that would happen. given the realationship were in now she is constantly looking and she'll let me know which ones she likes:D
 
Travelled on business

jbrowning said:
no were kind of picky on partners. if she met a guy though for a quicky id be fine with it.sex is fun for us not a tool to beat each other with.i'd love it if something like that would happen. given the realationship were in now she is constantly looking and she'll let me know which ones she likes:D

Happened us a few times as my wife travelled quite a bit on business. I also found out a couple of times her soon to be husband travelled back on her flight and did her so she could have me eat his cum out of her.
 
This thread has gotten off track, as so many do. The original question is do you husbands have any luck getting your wives to tell you about the guys who fucked her before you?

For me, it is highly exciting to hear my wife tell about the guys who fucked her. And she knows that I am not jealous. She knows I am glad she has enjoyed all those fucks, and that I only want to be a part of it.

Even better than hearing my wife tell about the men who fucked her is hearing from the men themselves. I have been lucky enough to talk with four different guys who have fucked my wife, including her first husband. I love to hear those words "when I fucked your wife!"
 
As I've posted elsewhere (but always turns me on to post it again) - I knew several guys who either were still fucking her or had fucked her when Sue and I first started dating.

The guys all told me that - first and most importantly (early 1980's before AIDS was a concern) was that she was on the pill and that she liked (loved?) guys to cum in her. That was a turn-on for me as I was getting over my own divorce (Sue had been divorced a year or two earlier) and I remember not wanting to deal with condoms.
The second thing they all said was that if she liked you - she'd fuck on the first date. That turned me on too - we were sort of work-friends before the guys pushed us together so I knew pretty well that I'd get laid on that first date.

For the next few weeks/months until we got more serious with each other I would hear some of the guys talking who were still fucking her - at times I would join in and share my own info about when we'd be out. Over those few months though, we got more serious about each other and - back then - she shut out the other guys and we were exclusive for the next almost 25 years until last year!

Until I left working there maybe a year or two later, it always turned me on to know that at least 4 or 5 other guys at work had all fucked her multiple times. Early on I remember being very aroused when I'd hear someone joking how he'd been with her the night before and I'd see her walking around and even way back then, it turned me on to know she probably still had his cum in her the next day.

I guess it's no surprise that after 25 years that some of this finally came out into the open. She's told me about most of them now - including some times when she had been with 2 different guys in one day (this was, as I said, back in the 80's and things were different - we were young and it wasn't uncommon to mess around during lunchtime if you went out - long lunches were well tolerated - most people drank at lunch - many people would openly smoke the funny stuff - kind of a wonder any work got done at all....).

Sue's also told me a lot about her ex-husband. What positions he used to like. What she used to like to do with him. But she says he was a prude and to him it was a horror for her to even think about wanting to go to a nude beach. So, other than the straight forward suck and fuck stuff, it's not all that interesting.

She did share about some lesbian experiences she had in college. She said she could never do anything to another woman in terms of licking or that, but she told me how on at least 2 occasions, she let another girl go down on her (including one time after her boyfriend had fucked her earlier).

Ah - wouldn't want to forget - she also shared with me, several times, about this guy named Tony (I think) who used to fuck her ass in college. She says he had a VERY thin cock (much thinner than mine or anyone else she's been with) such that it didn't hurt her at all - she says for several weeks/months when she dated him, that was all he liked to do to her (she jokes with me now that he was too thin to get much stimulation from her pussy!).

I think that sums it up. And of course I know Brad has had his fun with her - but he and I have never really talked at all. I do have the letter Sue wrote to me though that makes it clear how she felt with him.
 
Soontobe, your comment about your wife suggesting to her ex that they go to a nude beach, and his reaction of negativity, reminded me of something in my own experience. My wife and I have gone to nudist clubs and beaches several times. It has been very exciting for me to see her walk about completely naked while the other men stare at her tits and pussy, and, no doubt, fantasize about fucking her.

Once I told her Ex that we had gone to a nudist club, and he was very surprised. First of all he was surprised that she would go, and then surprised that I would take her there. It just goes to show that we all have different standards about different practices. He had once passed her on to his cousin to fuck, which did not seem as extreme as showing her naked to lots of other men.

He said "I can't believe she'd do that!" But after he got over the shock, he did seem to be stimulated about the fact that so many other men had seen "our" pussy naked.
 
In the days before I became a full-fledged cuck, my wife would tell me about her former lovers during foreplay, going into great detail about their fucking sessions, cock size, with the idea being that her telling me what a dirty little slut she was would turn me on. Ironically, it did, but not because of her necessarily, but because all the talk about her partners (especially their big dicks) would turn me on to no end. Unfortunately, this was in the early years of our marriage, and she had no idea of my bi-curiosity, or my fantasies to see her fucked by other men.

The guy she'd been engaged to for a couple of years before we met was supposedly gifted with a 10-inch, uncut cock, which earned him the nickname "Elephant Man", and she was so infatuated by his dick, she told me she even had polaroids of it next to household objects, coke cans, her little arm, etc.

You wouldn't believe how many times I went through her dresser drawers, hoping that she'd saved those fucking pictures!
 
From a woman's point of view

Son of John said:
Have any of you husbands had much luck getting your wives to tell about the guys who fucked her before you? Will she give the details, such as how many, how often, how big they were, etc.?

I have found that the best time to get a woman to talk is when she is close to cumming. Then she will really let it out.

From a woman's point of view....

The best time to ask is when we are in a state of arousal, preferably after a few drinks too. Drinks help loosen up.

Before you ask about her past, make sure you really want to know as she may let loose and reveal stuff you never suspected. Even quiet and conservative girls have wild side. You have to keep her in a state of sexual arousal and make her feel good and comfortable. If you get angry or go on a jealous rampage or start judging her and calling her ***** or other names this will make her not want to talk about it.

At first she will be embarrassed and very vague. Its up to you to put her at ease and get the details out of her. Finger her, kiss her neck, stroke your penis while she tells you what happened. This will make her feel at ease. When she says something vague like "we had sex" ask her how, what position, was there any foreplay. She may not think to talk about these details and you asking her and kissing her, fingering her and rubbing one off while you listen re-assures her that you want to hear and that you are not getting angry or jealous.
 
The only thing I can remember prior to having sex with my husband was "You want what to go in my mouth you pee out of that thing" and that was told to my husband. I was a virgin when we met:D
cuckoldinpanties said:
My wife and I married VERY young. Those stories are almost non exsistant. However, she has MANY stories since we have been together.
 
I will admit that I have tried, with some success, to locate and talk with the men who fucked my wife before me. In some cases, the guys were shocked, and even embarrassed and had trouble even admitting that they had fucked her, but as soon as they realized I wasn't upset about the fact they had fucked her, they usually opened up and were very glad to tell me, in great detail, just how they had enjoyed fuckiing her.

While it is exciting to hear a wife tell about the guys who fucked her, it is even more exciting to hear it from the guys, themselves. I love to hear the words from another guy "When I fucked your wife!"
 
We would lay in bed at night and I would ask her questions.Some nights she was very open others she wasn't. I finaly wore her down little at a time and got all the details.
 

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